Ukuziyeka njalo "kwe-Moooom! Ngiyathukuthele! "Kwanele ukwenza umzali akhohlise amehlo futhi agxile ukukhungatheka. Konke ofuna ukukwenza ukuqeda ukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa noma uthole iphrojekthi encane yasekhaya eyenziwe, futhi zonke izingane zakho zifuna ukuthi uqale nomsebenzi wokuzijabulisa.
Ingabe ungumzali omubi uma ubenza bashaye isithukuthezi ngokwabo? Cha-eqinisweni, uhlukile kakhulu.
Ukufunda indlela yokulwa nesisindo futhi ukuthola izindlela zokuhlala isikhathi esingakahleleki empeleni kuyinhlangano ebalulekile yokuphila izingane ukuba zikwazi kahle.
Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zikwazi ukuthi nakuba ukukhathazeka kungakhululekile, ngeke kubulawe. Futhi ukuzizwa unesithukuthezi kuyiqiniso lokuphila. Ngemuva kwalokho, abantu abadala bazizwa benesizungu ngezinye izikhathi futhi. Ukuhlala emidlalweni yebhola nomdlalo wokudansa akusijabulisi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa ukufunda ukubekezelela isithukuthezi ngendlela eyamukelekayo emphakathini kubalulekile.
Ngaphandle kokufunda ukuthi ungadlulela kanjani, izingane zizoba nesikhathi esinzima ukuthola okuthakazelisayo-futhi lokho kuboniswe ukuholela ekusebenziseni kabi izidakamizwa, ukuziphatha kocansi okuyingozi, izinkinga zemfundo, nokulimala. Ingabe lokho kuzwakale kakhulu kunjengokwesaba-ukukhuluma?
Kulungile, ke-ke, cabanga ngalokhu-izingane ezinganikezwa ithuba lokuthola isikhathi esingenakulungiswa, zinamathuba ambalwa okudala, ukufunda ukuxazulula izinkinga , nokuthuthukisa amakhono okugqugquzela.
Lesi sikhathi esingavunyelwe lapho izingane zifunda ukuhlola izintshisekelo zabo, mahhala kusiphakamiso noma isiqondiso. Bayothola ukuthi ngabe bayathanda ukumba yini engadini noma ukudlala ukugqoka.
Kodwa, kunezikhathi lapho izingane kungeke zibe khona ngokwanele ukuze zibone ukuzijabulisa. Njengoba uzama njengoba kungase kube, impendulo yokwehliswa akuyona isikhathi seTV noma i-iPad .
Uma kunjalo, yiba nezinyathelo ezimbalwa uphakamisa umkhonto wakho ukuze udedele isithukuthezi ngaphandle kokuthi uphonsa okwenzayo ukujabulisa izingane.
Siza Ingane Yakho Ukubekezelela Ukubheka
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi kulungile ukuzwa imizwa engakhululekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi, (s) kungase kudingeke ukuba ibekezelele ukuzwa ngaleyo ndlela ngoba akufanelekile ukuhlanganyela emsebenzini. Lapho ethenga nawe noma lapho ukhuluma nomunye umuntu omdala, ukucasuka kulungile.
Chaza ukuthi kunezindlela ezinempilo zokubhekana nemizwa yokudangala. Ukubala ngokuthula ekhanda lakhe noma ukwenza ingoma entsha-uma nje ehlabelela amazwi ekhanda lakhe-kufanelekile emphakathini.
Kodwa ukuphazamisa ngenkathi ukhuluma nomshini wakho noma ujikeleza emtatsheni welabhulali ngenkathi elindele ukuthi uthole incwadi akulungile. Yakha imithetho ecacile futhi ulandele nemiphumela lapho (a) ephula leyo mithetho.
Nika Izingane Zakho Amathuluzi Wokuzijabulisa
Ungamjabulisi ingane yakho njalo lapho ehlushwa. Uma kungenjalo, uzobe uthatha umthwalo wokuphulukisa isisu sakhe.
Kodwa, nikeza imibono engamsiza ukuba azijabulise yena ngokwakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulinde isidlo sakho esitolo sokudlela, noma uthola ubunzima ukuthola okuthile okumelwe akwenze ngosuku lwemvula, mfundise ukuthi angabhekana kanjani nesithukuthezi ngempumelelo.
Izingane ezincane zidinga izandla eziningi-ekusizeni uma kuziwa ekutholeni ukuzijabulisa. Kodwa njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, kufanele (a) kufanele abe ngaphansi kuncike kuwe ukuze uthole usizo lokuvimbela isithukuthezi.
Ngakho, vula ingane yakho "Ngiyithukuthele!" Ibe ithuba lokufunda. Mnike amathuluzi nemibono yakhe eyomsiza ukuba athole izindlela zokuzijabulisa esikhathini esizayo.
Dala i-Jar "Ngiyithukuthele"
Leli phasi elibili: Ngesikhathi sokuqala ingane yakho imemezela ukuthi "Ngiyithukuthele!" Menze wakhe enze imbiza. Lokhu kufaka ukwenza iphrojekthi encane yokudweba ukuhlobisa imbiza bese ivela nemibono yokufaka kuyo. Esikhathini esilandelayo lapho esebuhlungu, angakhetha umqondo ovela embizeni.
