Ukuqonda izintandokazi zokudoba
I-intanethi kanye nemidiya yezenhlalakahle ziye zafaka izikhala phakathi kwabantu emhlabeni jikelele ezivumela ukuba zixhumane futhi zikhulume ngezindlela ezintsha nezindlela ezilula. Kodwa uye wavula iminyango yokukhwabanisa, ukukhohliswa nokuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying .
Ngenxa yalokho, abantu bavame ukukhohliswa, ukuxhashazwa futhi basebenzise abantu abangewona ukuthi bathi bangubani. Isibonelo, abahamba ngezinyawo kanye nezinye izidakamizwa bazozenza sengathi basha abasebasha ukuze bahlakulele ubuhlobo nentsha.
Bakhuthaza izinhloso zabo zokwabelana ngolwazi olujulile olulandelayo olusetshenziselwa ukubafake emhlanganweni. Le mihlangano yingozi kakhulu ngoba ingaholela ekuhlaselweni noma ekuthunjweni.
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, intsha iphinde ihlanganyele ekuzifaniseni ku-inthanethi ukuze ihlazise futhi ihlazise izinhloso zabo. Lolu hlobo lokuzenza ongeyena uhlobo lwama-cyberbullying. Ngezinye izikhathi intsha izenza sengathi isisulu kanye nokuthunyelwe okushiwo noma izinto ezicatshangelwa ngokocansi egameni lesikhali ukulimaza idumela labo eliku-intanethi . Ngezinye izikhathi, bazenza njengabantu abakhohlisayo ku-intanethi ukuze bahlakulele ubudlelwane bamanga nehlombe. Kamuva, bangase basebenzise ulwazi ababuthene ukuze babe namahloni futhi baxhaphaze lokho okuhlosiwe. Ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwane obukhohlisayo ku-intanethi ngokuvamile kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi "ukubamba iqhaza."
Kuyini Ukudoba?
I-Catfishing idala ubunikazi bokukhohlakala ku-intanethi futhi uyisebenzise ukuheha abantu. Ngamanye amazwi, abantu bazenza sengathi bangabanikazi ku-intanethi ukuze bathole abantu ukuba babe nobuhlobo bomshado.
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ukutholakala ukukhathazeka kusho ukuthi umuntu uye wadukiswa ebuhlotsheni ngumuntu ongeyena ukuthi ngubani.
Leli gama elibamba iqhaza livela ku-documentary ka-2010 ebizwa ngokuthi "i-Catfishing". Kulo dokhumenti, uNev Schulman oneminyaka engu-24 ubudala wenza ubudlelwane obuku-inthanethi noMegan Faccio oneminyaka engu-19 ubudala waseMichigan.
Kodwa, uMegan Faccio wayengakaze abe khona. U-Angel Wesselman, umama okhukhumezekile owachitha isikhathi sakhe esiningi ekunakekeleni izinyathelo zakhe ezikhubazekile, wadala i-Megan ne-dupled Schulman.
Esinye isibonelo sokubamba iqhaza kuhileleke ku-starbackback star evela e-Notre Dame, uManti Te'o. Ukhohlisiwe futhi ekukholweni ukuthi intombi yakhe e-intanethi wayengumuntu wangempela. Khona-ke ngomzamo wokuzihlukanisa nabo ekudleni, abazenzisi baze baze bafike baze babonise ukuthi intombi yakhe ilahlekelwe yimpi ye-leukemia.
Kodwa ukudoba akukhawuli kubantu abaziwa kakhulu njengo-Schulman noma u-Te'o. Kwenzeka nsuku zonke kubantu abadala kanye nentsha efanayo. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ama-akhawunti ayizigidi ezingu-83 zama-Facebook angamanga.
Ukudoba nokushayela ucansi
Ukuzenza omunye umuntu ku-intanethi kuyindlela yokusebenzisa i-cyberbullying. Yisenzo sokuzikhandla esibangela ukulimala ngokomzwelo komunye umuntu. Intsha esencane isengcupheni yokuzibulala ngenxa yokuthi ngokuvamile "bangabangani" abantu abangabazi.
Futhi basengozini ngoba bavame ukwabelana ngolwazi oluningi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi imizwelo yabo. Ama-cyberbullies avame ukuxhaphaza imizwa yabanye inthanethi ikakhulukazi uma bethola okuthile okwenza umuntu adabuke, acindezeleke, asabe noma aphuze.
Intsha nayo iyakwazi ukungena uma ikhuluma ngokufuna isoka noma intombi noma ngokukhuluma ngokuthandana.
Izimpawu eziyisixwayiso ezingenzeka
Ukuze ugweme ukudujwa ngumuntu ongaziwayo ku-intanethi, bheka lezi zimpawu ze-catfish.
- Igwema ukuxhumana komuntu siqu . Ngokwesibonelo, i-catfish ngokuvamile inqaba ukunikeza izinombolo zocingo noma ukusebenzisa ama-webcams. Baye bagweme i-Skype ne-FaceTime.
- Kubonakala sengathi ubukeka ngonyaka ofanayo nonyaka . Uma ubheka izithombe zephrofayela ze-catfish eminyakeni, bavame ukusebenzisa isithombe esifanayo iminyaka eminingana. Ukwengeza, i-catfish izobheka iminyaka efanayo ngonyaka. Zonke izithombe zibukeka ezifanayo.
- Gwema ukuthintana ngokusebenzisa izenzakalo zokuphila ezibuhlungu njengesizathu . Lokhu kungabandakanya izingozi, izimo eziphuthumayo zomndeni, ukufa kanye nezifo ezifana nomdlavuza. Futhi bangenza sengathi bahamba noma bavakashela izihlobo futhi abakwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo.
- Unenombolo engavamile kakhulu yobulili obuhlukile "abangani" ku-intanethi . Ngokwesibonelo, i-catfish yama-female izoba nesilinganiso esikhulu sabangane besilisa ku-intanethi. Ngokufanayo, i-catfish yamadoda izoba nabangane abaningi besifazane.
- Kubonakala kungaqondakali mayelana nokudlula kwabo . Abantu ebuhlotsheni nabo banomuzwa wokuthi abanaso lonke ulwazi. Futhi abahlinzeki ngemininingwane eminingi mayelana neyesikhathi esidlule, kodwa futhi abaqondakali kakhulu ngezinhlelo zabo zesikhathi esizayo, amalungu omndeni wabo, nomsebenzi wabo wamanje.