Ukubala Ngosuku Olukhulu
Ngeke uthuthele endaweni entsha ngaphandle kokuyihlola kuqala. Ngeke uqale umsebenzi omusha ngaphandle kokuya ekuqondeni. Ngeke uthenge imoto entsha ngaphandle kokuyivivinya ukuhlolwa. Noma yisiphi isenzakalo esibucayi empilweni yethu ngokuvamile sinezinhlobo ezithile zokulungiselela esikhathini esandulele. Kuyafana nengane yakho nezingane zasenkulisa. Isinyathelo sokuqala ekuhambeni kwezemfundo yengane yakho, isenkulisa kuyisiqalo se-adventure emangalisayo yokufunda nokuthola.
Ukuze usize ukwenza ushintsho kube lula ngangokunokwenzeka, thatha izinyathelo ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukulungiselela ingane yakho.
Siza Ingane Yakho Yenze Ucwaningo Lwakhe
Izingane eziningi zibhekana nokukhathazeka ngokuqala isenkulisa futhi ikakhulukazi ngoba aziqiniseki ukuthi kuyini. Khuluma ngalokho azokufunda esikoleni, kungani kubalulekile futhi kumnandi kangakanani ukuthi uzoba nakho. Khuluma ngokuthi uzoba kanjani ukudlala imidlalo, ukwenza izingcweti, ukucula izingoma nokuhlangana nabangane abaningi abasha. Qinisekisa ukumtshela ukuthi uzobe ukhona (noma igama lomuntu ozoba khona) ukumthatha ngokushesha lapho isikole sesiphelile.
Ukudlala "isikole" kuyindlela enhle yokusiza ingane yakho ukuba iqonde ukuthi isenkulisa isebenza kanjani nokuthi kuzokwenzeka nini lapho ekhona. Zama ukumboza yonke into encane - ngisho nezinto ezifana nokulenga ijazi lakhe ne-backpack. Ungabuye ubuyekeze abayisisekelo "abafundisayo" - imibala, imilo, izinhlamvu, nezinombolo 1 kuya ku 10. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi igama lakhe lokuqala nelokugcina.
Uma ephikisana nhlobo - ayeke. Lezi zinto azibalulekile okwamanje futhi awufuni ukwengeza noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka okwengeziwe.
Uma ingane yakho izogibela ibhasi ukuya esikoleni sasenkulisa, thola ukuthi ngabe isikole sizohlela yini ukuhlolwa kokuhlolwa. Uma kungenjalo, qiniseka ukukhomba amabhasi ngenkathi ubona. Akufani, kodwa uma kungenzeka, zama ukuthatha ingane yakho ukugibela ibhasi lomphakathi ukuze bathole umbono.
Lapho isikole siqala, yenza iphuzu lokuletha ingane yakho kumshayeli webhasi, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi igama lomshayeli nenombolo yebhasi.
Hlola iLabhulali
Umtapo wezincwadi noma ibhukwana lakho lendawo linikeza ulwazi oluningi. Amabhuku kuyindlela enhle yokufundisa ingane yakho ngalokho okuzoyilindela. Kunezincwadi eziningi eziningi ezenzelwe ukusiza ingane yakho yasenkulisa ukuba ilungele usuku lokuqala. Buza umtapo wolwazi wakho wendawo noma uthisha wezingane zasenkulisa ukutusa ezinye iziqu. Ukuqala okuhle kuhlanganisa usuku lwami lokuqala e-Nursery School (iBloomsbury) nguBecky Edwards, oluboniswa ngu-Anthony Flintoft, nokuthi Yini Engayilindela Esikoleni Sokuqala (HarperFestival) nguHeidi Eisenberg Murkoff, okuboniswa nguLaura Rader.
Khetha izihloko eziphathelene nesenkulisa kodwa futhi uthinte ukuhlukaniswa . Khuluma ngabantu abalingiswa nokuthi kumele bazizwe kanjani nokuthi ingane yakho ingenzani uma isendaweni yabo. Uma ingane yakho ifuna ukuqhubeka ifunda incwadi efanayo, yenze njalo. Yilokho intsha ijwayele ukubhekana nokukhathazeka.
Ilabhulali yakho yasendaweni ingabamba futhi izinhlelo ezikhethekile ezenzelwe ukulungisa ingane yakho. Buza etafuleni lezingane ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi.
Yiba Okusebenzayo
Uzizwa ukhululekile kanjani uzizwa ungena ekamelweni labantu abangabazi?
Cishe akunjalo neze. Yile ndlela ingane yakho izwa ngayo. Kodwa ngoxhumano oluncane lomama noma ubaba, ungase ukwazi ukubasiza ukuba bafune ubuso obunobungane ngokuthola ukuthi ubani ozoba ekilasini lomntanakho. Yenza izingcingo ezimbalwa kubazali obaziyo futhi wazi ukuthi ngabe ngubani noma omunye umuntu owaziyo ukuthi uzoba nezingane ezinganeni zasenkulisa yakho. Uma unezinye amagama, bheka ukuthi ungakwazi ukuhlela idethi yokudlala. Ngale ndlela, ngeke azizwe yedwa lapho ehamba eklasini elikhulu kakhulu ngosuku lokuqala.
Uma ungenakukwazi ukuthola noma yikuphi izingane ezizobe zifunda ekilasini lomntanakho, ungakhathazeki. Khuluma nengane yakho bese udlulisela izindaba zobusha bakho nokuthi wenze kanjani abangane uma uya esikoleni.
