Amazwi Wokukhuthazwa Kokusebenza Kwabesifazane

Isikhuthazo Emisebenzini

Ngamazwi ajwayelekile okukhuthazwa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe angenza umehluko omkhulu. Kodwa-ke, uma uthatha isinyathelo esisodwa ngokuqhubekayo futhi ucabange ngokuthi kusho ukuthini emsebenzini - unesithombe esikhulu. Ukukhulelwa kude isikhathi eside, kepha ukusebenza, kuyilapho kuhamba isikhathi esifushane, kubi kakhulu futhi amagama oyisebenzisayo azokwenza umehluko obalulekile.

Induduzo Emsebenzini

Induduzo ekubambeni ivela ngezindlela eziningi, nakuba iningi lesikhathi sijwayele ukucabanga ngezinyathelo zokududuza umzimba kanye nokuphuza imithi .

Indlela elula kakhulu yokuba cishe wonke umuntu ukusiza induduzo owesifazane osebenzayo ukukhuluma naye. Lawa mazwi anomusa ngempela asiza futhi asebenze naye azalwa ngokungazalwa noma ukuzalwa nge- epidural . Amazwi nokuthi kuthiwa angenza umehluko omkhulu endleleni akhumbula ngayo ukuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokubeletha nokuzalwa.

Izinto Eziyishumi Okushiwo Ngomsebenzi

1. Bambelela!
   Le nkulumo inikeza inothi lokusekela ngaphandle kokucindezelwa okuningi, le nkulumo ingumuthi ojwayelekile kakhulu, kodwa ingakunika ukuboshwa uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi yini enye ongayisho. Noma kunjalo, uma uyisebenzisa ngokweqile, qaphela, kungenzeka ukuthi ibuyele kuwe.
2. Wenza umsebenzi omkhulu.
   Angeke akholwe wena, ngisho noma kuyiqiniso. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokuthi kwenzekani ekusebenzeni kubonakala kunzima kakhulu kunalokho okubonayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi angase azizwe engenakho ukulawula ngenkathi ebukeka ephelile futhi eqoqwe. Zama ukumkhumbuza ngalokho akwenzayo nokuthi kungani lokhu kungasiza.
3. Ngiyakuthanda.
   Lokhu kubonakala kuvelele, kepha ngezinye izikhathi ukuboniswa komngane wakhe okwehlushwa ngokomzwelo kusho okuningi kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi. Khumbula ukumtshela lokhu njalo. U-Doulas uvame ukukhumbuza imindeni yamakhasimende abo ukuthi utshele umuntu osebenzayo lokhu njengoba kuqhubekela phambili emsebenzini. Abanye abalingani babika ukuthi banomuzwa omkhulu wothando njengoba bebuka inqubekela phambili yomsebenzi.

1. Cabanga ngomntwana ...
   Ngomama ofuna ukukhunjuzwa ngomntwana osebenzayo , okulula kunalokho ocabanga ukukhohlwa ngakho, lokhu kungasiza. Ungasebenzisa futhi ibinzana elifanayo elivunyelwene ngalo emsebenzini. Ungamkhuthaza ukuba afane nomntwana, lokho kuyamukeleka kuye. Kuyindlela enhle yokusebenza ekubukeni kwenduduzo kanye. Ungamcela nje ngezinto ezithile ezingamkhathalela noma ngokubaluleka okujwayelekile. Isibonelo singababuza: Ucabanga ukuthi lo mntwana uzoba nezinwele eziningi uma ezalwa?

1. Uzoba umama omkhulu .
   Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane abahlukunyezwayo bayesaba, kuhlanganise nokuthi bazoba yimuphi umama. Uma ekhathazekile ngalokhu, qiniseka ukuthi ubuze kusengaphambili ukuthi uthole ukuthi ukwesaba kwakhe okuqondile futhi usebenzise ukuqinisekiswa okuzokwenza ukuba lula ukwesaba. Isibonelo singase sikhathazeke ngokuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuthi benzeni: Wena nomntanakho bazosebenza ndawonye ukuze nifunde ukuthi yini oyidingayo.
2. Amazing!
   Igama elihle elisheshayo lokumemeza endlebeni yakhe uma enamazinga okuhlushwa aphansi kakhulu. Ungasebenzisa cishe noma yiliphi igama elilodwa elinencazelo efanayo. Cabanga: mkhulu, omuhle, mnandi ... Sebenzisa noma yiliphi igama elizwayo ngesikhathi esifanele. Lokhu kuyingxenye yengxenye yenguquko yomsebenzi uma izingxabano ziyeza masinyane futhi ukunakwa kwakhe kuyaphela.
3. Qhubeka...
   Ukuvunywa kwemvume ngesikhathi somsebenzi omude, njengokuthi "Ngiyazi ukuthi ukhathele, kodwa wenza okuhle, ngakho qhubeka uhamba ..." Ungase ucabange nokuthi ukusho okuthile okusebenzayo, njengokuthi: "Unakho lokhu. .. "noma" Ungu ______! " Faka noma yisiphi isichazamazwi esifanele isikhathi esithile senkulumo. Lokhu kusobala ukuthi uqobo lomuntu osebenzayo ngaleso sikhathi.
4. Ngilapha ngawe.
   Awusishiyi eceleni kwakhe, qiniseka ukuthi uyazi lokho. Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uhlukaniswe kancane ngesikhubhu sokubeletha noma abasebenzi bezokwelapha, vumela izwi lakho libe isikhumbuzo kuye ukuthi usekhona lapho. Kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokusho lokhu kufaka phakathi: Angikuphi futhi ngilapha lapha.

1. Okuncane kakhulu ...
   Sebenzisa lokhu kuphela uma uqiniseka ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kuyiqiniso. Uma kungenjalo, ulahlekelwa ukwethembeka kwakho. Buza uchwepheshe oseduze ukuze uthole usizo lapha futhi wazi ukuthi bacabanga futhi. Ngenkathi kukhona ngezinye izikhathi ukuthi ungaqiniseka ngokuqinisekile ukuthi umntwana usuzozalwa, umdlalo wokuqagela. Izwi lokuqapha, ungabuki emuva emuva ukuthi ufike kude kangakanani. Lokhu kungase kuzwe kunzima komuntu osebenzayo. Vele uhlehlise ukuthi yini ezayo: Ngobusuku uzobe ushaya ingane yakho entsha!
2. Uyakwenza!
   Lokhu kungaba yisikhuthazo esikhulu lapho ephoqa. Kungabonisa ngempela amandla nokujabula. Ungamsiza futhi ukuthi abone umntwana ngekhilimu, noma uthinte ikhanda lomntwana njengoba livela uma efuna. Lokhu kungamsiza ukuthi aqonde ukuthi ubona yini ngokuvumelana nalokho akuzwayo emsebenzini

Okushoyo kubaluleke kakhulu. Kukhona nezinto ezimbalwa ongayisho kumfazi osebenzayo . Ukukhumbula ukuthi, ngalezi zimbalwa ezimbalwa, ungenza okungalungile ngempela.