Kudinga ukulungiswa okuningi ukudala ushintsho olungapheli
Isikhathi sokubuyela emuva esikoleni siyi-project njalo, futhi lokho kuhamba kabili uma unengane (noma izingane) ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Njengawo wonke omunye umzali, unezembatho ezintsha zokuthenga nezitsha zokugqoka kanye namabhokisi okudla kwasemini ukuze ukhethe (kusukela ezinkulungwaneni zezinketho ezitholakalayo). Kodwa ngoba ingane yakho inezidingo ezikhethekile, kuzodingeka ucabange ngezinkinga eziningi. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Kungenzeka ukuthi uthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nesimiso somntanakho futhi wazi ukuthi okungenani okunye okuthandayo futhi okudingayo okushiwo emhlanganweni wokugcina wengane wakho we- IEP noma we- 504 akuzange kubhekiswe.
- Kunethuba elihle lokuthi ingane yakho ixhala ngokungajwayelekile ngokubuyela esikoleni, ikakhulukazi uma ibuyela esikoleni esithile, ekilasini, noma uthisha.
- Izidingo zengane yakho noma izinselelo kungenzeka zashintsha ehlobo, futhi kungadingeka ukhulume nabasebenzi ngaphambi konyaka wesikole uqala.
- Awukaze uhlangabezane nothisha omusha wengane yakho, futhi wazi ukuthi uzodinga ulwazi olumayelana nengane yakho ezokwenza impilo ibe lula kakhulu kokubili uthisha nomntanakho.
Uma lokhu kuzwakala sengathi isimo sakho (noma ucabanga ukuthi "KUKHULU kakhulu kunalokho!"), Ezinye zalezi zeluleko ezingasemuva zingaba usizo.
1. Yiba nesiqiniseko esiqinisekisiwe-Kuzohlala endaweni
Uhlale phansi nomeluleki wesikhombiso somntanakho, umphathi wezinkinga, uthisha, kanye nabahlengikazi ngoMeyi.
Uhambe nge-IEP yakho yengane yakho. Uxoxe ngezinketho kanye namathuba, futhi wafika esivumelwaneni, Ubuyekeze futhi usayine i-IEP (noma i-504). Manje, ungase ucabange, konke okuchazwe ku-IEP kuzobekwa endaweni futhi kuzomiswa ingane yakho uma ifika usuku lokuqala lwesikole.
Kodwa-ke, ukucabanga kungalungile. Abaphathi besikole banezinkulungwane zezingane okufanele bazicabangele, futhi othisha banabantwana abaningi abazozihlela. Nguwe kuphela onentshisekelo yengane yakho phezulu ohlwini lwakho.
Ngaphambi kokubuyela emuva esikoleni, hlola ngeqembu lezingane zakho , umphathi we-case, noma umeluleki wezokuqondisa. Hlola kabili izindawo zokuhlala ezibucayi, futhi qiniseka ukuthi noma yikuphi ukusekelwa okuvunyelwene ngakho kulungele ukuhamba. Uma kunezinkinga, kungcono ukwazi ngabo kusengaphambili, futhi kunethuba elihle lokuthi izinkinga ezincane zingabhekiswa ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ihambe ngezinyawo esikoleni.
2. Xhumanisa Ubuntu Ngomfundisi Wengane Yakho Nabahlengikazi
Ungummeli kanye nokusekela okungcono komntanakho, kodwa uma othisha nabantwana bakho bengakuzi, bancane amathuba okufinyelela imibono kanye nosizo:
- Uma ungakwenza, usethe isikhathi sokufika esikoleni ngaphambi kweminyango evulekile ukuhlangabezana nokuxhumana nabasebenzi bakho.
- Banikeze ngolwazi oluthile mayelana namandla nezinselelo ezithile zomntanakho, kodwa qaphela ukuthi ungangaphezu kwamandla abasebenzi basezikoleni njengoba nje bekulungele ukuqala konyaka.
