Ingabe i-tween yakho ivula izinto?
Umzali, ukubhekana nengane echitha isikhathi kungaba yinkinga futhi inselele. Imishanguzo yansuku zonke ingaba nzima ngokwanele ukuba idlule, futhi lapho ingane ivala imithwalo yemfanelo yakhe, wonke umuntu uyabuhlungu. Kodwa kunezizathu ezenza ukugwema kwengane yakho, futhi bangase bakumangaze. Kuyiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi izingane ziyeka imisebenzi , ziqede umsebenzi wesikole noma ezinye izibopho ngoba nje abafuni ukuzibhekana nazo.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izingane zichitha ezinye izizathu. Ukuqonda okubangela ukuvinjelwa kwengane yakho kungakusiza ukuthi uqonde kangcono izidingo zomntanakho, futhi ugweme ukuhlangabezana nokuziphatha esikhathini esizayo.
Yini Engabangela Ukuzikhandla Kwezingane Zakho?
- Abaqondi ukuthi yini okulindelwe: Izingane zingayeka imisebenzi, umsebenzi wesikole noma ezinye imisebenzi ngenxa yokuthi abazi ukuthi yini okufanele bayenze. Uma ingane engaqiniseki ngendima yakhe noma ingenalo ikhono elibekwe ukubhekana nomsebenzi, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke ifune ukuyenza. Uma ubela ingane yakho umsebenzi owenziwa ekhaya, qiniseka ukuthi uthatha isikhathi sokumbonisa ukuthi uyayifeza kanjani umthwalo wemfanelo, futhi uphendule noma yikuphi imibuzo ingane yakho engayithola. Kungase kube umbono omuhle wokumbuka isikhathi noma ezimbili, ukuze anikele iseluleko sendlela yokwenza kube lula. Abazali bangasiza izingane zibhekane nokuhlukunyezwa kwemisebenzi yasekhaya ngokufundisa okuncane - kodwa futhi qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyaqonda ukuthi kunesidingo kangakanani ukukhuluma ekilasini uma engayiqondi umqondo noma uma ingane yakho ingaqondi umsebenzi wesikole isabelo. Futhi, cacile mayelana nengane yakho emva kokulindela esikoleni. Uma ufuna ingane yakho iqede umsebenzi wesikole ngaphambi kokudlala imidlalo yekhompyutha, yenza lokho kucace. Ishadi noma isimiso sosuku nosuku kungasiza ukugcina ingane yakho ithrekhi futhi igweme ukuyeka.
- Bangakwazi ukuhamba nazo: Izingane zihlakaniphile, futhi ziyazi zisencane lapho umama noma ubaba engena bluffing. Uma usongela ukuthatha isikhathi sesithelevishini kusuka kumntanakho uma engakuhlanza ikamelo lawo kepha engalaleli ukulandela, ungamangali uma uhlangothi lwakho luyaqeda ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho ubeka khona umsebenzi. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi imithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo yakhe iyini, ukuthi yisikhathi esiphezulu sini, nokuthi yiziphi imiphumela okufanele ayenze uma ehluleka ukwenza lo msebenzi. Bese, landela. Lokho kungasiza isizinda sakho sithathe imisebenzi ethile ngokubaluleke kakhulu, futhi simshukumise ukuba alandele uma ebuzwa.
- Besaba ukuthi bazokwenza okungalungile noma kabi: Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuzigwema kuyahambisana nokuphelela. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho igwema umthwalo wemfanelo ngoba engenakho ukuzethemba noma amakhono okukwenza, umsebenzi wakho ukuwukhuthaza noma ukumfundisa, ukuze akwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi. Ama-preteens angesaba ukwehluleka, futhi abasiqondi njalo ukuthi lo mkhuba ungumfundisi ongcono kakhulu. Uma ingane yakho igwema ukusebenzisa insimbi ngoba ayikwazi ukuqonda indlela yokudlala inothi ethile, mfundise ukuthi yimuphi umkhuba okuphathelene nakho konke, nokuthi awulindele ukuthi ingane yakho ithole kahle zama okokuqala.
- Kukhona okungcono okumele ukwenze: Kulungile, kuyiqiniso, izikhathi ezingu-13 ziyeka imisebenzi yazo noma izabelo zesikole ngoba zinento engcono yokuyenza, njengokungathi ixhama nabangani, ubukela ithelevishini, noma iya kuma-movie. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho inesikhathi esingaphansi nsuku zonke, futhi uzama ukuthola isikhathi sokuhlela imisebenzi uma kungekho iziphazamiso eziningi kangaka. Ngokuqondene nomsebenzi wesikole, ezinye izingane zidinga isikhathi esincane ngemva kwesikole ukuphumula ngaphambi kokuba zithathe izifundo ezengeziwe. Zama ukwakha isimiso esisebenza ngezidingo zakho, bese usiza ukuba anamathele kuso. Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi isimiso somntanakho simatasa kakhulu, cabanga ukususa imisebenzi engabalulekile ngempela.