Izindlela Zokuphatha Ukuziphatha Kwabantwana ku-Fourth Grade
Iminyaka engu-9 ibonisa ukuqala kweminyaka emaphakathi-leyo nkathi yesikhashana phakathi kokungane nokukhula. Kuyinto esingaba nzima izingane, kanye nabazali bazo.
Iningi elineminyaka engu-9 ubudala lifuna ukubonakala likhulile. Bafuna ukufihla amathoyizi "amantombazane" lapho abangane babo befika kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, besengesaba ukwesaba.
Kubazali, kungaba yisikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi sokuyala.
Kubalulekile ukunikeza inkululeko yakho nenkululeko yakho eneminyaka engu-9 ngenkathi uhlinzeka ngeziqondiso eziningi kanye nokusiza ngezandla.
Ukuziphatha Okudala Okuyiminyaka Engu-9
Abaningi abaneminyaka engu-9 bafuna ukuthola amanye amalungelo avela ekukhuleni. Bangase bafune ukudayisa amathoyizi abo nge-smartphone futhi bangase bakhethe ukudlala nabangani kude nezindlebe zabazali babo. Kodwa, abanakho amakhono okuphatha umthwalo omkhulu kakhulu.
Isifiso sabo sokuba nomthwalo wemfanelo ongaphezulu singabangela ukungqubuzana. Bangase babe ngxabano futhi abaneminyaka engu-9 baziwa ngokucela futhi bekhala uma bengayitholi indlela yabo.
Nokho, ngalesi sikhathi, kufanele baqonde kahle imigomo yomphakathi. Lokhu kungavimbela izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha emphakathini ngakho ngeke kubonakale bezenza phambi kwabangane babo. Ngokuvamile abazali baqala ukuziphatha kabi ekhaya.
Amasu Akulungisa Ukulungiswa Kwabaneminyaka Engu-9
Kubalulekile ukunikeza ingane yakho ukwesekwa okudingekayo ukuba enze ukukhetha okunempilo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umnike amathuba okwenza izinto eyedwa, noma ngabe kusho ukuthi ingane yakho izohluleka ngezinye izikhathi.
Nanka amasu okuziphatha okusebenza kahle asebenza kahle nabantwana abaneminyaka engu-9 ubudala.
Abangu-13 abaningi balwa nezimpikiswano zokuzimela. Bangase bakhathazeke ngezimo ezicindezelayo futhi bangase bakhathazeke ngokuthi abanye bawaqonda kanjani.
Nikeza ukudumisa kwangempela ngemizamo yakho eneminyaka engu-9 ubudala futhi uzoqinisa ukuzethemba kwakhe nokusebenzisa indumiso ukumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke ezama, afunde kanzima futhi enze konke okusemandleni akhe.
2. Faka ingane yakho ngesikhathi sokuphuma
Thumela umfana oneminyaka engu-9 ukuphuma naye ukuze amsize aqede lapho ethukuthele noma lapho kudingeka acabange ngezenzo zakhe. Isikhathi sokuphuma kwamaminithi angu-9 sifaneleka oneminyaka engu-9 ubudala. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi uyisebenzisa kancane, noma uzolahlekelwa ukusebenza kwayo.
Futhi yenze kucace kumntanakho ukuthi unelungelo lokuzibeka ngesikhathi sokuphuma ngaphambi kokuba angene enkingeni. Uma ephazamisekile noma ecasulayo, angaya ekamelweni lakhe eyedwa ngaphambi kokuba enze okuthile okumenza angene enkingeni.
3. Sebenzisa uMthetho Wesiyalo Somkhulu
Ukubusa kukaGogo kuyithuluzi elihle labantwana abaneminyaka engu-9 ubudala. Ngokusebenzisa ushintsho olucashile ngendlela okhuluma ngayo into, ungenza umphumela ube umvuzo.
Ngakho kunokuba uthi, "Awukwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle ngoba ikamelo lakho liyinkimbinkimbi," uthi, "Ungadlala ngaphandle uma usuqedile ukuhlanza ikamelo lakho." Khona-ke, ingane yakho izofunda ukuthi inamandla okuthola amalungelo ngenxa yokukhetha kwakhe okuhle.
4. Nikeza Imiphumela Ehlelekile
Imiphumela eqondakalayo ingasebenza kakhulu nabantwana abaneminyaka engu-9 ubudala. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-9 ingasuki ikhompyutha uma umtshele ukuthi akwenze kanjalo, thatha amalungelo akhe ekhompiyutha emahoreni angu-24 alandelayo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uyokwenza kangcono isikhathi esizayo lapho imiphumela isho ngokucacile nokuziphatha kwakhe okungalungile.
Uma kuphephile ukwenza kanjalo, vumela imiphumela yemvelo. Ngeminyaka engu-9, izingane eziningi zingaxhuma amachashazi phakathi kokukhetha kwabo nemiphumela.
Ngakho uma kubanda ngaphandle, ungagcizelela ukuthi ugqoke ijazi. Umphumela wemvelo uyozizwa ebandayo. Futhi ukufunda emaphutheni akhe kungamfundisa izifundo ezibalulekile zokuphila.
6. Yakha uhlelo lwe-Token Economy System
Lona unyaka omuhle wesistimu yezomnotho we-token njengoba iningi elineminyaka engu-9 ubudala likhuthazwa kakhulu ukuthola amalungelo amasha. Uhlelo lwezomnotho lwe-token lungasetshenziselwa ukubhekisisa izinkinga ezithile zokuziphatha futhi lungashukumisela ingane yakho ukuba ibe nesibopho esiphezulu.
Yakha uhlelo lwezomnotho olubonakalayo oluvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ithole ama-chips noma amathokheni wokuziphatha okuhle. Khona-ke, mvumele ukuba ahanjiswe lawo mathokheni ngamalungelo, njengesikhathi esisekhompyutheni yakhe noma ithuba lokuhamba ngokukhethekile.
Lapho ingane yakho ibonisa izinkinga zokuziphatha eziqondile, hlala phansi nenkinga-ukuxazulula le nkinga ndawonye. Ngeminyaka engu-9, izingane eziningi zinganikeza izixazululo zokudala futhi zingathembeka kakhulu ngalokho okuzosiza ukuxazulula inkinga.
Ngakho buza imibuzo enjengale, "Lesi yisikhathi sesithathu okhohliwe umsebenzi wesikole. Yini engakusiza ukhumbule?" Bese, sebenzani ndawonye ukuthola amasu angasiza ingane yakho ithuthuke.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Iminyaka yokuqala phakathi kwesikhathi yisikhathi esibucayi sokuqala ukunikeza ingane yakho imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi. Lindela ukuba abe nomthwalo wemfanelo futhi uma elwa, zibheke ithuba lokubafundisa ukwenza isikhathi esilandelayo kangcono.
Uneminyaka embalwa nje ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ibe yintsha, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi banamakhono okuphila abazodinga ukubhekana nemithwalo yemfanelo yokuba ngumfana osemusha.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry: Isiyalo.
> Izikhungo Zokulawulwa Nokuvimbela Izifo: Ubuntwana Ephakathi (iminyaka engu-9-11 yobudala).
> Michigan State University Extension: 9 kuya ku-11 ubudala: Iminyaka nezinyathelo zokuthuthukiswa kwentsha.