- Okubaluleke kakhulu, vumela wonke umuntu wazi ukuthi ukhona ukukhuluma, uzimisele ukucabangela okukhethwa kukho, futhi uzimisele ukufakwa ekuhlangenwe nakho kwezemfundo yengane yakho. Yenza ikheli lakho le-imeyli noma inombolo yocingo ukuze ukwazi ukufinyelela kalula, bese ubuza ngendlela engcono kakhulu yokuxhumana nabo.
3. Yakha uhlu lokuHlola oluNgcono, oluKhembekile
Ngisho nangemva kokuba usinikeze wonke umuntu isiqinisekiso esifudumele ukuthi uyatholakala futhi kulula ukusebenza naye, kunethuba elihle lokuthi ngeke uzwe umuntu ovela esikoleni somntanakho kuze kufike isikhathi sekhadi lombiko (ngaphandle uma kunenkinga enkulu ikheli). Kodwa-ke, ufuna ukwazi ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani, kokubili ukuze ukhulume nengane yakho mayelana nosuku futhi futhi ungakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga ngaphambi kokuba kube yinkinga yangempela. Indlela elula yokwenza lokhu ukuhlinzeka uhlu lokuhlola okusheshayo kusibopho esibuyela emuva nangaphezulu nsuku zonke. Buza okusheshayo yebo / cha noma imibuzo emfushane impendulo noma uthisha angaphendula ngenkathi ingane yakho ilungele ukuya ekhaya.
Ngokwesibonelo:
- UJohnny wadla ukudla kwakhe kwasemini
- UJaney wathola izitifiketi zokuziphatha okuhle ku _________
- UBilly unenkinga nge _____________
4. Nikeza Amathuluzi Okusiza Othisha Nabasebenzi Ukusiza Ingane Yakho
Akekho owazi kangcono kunakho okwenza okungcono kakhulu ukusiza ingane yakho ihlale ezolile futhi igxilile, ilawule ushintsho olunzima, noma ihlanganyele noontanga. Uma usuvele uthuthukise izindlela ezinhle zokwenza lokhu, ngandlela-thile, wabelane ngayo nothisha omusha wengane yakho / noma abasebenzi. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Kungenzeka ukuthi wadala indaba enhle yomphakathi eyasiza ingane yakho ukuba ikhumbule ukuba ibalekele kokuyishumi ngaphambi kokuqhuma.
- Uthisha wonyaka odlule kungenzeka ukuthi udale uhlelo oluhle lokubuka ukuze kusize ingane yakho ilungiselele ukuguqulwa.
- Ingcweti yomsebenzi wengane yakho ingase ithole ithoyizi ephelele yokusiza ingane yakho ihlale igxile ekilasini.
- Umsizi wonyaka odlule kungenzeka ukuthi uvele nemishwana noma imibono eyasiza ingane yakho ukuthi "yebo" ekuxhumaneni komphakathi.
Ungacabangi ukuthi noma ubani ovela ngonyaka odlule wabelane nganoma yini ngeqembu lonyaka. Esikhundleni salokho, qiniseka futhi uzenze ngokwakho!
5. Thola futhi Uhlole Ulwazi Lwezokuthutha Ngaphambi Kesikhathi
Ingane yakho izofika kanjani esikoleni? Uyothatha nini i-van noma ibhasi? Ubani oshayela? Iyini indlela? Uhambo luzothatha isikhathi esingakanani? Utholaphi indawo yokuthutha ekhaya? Ibhasi noma iveni ifika nini, futhi uyothatha kuphi ingane yakho? Yonke yale mibuzo kufanele iphendulwe ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala lwesikole. Kuvame ukusiza ukuxhumana nomuntu noma abantu abazoshayela ingane yakho, ngakho ungabahlinzeka ngolwazi olubalulekile oludingayo mayelana nezidingo zomntanakho noma izinselele. Ngaphambi kokuba isikole siqale, shayela umzila webhasi nengane yakho bese ukhuluma ngenqubo azohamba ngayo ukuze aqhubeke futhi aphume ibhasi, ekilasini, futhi aphinde abuyele ekhaya.
