Ukunqoba noma ukulahlekelwa, kwandisa ukuzethemba komntanakho ngokuphawula okusekelayo.
Ayikho ingcindezi, umama nobaba, kodwa ingxoxo ye-post-game ingenza noma iphule isipiliyoni semidlalo yentsha yezingane zakho. Emva komdlalo, ubuhlanga, noma omunye umncintiswano, ingxoxo yakho idinga ukufeza imisebenzi eminingi ehlukene. Ungayisebenzisa ukuze:
- Yakha ukuzethemba kwezingane zakho
- Qinisekisa umdlalo wezemidlalo
- Bonisa uthando olungenasisekelo nokusekelwa
- Siza izingane zakho zibeke izilindelo zekusasa
- Funda ngezinkinga izingane zakho ezibhekene nazo
Lezi zinkulumo ziphathwe kahle, zizokwenza ukuhlanganyela kwezemidlalo kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana bakho. Futhi njengebhonasi, bayoqinisa ubuhlobo bakho nabo.
Kukhona umehluko, futhi, phakathi kwesikhashana (nithi, enkulumweni yemoto eya ekhaya) nengxoxo eyenzeka ngamahora ambalwa kamuva noma ngosuku olulandelayo. Ekuhambeni kokuqala komncintiswano, ingane yakho ingase idinga nje isikhathi sokudonsa, futhi ingase ingathandi ukukhuluma ngomcimbi nhlobo. Hlonipha imizwa yakhe, futhi ufunde ukuthi yini ehamba kahle kuye. Zonke izinyane lihlukile.
Injongo yeposi emva komdlalo: Ukuqiniseka
Ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwengane yakho nokuzihlonipha emva komdlalo, unikeze udumo oluqondile futhi oluqotho-futhi lungaboshwa emphumela wokugcina. Ufuna ukuqaphela umzamo wakhe, hhayi ukuthi iqembu liwina noma lalahleka. Yithi: "Ngiqaphele ukuthi uzame kanzima ukukhomba izinzwane zakho ezifana nomqeqeshi wakho okuphakanyisiwe" noma "Lokho kwakuyidlula elihle kuTaylor esikhathini sesibili." Ungasho ukuthi: "Umsebenzi omkhulu!" (Kuzizwa kungamanga futhi kungatholakali .)
Injongo yeposi emva kwezemidlalo: Ezemidlalo
Ukuba umdlalo omuhle kusho ukuba nomusa ekunqobeni, kodwa futhi ekunqobeni. Ngakho gwema ukuphikisa abaphikisi noma iziphathimandla uma ingane yakho ilahlekelwa umdlalo noma yenza kahle. Lokho kubeka isibonelo esibi! Uma iqembu lezingane zakho liphumelele, qeda ukuziqhenya kakhulu. Yithi: "Ithimba lakho lisebenze kahle namhlanje" noma "Ithimba elinye lalinamaphuzu amakhulu emgomweni." Ungasho ukuthi: "Lokho kwakunzima kakhulu.
Ithimba lakho kufanele liphumelele! "
Injongo yokuthunyelwe komdlalo: Ukusekela
Ingane yakho idinga ukwazi ukuthi awusathukutheli noma uyamahloni uma elahlekelwa noma enza kahle. Kumele aqonde ukuthi uthando lwakho aluxhomekile empumelelweni yakhe ezemidlalo. Lokho kuzwakala kakhulu, kodwa kwenzeke, futhi kungaholela ngokushesha ekukhathazeni noma ekushiseni . Yithi: "Ngiziqhenya kakhulu ngawe," "Ngimangele kakhulu ukuthi usebenza kanzima kangakanani," noma "Ngithanda ukukubuka ugijima." Ungasho ukuthi: "Ngiyadumala" noma "Yeka ukuthi ungenzanga kanjani lokho?"
Umgomo wePost-Game: Impumelelo Yesikhathi Esizayo
Sebenzisa ukuphikisana komdlalo ngemuva kokukhuthaza ingane yakho nokuqondisa imizamo yakhe ezayo. Kodwa ungenzi ukuhlaziywa ukudlala ngokudlala, ikakhulukazi ngokulandela umdlalo; gcina lokho kumqeqeshi. Yithi: "Umkhuba wakho ubonakala ukhokha!" noma "Ngiyazi ukuthi udabukile ukuthi ulahlekile. Ingabe kukhona okufunayo ukuthi ngikusize uyenze ngaphambi komdlalo olandelayo?" Ungasho ukuthi: "Awuzikhandla ngokwanele!"
Injongo yeposi emva komdlalo: Ukubona Izinkinga
Uma ingane yakho ihlukumezeka emdlalweni wakhe , ngezinye izikhathi ungadonsela inkinga phakathi nengxoxo yakho. Qhubeka uqaphele, njengoba imizwelo yakhe cishe isebenza phezulu ngalesi sikhathi. Kungadingeka uvumele isikhathi sokupholisa, bese ulandela. Ungakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga ezithinta imibuzo ebucayi.
Yithi: "Ingabe ujabulile?", "Ingabe ufunde noma yini entsha?", Noma "Ingabe kukhona okushiwo into ehlelekile ekamelweni lokungena?" Ungasho ukuthi: "Yeka kanjani ukuthi awusithandi ithimba lakho?" noma "Ingabe umqeqeshi ukhalele wonke umuntu, noma wena nje?"