UC Candice wayejabule kakhulu ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwesishiyagalombili futhi wabuza uyise ukuba amsize ahlele futhi agqoke umkhonto womngane wakhe omkhulu ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa. Ukuzikhandla kwakuyisindlela esiyinhloko abangane bakhe, futhi wayefuna nokuba nomunye. Kodwa ubaba kaCandice akayena wonke oqiniseka ukuthi lokhu kwakuwumqondo omkhulu kangaka.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubaba ungashadile noma uyingxenye yomndeni onomama ohilelekile, ukukhishwa kwamasondo kungabangela ukwesaba ezinhliziyweni zabo.
Kungase kube lula njengokungaba nokwesaba mayelana nengane yakhe enokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle, kodwa kungaba nzima nakakhulu kunalokho. Ikakhulukazi uma ubaba engashadile, angase akhathazeke ngokukhathazeka komunye wabazali ngokuba nengane yabo endlini ephethe ubaba kuphela njengomdala. Ngisho nasezimo ezingcono kakhulu, obaba bangase bazizwe bephikisana kancane ngokusingatha umkhonto womntwana wakhe.
Ukuzikhandla okungenzeka akuyona into evamile njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili, kunikezwe okunye kokukhathazeka ngokuthi izingane zilele endlini yabangane babo. Abazali abaningi bakhetha ukungathumeli izingane zabo ngemikhono yesandla noma ukubamba emakhaya abo ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Ezinye izingane nje azikwenzi kahle ukulala ekhaya. Abazali bangase bakhululeke nabazali bezinye izingane zabantwana babo, kodwa hhayi abanye, ngakho-ke bangakhetha ukungabhekane nezindaba ezinzima zokuthi kungani abanye hhayi abanye bezandla.
Kodwa abanye bazimisele ngokuphelele ukuba nezingane zabo emakhaya abangane ngobusuku bonke uma benethemba kubazali.
Ngakho-ke, uma indodakazi yakho noma indodana yakho (cishe intombazane) ifuna ukuba ne-sleepover, nansi imibono embalwa yokwenza isipiliyoni sibe siphephile futhi sivikeleke kubo bonke abathintekayo.
Abazali benze isimemo. Ngenkathi izingane zingase zithole ukuthola ulwazi oluhlelekile nolwenziwe, izingane akufanele zenze isimemezelo.
Uma ingane ithola imvume yakho, kuwumsebenzi wakho ukuba ube nengxoxo nabazali bomngane mayelana nokuba ne-sleepover. Abazali yizinhlangothi ezibhekele ukuphepha kwezingane zabo, ngakho-ke abazali kudingeka bakwenze isimemezelo futhi bamukele. Ngaphandle nje kokuhlola ukuhlela, kudingeka usebenze ngeminye imibono yabazali noma okukhathazayo. Uma izinto zisebenza, ke izingane zingathola ukuhlela okumatasa. Uma kungenjalo, abazali kudingeka babe "ababi" futhi bathathe isinqumo ngesinqumo.
Sula izinhlelo nazo zonke abazali abathintekayo. Noma yikuphi okukhona, izingane nabazali kudingeka babe ekhasini elifanayo. Uma ushiya ikhaya le-movie noma umsebenzi, qinisekisa ukuthi abazali bezinye izingane bakhona. Uma uhlala ekhaya futhi bazobukela i-movie, noma badla ukudla, baqinisekise nomunye umzali mayelana nawo onke amapulani futhi baqinisekise. Uma izingane ziphikelela ekwenzeni ukuhlela, bazise ukuthi noma yimuphi wabazali bangenza noma yiziphi izinguquko abafuna izinhlelo.
Gcina okokuqala okulula. Ikakhulukazi namadodakazi, ngezinye izikhathi izinhlelo zabo zomcimbi omnandi zingathathwa. Ngalesi sleepover yokuqala, basize bagcine izinhlelo zilula. Ukuzama ukugxila kakhulu emahoreni ambalwa kusihlwa futhi ekuseni kungadala izinkinga ezithile.
Ukwenza imisebenzi elula ngokulungiselela okuncane nokuhlanza kuyindlela enhle. Futhi ukuyigcina kuyinto enhle kumsebenzi wokuqala wokukhanda. Ukuba nesithameli kufikela cishe ngo-5: 00 ntambama bese uhamba cishe ngo-9: 00 ekuseni ngumthetho omuhle wesithupha.
Gcizelela ukuphepha. Siza isivakashi somntanakho uzizwe ukhululekile ngamalungiselelo. Mhlawumbe isivakashi siza ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuthi sibone ukuthi uzolala kuphi, ukuthi zifika kanjani endlini yokugezela, lapho ifoni ikwazi ukubiza khona ekhaya uma kudingeka, nokuthi ingaxhumana kanjani - noma cha - nezilwane ezifuywayo. Dlulisa phambili imithetho eyisisekelo - ungena ngaphandle ngaphandle komzali wazi, akukho ukushiya impahla noma ukuhamba nomunye nanoma ubani, akukho ukuchitha phansi noma ukungalungi.
Ama-sleepovers kudingeka adlale, kodwa adinga ukulawulwa. Izingane ezikhathele futhi zijabule kaningi zenza izinqumo ezimbi kakhulu.
Gcina ezinye izingane zakini zivulekile. Uma ingane ibamba i-sleepover ibalulekile, kubalulekile ukuthi uhlele ezinye izinto kubo ukuze bangene ngaphakathi kwe-sleepover. Uma izingane zakubo sezikhulile, kungaba kuhle ukuba nenkulumo nabo. Uzofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi baphume ekamelweni lapho abahlanganyeli be-sleepover belele khona. Uma bebancane, bazofuna ukuhileleka, ngakho-ke kungaba kuhle ukuhlela imisebenzi ehlukile ukuze bahlale bematasa ngenkathi abanye bephethe imishini yabo.
Qapha imisebenzi. Kungaba umqondo omuhle ukuba ube negumbini lapho ingane yakho kanye nesithameli zizolala khona. Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abakho abathintekayo (ukwamukela noma ukungamukeleki) nokuthi bangakwazi ukulala ngokuphepha nangokuphepha. Uzophinde ufune ukubheka kuzo ngezikhathi ezithile ngaphandle kokungafuni kakhulu. Ukuba nabo bazi ukuthi ubukele kuzobasiza ukuba benze izinqumo ezingcono.