6. Qoqa Ulwazi Ngezinketho Zezingqayizivele Nezehlakalo Ezikhethekile
Uma ingane yakho inesidingo esikhethekile, kungenzeka ukuthi kunenkinga yokukhumbula izimemezelo noma ukwabelana ngolwazi ngemisebenzi yangaphandle noma imicimbi esikoleni esikhethekile. Kodwa ngokuvamile lezi zinhlelo ezingekho zezemfundo yindawo engcono kakhulu yengane yakho ukuhlola amandla, ukuhlangabezana nabangane, futhi uqale ukujabulela isipiliyoni esikoleni. Kungaba kuwe ukuthi ufike ohlwini olufanele, uthathe izindiza kanye nezincwajana, hlola amabhodi, futhi wenze uxhumano egameni lomntanakho.
Uma unenkinga mayelana nokuthi ingane yakho ingafakwa kanjani esimweni esithile noma i-imeyli noma ushayele umuntu oxhumana naye bese uyabuza. Kunethuba elihle lokuthi bangakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zomntanakho. Ungase ukwazi ngisho nokubhalisa ingane yakho emisebenzini efanele emva kokufunda esikoleni ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wesikole.
7. Lungisa izingubo ezintsha zezingane zakho, izicathulo nezinye izinto
Izingane eziningi ezinesidingo esikhethekile zinesikhathi esicindezelayo sisho izinto ezidala kanye nesikhathi esinzima ngokulinganayo ukujwayela izinto ezintsha. Izembatho nezicathulo zingakha izinkinga, futhi ukunamathela ngokomzwelo kungaba nzima ukuphula. Ngokusemandleni akho (okungenani amasonto ambalwa ngaphambi kokuqala kwesikole), qalisa inqubo yokuhlunga izinto zangaphambili futhi uthenge izingubo ezintsha namacaka okusekela esikoleni sonyaka ozayo. Uma kunokwenzeka, cela usizo lomntanakho ekunqumeni ukuthi yini into encane noma "ukuzala," futhi ubenze bahlanganyele ngenqubo yokuthenga. Susa izingubo ezincane kakhulu ezisuka emathini wengane yakho ngakho ngeke azame ukuzigqoka. Siza ingane yakho ukuba idle izingubo ezintsha ngaphambi kokuqala kwesikole.
8. Yakha Ikhalenda le "New School Year" kanye Nesimiso Sezingane Zakho
Iningi labantu lingakhathazeki kakhulu uma bekwazi ukuthi balindeni; izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile azifani. Eqinisweni, izingane eziningi ezinesidingo esikhethekile zidinga ngempela izinhlelo zokunciphisa ukukhathazeka nokulungiselela ukuguqulwa. Ngenkathi ezinye izikole zihlinzeka ngalezi zinhlelo ezinganeni, abaningi abenzi (noma benza kanjalo ngamazwi, okungesizo usizo!). Kuncike eminyakeni yobudala nekhono lomntanakho, kuzodingeka ukuthi udale amashejuli wansuku zonke namakhalenda ukusiza ingane yakho ibe yinkimbinkimbi kulo nyaka omusha futhi ibuke phambili ezenzakalweni, eziholidini, njll.
9. Siza Ingane Yakho Buka kuqala Unyaka Omusha
Uma ingane yakho ikwazi ngokwengeziwe ngalokho okuzayo, kungcono ukuthi ikwazi ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwayo. Uma kungenzeka, cela uthisha wengane yakho imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuba isikole siqale lapho ehlangana nomntanakho, umbonise ukuthi uzohlala kuphi, uchaze ukuthi uzobeka kuphi isembatho sakhe nesidlo sasemini, njalonjalo. Uma kungenzeka, hamba ngosuku lwengane yakho, ngakho-ke unomqondo wokuthi uzoba kuphi, ukuthi uzokwenzenjani, lapho eyokudla isidlo sasemini, njalonjalo.
