Inkantolo yomndeni izama ukwenza izinqumo ngalokho okungcono kakhulu kumntwana. Kodwa-ke, kunezikhathi lapho ngisho nejaji elihle liwela ngaphansi kokucatshangelwa ekucabangeni. Ngo-19 6 0 kuya ku-2000, kwakungelula ukuthi omama bakwazi ukugcina izingane zabo ngokugcwele ngenxa yenkolelo engaphelelwe isikhathi yokuthi omama bakhula. Lokhu kwakungenxa yokuthi "imfundiso yeminyaka yethenda" efakazela ukuthi abantwana abanezintathu ezine nabancane "banesisa" ngakho-ke kufanele babe nomama wabo.
Ngokufanayo, abantu babevame ukucabanga ukuthi amadoda amaningi ayengenasithakazelo ekuzalaneni okusebenzayo . Obaba abaningi bafuna ukuhileleka ekuziphatheni kwezingane zabo-bafuna ukuzisiza ukuba bafunde ukuphila kanye namakhono okuphila, bakhuthaze, bazakhele ukuzethemba, bafundise imithwalo yemfanelo, futhi babasize baba umdlali weqembu.
Obaba namuhla basadinga ukwesekwa lapho behlukana nokuqashwa kwezingane. Ngenhlanhla, kunezinhlangano eziningana ezweni lonke eligxile ekusekeleni nasekulondolozeni amalungelo obaba, kokubili ezinkantolo zomndeni nangomthetho wesenzo. Izinhlangano zamalungelo omama zisiza ukufundisa obaba ngamalungelo abo kanye nezinhlelo zokwenza isabelo sabo. Ukwengeza, ukugcinwa kukababa okubandakanyeka kukhuthaza abantu ukuba bakhe ubudlelwano obuqinile nezingane zabo.
Coalition American for Fathers and Children
I-American Coalition for Fathers and Children (ACFC) yinhlangano engeyona inzuzo ekusekeleni ukubeletha okwabiwe. I-ACFC isebenzisana eduze namaqembu e-pro-family kanye nezinkululeko zomphakathi kulo lonke izwe ngenhloso yokukhuthaza amalungelo alinganayo kwabazali bobabili ezinkantolo zomndeni kulo lonke elase-US
Basebenza futhi ukusiza ukuhlela imithetho yomndeni womndeni nokukhulisa umphakathi mayelana nezingane ezidinga abazali bobabili. Imizamo yezinhlangano ezinjengalezi iyasiza empini yokulingana kwamalungelo abalingani nabesilisa nabesifazane. Ukususa izinkolelo zendabuko zomzali kuzosiza bobabili abazali ukuba bathole ukuhlala kahle nokufinyelela ezinganeni zabo.
I-ACFC inselela umthetho wamanje waseMelika nomthetho wenqubomgomo. I-tagline yayo, "Izingane zidinga obaba-hhayi izivakashi," zibophezela emisebenzini yayo yokuguqulwa kwemithetho yomndeni ngenhloso yenzalo yezingane nomphakathi. Ngokusho kwenhlangano, iningi lobaba ohlukaniswe nezingane zabo bafuna ukuba nabo. Kusukela ngo-1996, i-ACFC isize ukukhuthaza amalungelo alinganayo kuwo wonke amaqembu abathintekayo ngesehlukaniso.
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Umkhandlu Wamalungelo Ezingane
Umkhandlu Wamalungelo Ezingane (CRC) yinhlangano engeyona inzuzo eyasungulwa ngo-1985. I-CRC iyisimemezelo esinamandla sokubandakanyeka kokusebenza kokubili kwabazali ekukhuliseni ingane. Bazinikezele kakhulu kulo mqondo wokuthi umaki wabo wethi "Umzali Omuhle Ungabazali baka-Parents®." Ngokuphishekela ubulungiswa bezenhlalakahle nezomthetho, i-CRC ivikela ukukhathazeka okungcono kwezingane ezinkantolo zesitokisini. Bazama ukwenza ukusebenzisana okuvamile phakathi kwabazali abangabambisani nabantwana babo futhi futhi bakhuthaze ukuguqulwa kwengane yengane.