Iminye imibono ingabandakanya:
- Bhala incwadi kumkhulu, ugogo noma umzala
- Yakha i-fort ngezingubo nemilenze
- Yenza iqembu lokudansa
- Thola i-magnet bese wenza uhlu lwawo wonke umuntu osendlini
- Shayela inja
- Bhala izinto ezinhlanu ozithandayo ngomuntu ngamunye emndenini
- Yenza indiza yephepha eqhubekela ngasemuva
- Dlala ukubamba ifulegi
- Yakha inqaba ngebhokisi
- Bhala indaba
- Dala i-zoo yezilwane zakho ezifakiwe
- Yenza i-collage ngemifanekiso yomagazini
- Dala iphephandaba lomndeni ukuthumela kubomzala
- Yenza i-feeder bird
- Hlela izingubo zabo ngombala
- Yiba nengxenye yetiyi efakwe ezithombeni
Phula izinsiza zobuciko
Imiklamo yobuciko ingase ibe yindlela enhle yokugcina ingane yakho ingene enkingeni uma usebenza kusuka ekhaya . Gcina ibhasikidi eligcwele izinto zokukhwabanisa ngesikhathi silungile, ngakho-ke ungayikhipha lapho kuqhuma isithukuthezi. Kule bhasikidi, gcina lezi zinto ezibalulekile:
- Amakaki / amakhrayoni
- Ikhasi yokwakha / ikhadi lesitolo
- Izikrini
- Glue
- Izitampu neyinki
- Amabhola ekotini, izinkinobho, nezinye izinto eziveziwe
- Omagazini omdala
Qaphela izinto ezimbili ezilahlekile kakhulu kulolu hlu: glitter kanye nopende! Lezo yizimboni ezinkulu kakhulu futhi zingasindiswa ngezinsuku ezikhethekile zokuhlehlisa nawe.
Uma ingane yakho imemezela ukuthi iyathukuthela, phonsa ibhasikidi bese ubeka etafuleni ekhishini. Nika ingane yakho mahhala ukuze upende, usike noma uthathe isitembu kokuqukethwe kwenhliziyo yakhe. Uma (s) edinga isiqondiso esincane, umnike isabelo, njengokuthi, "Yenza umama wakho ikhadi," noma "Yakha i-butterfly ngaphandle kwamathinobho."
Hlala ku-Hunter Hunter
Isihluthulelo salokhu okusebenzayo ukuthi sibe namashidi wokuzingela ama-scavenger kusengaphambili. Ngesikhathi sokuphumula kwakho, dala amashidi wokuzingela ahlukene kokubili endlini (ngezinsuku zemvula) nangaphandle. Uma ukukhathazeka kuhlasela, uzoba nomsebenzi olula ogcina izingane zingabikho izinwele zakho imizuzu engu-30 noma ngaphezulu!
Uma unekhamera yedijithali elidala-noma ingane yakho inedivayisi ye-elekthronikhi yokuzingela ikhamera kanye nesithombe kungaba mnandi kakhulu. Mane nje udale uhlu lwezinto ezinganeni yakho ukuthola, njenge-butterfly, into ebomvu, nedwala elibukeka njengenhliziyo.
Funda incwadi
Hlela uhambo oluya emtatsheni wezincwadi njalo ngesonto, futhi ingane yakho ngeke iphinde ithi "ayikho into engayenza." Yenza uthando lokufunda luqale, futhi cishe uzobuyela encwadini uma ezwa ukuthi uyathukuthele. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi uzwe lawo mazwi avela emlonyeni wakhe, mtshele ukuthi yisikhathi sokufunda futhi (s) unenkululeko yokukhetha noma iyiphi incwadi endlini.
Mvumele Yena Noma Usizo Lwakhe
Uma unemisebenzi yokwenza umsebenzi , faka omncane wakho kulo msebenzi. Nakuba kungase kugcine ukwenza imisebenzi yohluwe kabili isikhathi eside, uzobe ufundisa i kiddo yakho ukuthi uhlanza kanjani izingubo zokugeza, ugeze amawindi bese ushaya phansi.
Uma wenza okuthile ingane yakho engakwazi ukukusiza ngokuphepha, njengokwenza isidlo ngesitofu esishisayo, mnike enye indlela ephephile, njengokususa ekhishini phansi.
Lungiselela ukusebenza
Uma unomntwana othanda ukuhlala ebusweni, mcele ukuthi alungiselele ukusebenza kwakho. Bangaya ekamelweni labo bese besebenza ngengoma, isethi yamahlaya, noma isimiso somdanso.
Hlela ukubonisa ithalenta ngehora kude, ngakho-ke unesikhathi sokuqeda lokho okusebenzayo futhi (s) uyoba nesikhathi sokufeza isenzo sakhe. Khona-ke, unake kakhulu amathalenta wengane yakho-ungakhohlwa ukubhala phansi!
Ngesinye isikhathi, ingane ayikhathele ngempela, kodwa kunalokho ifuna ukunakwa. Uma ungayiphatha, hlala okwenzayo imizuzu emihlanu kuya kwezingu-10 ukunikeza ukunakwa kwakho kancane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udlale umdlalo omfushane noma ukhulume nje ngosuku lwakhe. Ukunakwa okuncane kungase kuhambe isikhathi eside ukusiza ingane yakho ukuzijabulisa.
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