Izinto Ezithonya Isinqumo Sezinsizwa Zokubeletha
(Ngokwezinhloso zalesi sihloko, "ukupheka kwebhodlela" akubandakanyi ubisi lwebele oluveziwe.)
Uma ingane isakhulelwe futhi inquma ukuthi ibhodlela ukuphakela noma iluse ingane yakhe, kunezici eziningi ezithonya leso sinqumo. Kungenzeka ukuthi unezizathu ezingalungile mayelana nokuncelisa futhi kungenzeka kube nzima ukuphula. Isibonelo, intsha eningi ehlola ukuphuza ibhodlela ikubheka njengempilo (ngoba ungafunda izithako elebula) futhi elula kakhulu (ngoba akudingeki ukuba 'ujoyine-in-hip' nengane) .
Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi amabele abo azokwenyuka futhi ukuthi ukuncelisa "kuyinto esikoleni esidala." Amama omncane, njengabantu abadala, baqaphele izici eziningi lapho bekhetha ukuthi bazokondla kanjani ingane yabo. Izinzuzo nezimo ezinzima zilinganiselwe kuleso sinqumo.
Imizwa mayelana nezindlela zokuncelisa abantwana iqala ukwakha kahle ngaphambi kokukhulelwa. Kodwa-ke, intsha eningi ekhulelwe ayisuke isenza isinqumo sokuncelisa noma ukuphakela ibhodlela kuze kube sekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwabo, noma ngezinye izikhathi kuze kube yilapho sebebeletha ingane yabo.
Yikuphi okungenzeka ukuthi intsha isencane?
Kunezimo ezithile ezibhekwe emacembu abesifazane abakhetha ukuncelisa, futhi. Ngokuvamile, owesifazane cishe uncelisa uma ebeletha:
- i-White noma iSpanishi, uma iqhathaniswa ne-African American
- kungokwamdala omama omdala
- ishadile
- akahlali ekhaya elifanayo nomama wakhe
- wayebelethwe ngokwanele
- uye wazi noma wachitha isikhathi nabesifazane besondla; unethuba lokuncelisa noma lokufundisa izingane (amakilasi, izincwadi)
Ukukhetha Ukondla Kwebhodlela Ngaphezu Kokubeletha
Singakwazi ukuphula izibalo mayelana nentsha enquma ukufaka ibhodlela lokudla ngamabandla amabili ahlukene:
- Intsha ekhetha ukuphakela ibhodlela ngemuva kokucabangela ukuncelisa: Lezi zintsha ngokuvamile zihluphekile. Bayeka isinqumo sabo sokudla kuze kube sekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwabo, noma ngezinye izikhathi kuze kube sekupheleni kokubeletha. Okumangazayo ukuthi ngokuvamile bayakhuthazwa ukuba bancelise okungenani abanye ababili abalulekile futhi empeleni babe nabangani abancancisayo. Ngeshwa, iningi elenza lesi sinqumo lisekelwa umndeni omncane.
- Intsha engalokothi ijabulele umqondo wokuncelisa: Lezi zintsha ngokuvamile zenza lesi sinqumo sodwa. Bavame ukuba nabalingiswa abangaphansi kukabili empilweni yabo abancancisayo, nabangaphansi kwamabili ababalulekile abakhanyisela ngokuncelisa.
Yiqiniso, kunezinsizwa okungenani abantu ababili abasekelayo abagqugquzela ukudla kwamabhodlela abakhetha ngempela ukubhodlela kokudla emva kokucubungula kokubili okukhethwa kukho.
Izizathu Zomama Ababeletha Khetha Ukudla Kwebhodlela
Isizathu esivame kakhulu esinikezwa intsha esinqumayo yokudla ibhodlela ukuthi ukubeletha kungabangela ukubuya esikoleni noma ukusebenza kube nzima kakhulu. Baphinde bacabange ubuhlungu obungokomzimba, bakhathazeke ngokudla kwabo (intsha eningi ingase ibone ukwesaba ukuthi yona noma ingane yabo izothatha amanoni), futhi ayithandi imithwalo yokusebenzisa izidakamizwa ezihlobene nokuncelisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi lentsha likhathazeka ukuthi ngeke likwazi ukulincelisa, noma ukuthi ngeke likwazi ukhiqiza ubisi oluncelisayo ngokwanele ingane yabo .
Ngokuvamile, ukondla ibhodlela empeleni kukhethwa ukondliwa okwenziwe umama wengane noma ugogo, okunye okuphawulekayo, kanye / noma udokotela.
Ukubaluleka kokufundisa omama abasha mayelana nezinketho zabo zokudla
Kubalulekile ukuthi sicabangele izici ezithile uma sizama ukufundisa umama osemusha.
Ngaphambi kokumbhikisha ngolwazi, kufanele simbheke:
- Isimo sezezimali
- Isakhiwo sokusekela komndeni
- Isikhathi sesinqumo
- Okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambili ngokuncelisa
- Amamodeli amahle ancelisa
- Ukukhuthazwa okuvela kwabanye abathintekayo ngezindlela zokudla
- Izizathu zentshisekelo yakhe ekunceliseni ibele
Ngemuva kokuba sithole imininingwane, singahle senze "imfundo yokufundisa" ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezizokwenza kube yinto ebonakalayo kuye nangendlela yakhe yokuphila.
Labo abathintekayo mayelana nokuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane inolwazi olwanele mayelana nezindlela zombili zokudla kumele lubandakanye abantu abalulekile kuye, njengodokotela wakhe, ongakwazi ukukhipha ukungaqondi ukuthi angase abe nakho.
Kubalulekile ukuthi noma ngubani ofuna ukuqhubeka nokufundisa umama osemusha mayelana nezinketho zakhe zokudla uyaqonda ukuthi angase abe nemizwa ephikisanayo ngokukhulelwa kwakhe. Uhlelo olusezingeni elihle lokusekela kwentsha ekhulelwe ngalezi zinqumo yi-WIC. Uhlelo lwe-WIC lwenze impumelelo engcono kakhulu esebenzisana nentsha ecabanga ngokuncelisa futhi isenzo sokuqeda izithiyo zokuncelisa.
Imithombo:
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Riordan, J., noWambach, K. Ukuncelisa nokuBambisana kweBantu okuBambisana. UJones noBartlett Ukufunda. 2014.
Ihlelwe nguDonna Murray