Inhlangano inezahluko kuzo zonke izifunda e-US kanye nezahluko zamazwe ngamazwe ukusekela abazali abahlala phesheya, kungaba nabantwana babo noma ngaphandle kwabo. Isibonelo, uMkhandlu wamaLungelo wezingane waseMadlandla unikeza izinsizakalo ezihlobene nalokhu:
- Ukufinyelela nokudlulisa izikhungo
- Ukushintshwa okubonwayo kanye nesikhathi sokubeletha esiqondisiwe (ukuvakashelwa)
- Ukusekelwa kokuqala kokuthunyelwe nokuthunyelwe
- Imfundo yabazali kanye nomndeni
- Imfundo yasekhaya kanye nokuqeqeshwa kwabazali nabanakekeli
- Ukululekwa komndeni, ukubonisana, nokuxoxisana
- Izinsizakalo zokufinyelela ukunakekelwa kwezinsizakalo kanye nesikhathi sokukhulisa abazali (ukuvakashelwa)
- Ukuvakashelwa kwabazali / izingane kanye / noma izingane zakubo emakhaya ahlukene
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Inhlangano yabazali bakazwelonke
Ebizwa ngokokuqala ngokuthi "Obaba noMindeni," iNhlangano Yabazali Kazwelonke (i-NPO) yiqembu elingelona inzuzo elikhuthaza ilungelo lomntwana lokuthandana nokunakekelwa ngabazali bobabili. Inhlangano ikhuthaza ukuhlanganyela komzali futhi isebenza ukuvikela amalungelo alinganayo, kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo elinganayo, bobabili abazali. Izinhlangano ezigxila ekunakekeleni okulingana kwabo bobabili abazali kungenzeka zingabonakali zigxile emalungelweni kababa, noma kunjalo, ngokuzama ukulingana ukuqinisekisa ukuthi omama nobaba banamalungelo afanayo.
I-NPO inamalungu amaningi ekuhlinzekeni amathuba okuvolontiya kanye nezinsiza ekusekeleni umsebenzi wezinguquko zenkantolo yomndeni. Ungaqala inhlangano yakho yokubambisana noma ujoyine enye yamanje, okwamanje itholakala kulezi zilandelayo:
- Colorado
- EFlorida
- Georgia
- Idaho
- Kentucky
- EMassachusetts
- Michigan
- Missouri
- E-Ohio
- Pennsylvania
- I-Utah
- Virginia
- Washington
- I-Wyoming
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Ukwahlukaniswa kukababa
Ukwahlukaniswa kukababa kuzinikele ekufundiseni obaba ezindabeni zesehlukaniso, ekugcinweni kwengane, nasekusekeleni izingane. Lewebhusayithi inikeza amathuluzi amakhulu, njengendlela yokubala yokusekela kwengane, ukwesekwa komlingani, neseluleko sezomthetho.
Obaba abafuna ulwazi kanye nenethiwekhi yokusekela mayelana nesahlukaniso kanye nokugcinwa kwengane bangakwazi ukuhlola i-Divorce kababa ne-podcast njalo ne-Attorney uJoseph Cordell. Kukhona nesithangami esithinta obaba asezimo ezifanayo. Izinsiza ezengeziwe ezinikeziwe zihlanganisa:
- Iziqondiso zesehlukaniso ezisiza abasha ngenqubo yesehlukaniso kanye nezici zezezimali amadoda abhekene nazo njalo.
- Umhlahlandlela wommeli wamadoda ukuze athole isahlukaniso kanye nabameli bezingane zokugcina izingane zabo.
- Ama-sub-forum adumile afaka phakathi amathiphu avela kwamanye amadoda aphinde abhekana nesahlukaniso ngaphambi. Izihloko zihlanganisa ukubeletha, ubuchwepheshe, izihloko ezihlukahlukene, nokuningi.
- Ama-Ebooks afana ne "Divorce Full Force: Umhlahlandlela Wezinsizwa" nethi "Impi Yakho Yomphakathi: Umhlahlandlela Kababa Wokunakekela Izingane."
