Ukubeletha Kungakhathaza, Kodwa Kugcwele Injabulo
Ake sibhekane nakho: ukubeletha kungabangela ukucindezeleka ! Ngenkathi isikhundla sithatha ezinye izinto ezinhle ongayicabangela-ukuzijabulisa, ukukhula, uthando-nakho kuletha ngaphezu kwesabelo somsebenzi, ukukhungatheka, nokucindezeleka, futhi kungakubeka engozini enkulu yokucindezeleka . Ngenhlanhla, ubuhle bokubeletha yilokho okungakusiza ukuba ubhekane nokuqeda umama wengane. Enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu omama abangakwazi ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka ukuvusa injabulo yokuba ngumama-ukujabulela izingane zabo futhi basebenzise kakhulu izipho nezinzuzo ezivela ngokuba ngumama.
Nazi ezinye izinto ezibalulekile okufanele uzikhumbule:
Kujabulele
Izingane ziletha umthwalo wemfanelo eminingi, kodwa ziyizinkolelo zokuzijabulisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usemncane othakazelisayo emangalisweni yamabhodlela ensipho ebhodini noma emusha othola injabulo enkulu yokushayela, izingane zakho zingakunikeza ngamathuba amaningi okuthaba injabulo emisebenzini yonke oyithatha kalula, futhi uphile ngamunye usuku ngokugcwele. Ukubona umhlaba ngamehlo abo futhi uhlangabezana nezinto ezinombono omusha kungakusiza ukuba ujabulele izwe elikuzungezile ngendlela entsha.
Lokhu kubonakala emigqumeni emikhulu izingane zakho ezingase ziwele, njengokufunda ukuhamba , noma "okuqala" okukhethekile njengokubona iqhwa okokuqala. Kodwa-ke, kunezinye izici eziningi ezingaphezulu kwezinto ezenzeka ezinganeni zakho ezingaba ezikhethekile futhi, njengokubona zidlala umdlalo okokuqala, thola ukupheka ukudla okusha (ngisho noma kukhona okufana nendawo evamile njenge shizi elibiwe), noma ukukhombisa indlela entsha yokucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi wayengazi ngaphambili.
Ukuzijabulisa ndawonye kungandisa injabulo ongayithola kuyo yonke imisebenzi. Nasi uhlu lweminye imisebenzi emnandi yokwenza nabantwana.
Isikhathi Sonke Sinezipho Zaso
Kungaba ukucindezeleka ekusebenzelaneni nokuqhaqhazela, umatasa-ness, kanye nezinkinga zonyaka ngamunye, kodwa zonke izizukulwane ziletha izipho zayo kanye.
Lapho ingane yakho ishaya ama-appleauce (noma into ebi kakhulu!) Ezindongeni umzuzu owubuyisela emuva ukuze uphendule ifoni, kulula ukufisa ukuthi ungasheshe uqhubeke isikhathi lapho ungadingi amehlo ngemuva kwakho ikhanda, kodwa ukhumbule konke okwakungaphuthelwa-indlela enhle abiza ngokuthi i-ayisikhilimu 'i-kreshrame', noma indlela amehlo abo aqala ngayo njengoba iloli lokulahla lidlula emgwaqweni-ungayeka lawo micabango emathrekhi abo, futhi akubuyisele indawo engaphezulu. Futhi, uma lokho kungasebenzi ...
Khumbula ukuthi Izimpukane Zesikhathi
Nakuba kungase kube nzima kakhulu ukubhekana nezidingo zentsana noma izidingo zomntwana osemncane, futhi iwashi lingabonakala limile uma usempumalanga yokuqeqeshwa ngamanzi, qaphela ukuthi uzomangala ngokuthi masinyane kangakanani idlule lapho seliphelile. Futhi uma sekuphelile-sekuphelile! Cabanga ngekusasa obheka emuva kulezi zinsuku nge-nostalgia, futhi uhlale ukhumbule ukuthi zibalwe ngokoqobo, futhi mhlawumbe uzothola umoya wakho wesibili, futhi nazo, isilinganiso esithile sokubekezela kanye namahlaya amahle. Zincane kakhulu isikhathi esifushane!
Ungaba Nendlela Yakho
Enye yezinto abesifazane abaningi abazithandayo ngokuba omama ukuthi bafika ekukhuliseni ingane yabo-ngendlela. Uma uthanda ubuntwana bakho, ungajabulela ukunikeza izingane zakho okuhlangenwe nakho okumangalisayo okwakunakho, ukuvuselela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kuphela kodwa nezinkumbulo zakho.
Uma ubuntwana bakho akuyona yonke into oyifisa ukuthi kungenzeka, unganikeza isipiliyoni esingcono sabantwana bakho, okungaba yinto yokuphulukisa kuwe kanye nokuhle kubo.
Ungakhohlwa Ingane Yakho Engaphakathi
Ungathola izimfanelo zakho zokudlala zibuyele emuva njengoba ujabulela usuku njengoba izingane zakho zijabulela, futhi uhlakulele umqondo ojulile wokubonga nokumangala empilweni jikelele, njengoba ubona umhlaba ngokusebenzisa amehlo abantwana bakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvuselela ubuhle bokushona kwelanga, ukuthola ukuhleka kokulutha kuka-Yahtzee, noma ukujabulela noma yikuphi okuhamba phambili kokuqala kokuqala kwasebusheni futhi kuqhubeka eminyakeni eyishumi neminyaka, ungafunda ukujabulela ukuphila ngokuphindaphindiwe ngenkathi yakho izingane zifunda okokuqala.