Chaza ukuthi yiyiphi ingxenye engcono kakhulu yokuya esikoleni. Ukuzwa umzali ukwabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kuvame ukusiza izingane ukuba zithole ukwesaba uma zibona ukuthi wake wazizwa sengathi zenze.
Yenza Ukuvakasha Kwendawo
Letha ingane yakho esikoleni sokuqala ukuthi uzoba khona. Othisha bayokwamukela ithuba lokuhlangana nomntanakho bese umbonise. Lokhu kuzokwenza ingane yakho ibe nomqondo ongcono wokuthi yikuphi isenkulisa nokuthi uzokuphi. Uma kungenzeka, thatha ikhamera nawe uthathe ezinye izithombe. Lokhu kuzosiza ingane yakho ukuba ikhumbule lokho akubona, futhi uzokwazi ukukhombisa isikole sakhe esisha kubangani nezihlobo.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ushaya indawo yokudlala kanye nokugezela lapho ukhona ngakho uyazi ukuthi lezi zindawo ezibaluleke kakhulu ziphi. Masihlole yena kokubili. Uma ingane yakho igqoka amabhulukwe ngezinkinobho, qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ungayilungisa kanjani ukuze ingakhathazeki uma kudingeka ukuya endlini yokugezela. Thola othisha uma benesimiso endaweni. Ingabe izingane zizothatha izinwele? Ungase ufune ukuba ingane yakho ilale phansi ngesikhathi esifanayo. Yimaphi ama-snack ayisebenzisayo? Thatha izinto ezifanayo esitolo. Uma ufika ekhaya, khuluma ngalokho okubonayo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ixoxisane nawe, mhlawumbe ngokukhuluma noma ngokudweba isithombe.
Uma ungavakashela isikole kaningi, yenza lokho. Futhi qiniseka ukumomotheka noma nini lapho ukhona. Uma ingane yakho ibona ukuthi ujabule, kungenzeka ukuthi ilandele isibonelo sakho futhi imomothe futhi.
Ezinye izikole zihlela ngisho nokuvakashelwa ekhaya nguthisha wasenkulisa. Lokhu kungaba yinto ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa. Ukuba uthisha efika ekhayeni lakho lomntwana kungenza umntanakho azizwe ekhululekile.
I-Therapy Yokuthengisa
Hamba ukuthengisa emuva kokuya esikoleni. Ukuvumela ingane yakho ithathe isikhwama sakhe sempahla esikhwameni kanye nezidingo zesikole ezifana namakhrayoni nezikhali zokuphepha (ngisho noma zingadingeki esikoleni) kuzomenza azizwe njengenyane elikhulu. Myeke akhethe ingubo noma amabili, ekhetha into ekhethekile yokugqoka ngosuku lokuqala.
Uma efuna ukusebenzisa u-swag wakhe omusha ngokushesha uhambe naye umvumele. Uma ekhululekile, uzizwa kangcono. Eqinisweni, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthi umkhuba wakhe asebenze ukugcoba nokufaka isikhwama sakhe sangemuva nebhokisi lesidlo sasemini aze athole i-hang yayo. Yenza umkhuba wakhe ngengubo yakhe.
Paka isikhwama ngezinto ezithile ezincane zokududuza - izilwane ezithandekayo noma isithombe somndeni ozithandayo. Uma ingane yakho ihlala isidlo sasemini, qiniseka ukupakisha inothi elula yokumisa (ukudweba isithombe senhliziyo noma ubuso obuhle) bese ufake eziningi zezinkomba kuso.
Yenza Isikolo Sakho Sekhaya-Sikulungele
Cishe ngesonto ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu, qala ukubeka ingane yakho embhedeni njalo, isikhathi sokulala esikoleni. Futhi mvusa ngesikhathi lapho uthanda khona lapho eya esikoleni. Hamba ngokusebenzisa isimiso sonke kusukela ekubhekeni kombhede kuya emazinyo uwaxubha ekudleni kwasekuseni. Noma yini oyifunayo ngaphambi kokuba ushiye. Lokhu kuzosiza iqoqo langaphakathi lomntwana wakho futhi ufike ohlelweni lwesikole.
Thola kusuka othisha ekuvakashelweni kwakho kwesayithi - ingabe kukhona ingoma ethile abayicula ngesikhathi sokuhlanza? Ingabe kukhona ukuhlanza izandla ngaphambi kokudla noma ukudla kwasemini? Hlanganisa zonke lezi zikhathi ezihamba phambili ohlelweni lwakho. Kuzokwenza ukuthi ushintsho lube lula kakhulu esikoleni sakho sokuqala.
Phakamisa isikhwama sezingane zakho bese ukhetha usuku lokuqala lwesivuno esikoleni. Uma eyoletha ukudla kwasemini kanye / noma ukudlala, manje yisikhathi esihle sokuthola ukuthi yini ezoya ebhokisini lesidlo sasemini noma ngosuku olulandelayo noma ngalolo suku .
Kungokwemvelo kokubili wena nesikoleni sakho sokuqala ukuba uzizwe ukhathazekile njengoba usuku lokuqala lwezinkulana lusondela kepha ngaphambi kokuba wazi, usuku lokugcina lweschools luzobe seluseduze. Isikhathi sidlula masinyane - kwakungeyona yini ingane yakho ezalwa nje ngesonto eledlule?