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Dads America
Amadodakazi aseMelika, awaziwa nangokuthi iDads Against Discrimination (DADS) anika obaba ukuba baphathe imindeni yabo ngokusebenzisa izinketho zikababa. Nge-tagline, "I-Bet Best Fathers", "inhlangano kazwelonke ikhuthaza amalungelo omama eminyangweni yezomthetho nezomthetho kuwo wonke ama-United States. Inhlangano inezikhulu okungenani ezingu-17 ezweni lonke lapho ungathola khona ulwazi ngamalungelo akho njengobaba, ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinkinga zokubambisana njengomzali, nokuningi.
Kukhona nekhasi lezinsiza eziku-intanethi mayelana nezinhlangano ezengeziwe e-US njenge-Fatherhood Coalition ku-MA kanye ne-National Congress yamaBaba nezingane. Obaba bangathola futhi ulwazi ngobudlova basekhaya kanye nezinsolo zamanga kubantu, khetha abameli, izincwadi kanye nokusekelwa kwe-intanethi.
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I-Movement of Rights's Movement
I-Fathers 'Rights Movement ihlangene namalungu athandekayo abanika obaba amandla okumela amalungelo abo futhi bafundise uhlelo lomphakathi kanye nenkantolo yomndeni ngokubaluleka kobaba emphakathini. Zinezahluko eziningi kuwo wonke amazwe ase-United States, emazweni ase-United States, eCanada, nakwamanye amazwe ahambisana namakhasi athize ezokuxhumana nabantu.
Thola ulwazi ngemibuthano ezayo, amathuba okuzithandela kanye nezindaba. Kukhona nezinsiza ezinjengezincwadi, amadokhumende wombuso namafomu, kanye nezeluleko zokusekela izingane. Isibonelo, i-fact sheet yabo ithi abantwana abanokuxhumana okulingana nokuthintana nabazali ababili abafanelekayo:
- INGABE sengathi kungenzeka ukuthi uphume esikoleni
- INGABE kungenzeka ukuthi babalekele ekhaya
- INGABE kungenzeka ukuthi bakhulelwe noma bakhuphe isisu
- INGABE kungenzeka ukuthi bazibulale
- INGABE ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi bafune, noma benze ubuhlobo obuhlukumezayo
- INGABE ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi benze ubugebengu
- INGABE ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ziphenduke izidakamizwa noma utshwala
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Inethiwekhi yamaLungelo kaBaba
I-Networks Yama-Fathers 'Rights isekela umqondo wokuthi wonke umntwana unabazali ababili abadinga ukufinyelela kuwo. Lesi sithombo samahhala sinikeza ulwazi mayelana nezinkinga zamadoda nezomndeni, izindaba zikahulumeni, ukuhambisana nokusekela, nokuningi. Kukhona ngisho nesigaba esinikezelwe ukuba uxhumane nehhovisi le-congressal ngezinkomba zokubhalela abameli futhi usebenze emphakathini.
Obaba abafuna ukwesekwa kwabazali bangasebenzisa inethiwekhi ukuqonda ukubaluleka kobaba ngokuphathelene nentuthuko yengane yabo:
"Kukhona inkolelo enkulu yamasiko ukuthi obaba bayisakhamuzi sesibili," kusho uJoe Kelly, owasungula abaDad and Daughters abakhulume ngokungenzi nzuzo. "Asibaluleke kakhulu kunamama, noma ngaphansi. Sihlukile."
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Obaba 4 Kids
Obaba 4 Kids, owaziwa nangokuthi uBaba Wama-Equal Rights (FER) kuyisisetshenziswa sikazwelonke sabebaba ekusekeleni amalungelo afanayo. Kunezinsiza zehhovisi, izifundo ze-inthanethi, nezinzuzo ezengeziwe zamalungu. Obaba bangafunda ukuthi bangasungula kanjani ubunikazi, banqume amalungelo okuvakasha, futhi bazame ngokwabo enkantolo.
I-FER inikeza ulwazi ngolungelo lomntwana lokuba nokufinyelela kwekhwalithi kubazali babo bobabili futhi inikeza ukulungiswa kwamadokhumenti aphansi, ukunciphisa izindleko ze-DNA, izinsizakalo zamahhala, nezinzuzo ezengeziwe kumalungu omuntu ngamunye nomndeni.
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