Ixiliswe ekukhulelweni kwesikhathi eside
Enye yemibuzo engivame ukuyibuza mayelana nokukhulelwa kwesikhashana sekuphathelene nokwehlisa, ukuvulwa komlomo wesibeletho. Abantu bangibuza imibuzo efana nalokhu: "Kusho ukuthini ukuthi ngine-1 cm ehlanjululwe emavikini angu-36?"
Kusho ukuthini ukuhlanjululwa?
Ukwehliswa kusho ukuthi isibeletho sakho sesiqale ukuvula ukulungiselela ukuzalwa kwengane yakho. Umlomo wakho wesibeletho kufanele uhambe ungangeni kumamitha angu-10 ubude ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho izalwe.
Nakuba iningi lethu lokhu njengendlela yokusebenza, abesifazane abaningi bazohlushwa, ngisho noma nje kancane, ngaphambi kokuqala komsebenzi .
Ukuqedwa noma ukucinywa kungukuthi mncane wesibeletho sakho. Ngesikhathi ukhulelwe umbelevuza wakho wesibeletho cishe ngamamitha amathathu nanhlanu ubude. Ukususwa kuyisilinganiso sokuthi mncane kangakanani nokuthi kulinganiswa ngamaphesenti. Ngakho isibeletho esingaqaliwe ngu-0%, isigamu esisusiwe ngu-50% futhi sichithwa ngokuphelele singu-100%.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi ngithandwa?
Ukuxubha ekukhulelweni kwesikhathi eside kuyinto ongayithola ekuhlolweni kwesisu . Abesifazane abaningi bayoba nokuhlolwa kwesisu phakathi kwamasonto angama-35 no-37 okukhulelwa njengengxenye yokuhlolwa kweqembu B (GB) . Umbelethisi wakho noma udokotela angase akutshele ukuthi uhlanjululwe futhi / noma ususiwe.
"Ngangijabule ngempela ukuthi udokotela wami ungitshele ukuthi sengivele ngiqala ukuhlenga," uhleka uClare. "Ngangikhuluma nomama efonini lapho umhlengikazi ezwa ukuthi ngimtshele ukuthi ngijabule kangakanani, ngiqinisile ukuthi kwakusho ukuthi umntwana uzofika maduzane.
Nganginamaviki angu-38 ngikhulelwe ngemva kwakho konke! Umhlengikazi wahleka futhi wangitshela ukuthi kungaba tonight, noma ngenyanga. Ngahamba ngiya emasontweni angaphezu kwangu-41 nje, ngisetshenziswe kancane njalo ngesonto. Kwakuyi-total hype. Angitholi isikhathi esilandelayo. "
Kuyini ukukhathazeka uma ngikhululwa ngaphambi kokusebenza?
Umbuzo omkhulu ongase ube nawo mayelana nokukhuphuka kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokho kusho ukuthi ingane yakho ingase izalwe maduzane.
Nakuba ukuhlanjululwa ngokuqinisekile kuyisinyathelo esihle ekusebenzeni, futhi ngokwayo akuwona uphawu lwezabasebenzi noma ngisho nokusebenza okuzayo esikhathini esithile. Uma kungabikho izinhlangothi, ukuhlanjululwa kulungiselelwa umsebenzi.
Cabanga ngalokhu ngale ndlela, uma unamaviki angu-36 ukhulelwe kanti udokotela wakho uthola ukuthi umlomo wakho wesibeletho u-1 cm ubukhuluwe - lokho kusho ukuthi umlomo wakho wesibeletho uvulekile ububanzi obungaba yi-Cheerio. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ukuzalwa komntwana wakho kusondela, kodwa kuyisentimitha esisodwa esingaphansi kokufanele uyenze emsebenzini.
Ngakho hlala futhi uphumule ngangokunokwenzeka ngenkathi ulinda izimpawu zangempela zomsebenzi.
Umthombo:
Incwadi Yezincwadi Zokuthuthukiswa Komsebenzi. Simkin, P noAncheta, R. Wiley-Blackwell; Uhlelo olu-2.