Ubani ekamelweni lokulethwa ngokuphelele kuwe
Ikamelo lokubambisana nokubeletha ngesikhathi sokubeletha kwakuvame ukukhawulelwa kumama olindelekile nabachwepheshe bezokwelapha. Okuningi kushintshile eminyakeni embalwa edlule, nabesifazane abathile bakhetha ukuyeka isibhedlela ngokugcwele isikhungo se-birthing noma isipiliyoni sokuzalwa ekhaya . Uma unquma ukuba nomntwana wakho noma kuphi ngaphandle komuzi, noma kunjalo, ungalinganiselwe ukuthi bangaki abantu abavunyelwe ukujoyina ngesikhathi sokuzalwa.
Kwezibhedlela eziningi, abantu abathathu (ngaphandle kwabasebenzi bezokwelapha) inombolo ejwayelekile yezindwendwe zegumbi lokudiliva. Uma usungile noma yimaphi izinqubomgomo endaweni, ungakhetha ukuthi ubani ongangeza ohlwini lwabavakashi. Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa mayelana nokuthi ungabheka bani:
Umlingani wakho noma oshade naye: Yebo
Ngaphandle uma beba ne-squeamish noma badinga ukutholakala ukuze banakekele izingane ezincane, lokhu ngokuvamile akuyona i-no-brainer. Njengoba kungenzeka ukuthi abasondelene kakhulu nomntwana endleleni, kubonakala sengathi kufanelekile ukuba abe khona ukuze banikele ngenkxaso futhi kufanele abe phakathi kwabokuqala ukwamukela ukufika okusha.
Umama kanye nomama-kamama: Eh, mhlawumbe
Lesi yisinqumo somuntu siqu futhi sincike kakhulu ebuhlotsheni bakho nobuhlobo bakho nomama noma umkhwekazi wakho. Umlingani wakho kufanele abe nokufaka okuthile esinqumweni, kodwa ekugcineni uzofika kuwe. Beka ngale ndlela: Noma yini noma ubani owenza uzizwe engakhululekile uyoba nomthelela omubi ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokuzalwa.
Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi ungafuni umuntu ozokucindezela, ngisho noma lowo muntu ungumama wakho.
Ezinye Izingane: Kuncike
Ukuba nezingane zakho ezindala ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu. Uma befuna ukuba khona futhi sebekhulile ngokwanele, ungabasiza ukuba balungiselele lokho okumele balindele. Lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi akuyona yonke ingane, kodwa ezinye izingane zakudala zingase zithande umqondo wokuba nendima okufanele udlale ekufikeni kwamalungu omndeni omusha.
Abazali, unina, njll Ngamunye kufanele acatshangwe ngabanye.
Umngani noma abangane: Mhlawumbe!
Umngane oseduze angaba yisibusiso sangempela ekuzalweni. Ubuhlobo busuvele bukhona futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abe nokuhlangenwe nakho okunye ngaphambili kokuzalwa kwakhe. Lokhu kungaba into enhle uma evuma ngefilosofi yakho yokuzalwa.
Uma enemibuzo mayelana nokuthi uhlelo lwakho lokuzalwa lubekwe kanjani, noma uma engenalo ulwazi lokuzalwa, mlethe eklasini lokubeletha nawe. Nokho, cabangela ukuthi uzochaza kanjani ukuhlanganisa nomngane ekamelweni lokulethwa uma usho "cha" kwamanye amalungu omndeni. Ekugcineni kuya kuwe, kodwa uzilungiselele imibuzo engenakugwemeka.
Ngaphezu komndeni nabangane, abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukumema umsekeli wezisebenzi zomsebenzi ekuzalweni kwabo. Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi i-doulas ingasiza ekunciphiseni ukungenelela komsebenzi .
Abafundisi bokubeletha nabo bayamema okuhle. Unayo ubuhlobo futhi banolwazi lokuzalwa kanye nezifiso zakho. Abafundisi bokubeletha bangakwazi noma bangenaso isipiliyoni sokuqala sokusiza ekuzalweni.
Ukwenza isimemo
Uma ucabangela ukumema othile, yenza ingxoxo ngomuntu. Bazise ukuthi kungani ubabizile. Batshele lokho abalethayo futhi bazi ukuthi bangase bathi cha.
Yilungele ukubanika isikhathi sokuphendula, ikakhulukazi uma isimemo singase simangale.
Lapho Umuntu Ezimema
Ngezinye izikhathi, othile uvele acabange ukuthi bamenywe. Uma lo akuyona umuntu ofuna ukumema ekuzalweni kwakho, cacisa, futhi uthi cha. Uma usukhululile isikhathi eside, kubika kakhulu imizwa ebuhlungu ekugcineni. Vala isikhungo sezempilo noma isikhungo sokuzalwa, uthi ufuna ukuba wedwa uma ufuna ukugwema idrama, kodwa ungazizwa ucindezelwe ukuba nezivakashi ezingafuneki ekamelweni lokulethwa. Uzoba omatasa kakhulu ukuphatha amalungu omndeni anenkinga.
Ukumema isimemo
Ngezinye izikhathi umemile othile ekuzalweni futhi njengoba isikhathi sakho siqhubeka wena noma umlingani wakho uqaphela ukuthi kwakuyisinqumo esibi noma nje ukuthi akusisona isinqumo esifanele.
Kunokuba uvumele umuzwa ongaqondakali ukhathazeke ngokuzalwa kwakho kusho okuthile, ngokushesha kunokuba kamuva. Chaza ukuthi ushintshile inhliziyo. Kungenzeka kube nemizwa ebuhlungu, kodwa uma uthembekile ubuhlungu buzophela. Izingane ezintsha zinendlela yokuletha okuhle kakhulu kubantu.