Siza ingane yakho ukuba ichaze noma yikuphi imibuzo engase ibe nayo (Ingabe isikole sizoba nzima kimi? Ngizohamba yini ukuze ngiyeke?). Utitjhere wengane yakho kufanele abe nehlu lokufunda; ungase ufune ukuyihlola kuqala nengane yakho bese ukhomba amagama wabangani. Uma ubona izingane ohlwini olwenzele ingane yakho izindaba esikhathini esidlule, ungase uthande ukukhuluma nothisha ngalokhu (ngaphandle kokuzwa kwengane yakho).
10. Hlola Uhlelo Lokufunda Kwezingane Zakho
Yini ingane yakho ezoyifunda kulo nyaka? Hlola ikharityhulam yesikole sakho (kufanele i-intanethi) noma ubuze izikhulu zesikole ukuthi zihlanganyele i-syllabus. Qinisekisa ukuthi unolwazi, ukuze ukwazi ukusekela ingane yakho uma kudingeka. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi izici ezithile zekharikhulamu zibukeka zinzima, hlola ngeqembu lakho ukuze uthole ukuthi zihlose kangakanani ukubhekana nezidingo zomntanakho. Manje yisikhathi esifanele sokuthinta isisekelo kulezi zinkinga, njengoba ungase ukwazi ukulungisa izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba zivele!
11. Izinselelo Zokubhekana Nezinkinga Zesikhathi Esizayo
Uma ingane yakho isuka esikoleni iya esikoleni, noma isuka esikoleni esiphansi kuya kwesiphakathi, ingase ibe nezinselele eziningana zokubhekana nazo. Uma wazi ngokwengeziwe ngalezi zinselelo, uzokwazi kangcono ukuthi umsize ngaphambi kokuba kuvele inkinga. Nazi izinselelo ezimbalwa ongase ufune ukuzenza ehlobo kunokulinda unyaka wesikole ukuqala:
- Ukukhiya nokukhiya : Iningi lezingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile linenkinga enzima ngama-padlocks ajwayelekile. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa "ukujika ngakwesokunene nangakwesobunxele" kwesikole, cabangela ukuthenga ilokhi esebenzisa izinombolo zokugoqa noma izinkinobho. Lezi zivame ukulula ukuzenza. Ngaphandle kwalokho, cela isikole uma ingane yakho ingasebenzisa i-cubby evuliwe kunokuba i-locker (yezinto ezingabalulekile).
- Izembatho zokugqoka kanye nezikhiya: Ezinye izikole zidinga izingane ukuba zigcine izingubo zokugqoka ezikhethekile ezikoleni zokuvala. Uma kunjalo, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho ingakwazi ukuphatha ukukhiya, ukubopha amasinki, nokunye ukuphatha izinto zakhe zokuzivocavoca. Uma kunesidingo, cabanga ukuhlinzeka ingane yakho nge-lock yayo, amasinki ahlanjululwe, bese udonsa ama-shorts ama-gym.
- Izabelo ezisekhompyutheni: Lezi zinsuku, othisha bavame ukunikeza izabelo zasemakhaya, imibhalo, ngisho namamaki ngekhompyutha. Bangasebenzisa isofthiwe esekelwe esikoleni noma into efana ne-Google Docs yokuxhumana nabafundi. Izidingo ezikhethekile abafundi bangase babe nesikhathi esinzima bazi kahle ukuthi bangafinyelela kanjani iphasiwedi, bafinyelele ku-intanethi, futhi bagcine umsebenzi wabo. Uma ingane yakho ikhulile ngokwanele kulolu hlobo lwenselele, kuzodingeka uzijwayele uhlelo ukuze umsize.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Kubantwana abanesidingo esikhethekile, isikole singaba nakho okumangalisayo futhi okunzima. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bangashintsha izinkinga ezingase zizungeze nje ngokuzilindela ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke. Yebo, kufanele kube umsebenzi wesikole ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho inalokho okudingeka iphumelele. Kodwa okuyisisekelo: akukho muntu ozikhathalelayo, owaziyo, noma omele ingane yakho kanye nokwenza kwakho!