Imitholampilo eminingi yokuzala inomqhudelwano lapho imibhangqwana ingena khona ukuze iwine umjikelezo we-IVF wamahhala. Lezi zincintiswano zivame ukuba zidinga abahlanganyeli ukudala ividiyo, bhala inkulumo, inkondlo, noma indaba; noma ubhale okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi okugxile kunhloko ethize. Noma, umncintiswano ungacela abangenelayo ukuthi babelane ngendaba yabo ngendlela ephoqelela ngokomzwelo. Khona-ke, abawinile bangase bakhethwe ngokuvota komphakathi, abasebenzi bomtholampilo wokuzala, ikomidi elingahlotshaniswa nomtholampilo, noma ukuhlanganiswa kwalokhu.
Eminye imincintiswano ye-IVF ifana ne-lottery. Isibonelo, ukuya emcimbini othize (njengesikhathi sokwaziswa emtholampilo noma umbukiso wokuhweba wokuzala) kungakuthola ukungena. Khona-ke, umqobi ukhethwa ngokungahleliwe.
Imiqhudelwano ne-Ethics ye-IVF
Kukhona impikiswano yokuthi ngabe lezi zincintiswano - ikakhulukazi lezo ezicela imibhangqwana engapheli ukuhambisa izindaba zabo - ziyizimiso zokuziphatha. Abanye bathi i-IVF iphikisana nemibhangqwana engaphephile engabhubhi, isebenzisa izindaba zabo njengefolda yemikhankaso yokumaketha.
Abasekeli be-IVF baphikisana bathi banikeza imibhangqwana engakwazi ukukhokhela i-IVF umjikelezo ithuba lokukhulelwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingenalo. Baphinde bathi izindaba ababelana ngazo njengengxenye yomncintiswano ziyizinhlobo zokugqugquzela ukungabi nabantwana. Bathola abantu abangenalutho "ngaphandle kwekamelo" bese besakaza ukuqwashisa kwabantwana.
Uma ucabangela ukungena emncintiswaneni we-IVF, okuwukuphela kokubaluleke kakhulu umbono wakho kulezi zincintiswano.
Uma ungenayo izinkinga zokuziphatha ngendlela yomncintiswano we-IVF, futhi uyazi futhi ukhululekile ukuthi indaba yakho izosetshenziselwa ukuthengisa imitholampilo ethile noma umkhiqizo, kufanele uqhubeke futhi unikeze I-IVF imelana nokuzama.
Ngaphambi kokwenza, nansi ezinye iziqondiso okufanele uzigcine.
Qaphela ngokuhlanganyela ukwaziswa komuntu siqu ku-intanethi
Ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngolwazi ku-intanethi, qinisekisa ngokuphelele ukuthi umncintiswano uhloniphekile. Ngokudabukisayo, kunabantu abaye bahlambalaza ngamabomu imibhangqwana engapheli. Imincintiswano ye-Scam IVF isetshenziselwe ukwenza ukwebiwa kwe-identity and steal money nge "imali yokufaka."
Imibuzo okufanele ucatshangelwe ihlanganisa:
- Ingabe le mpikiswano ixhunywe emtholampilo owaziwayo futhi ohlonishwayo wokuzala? Lezi zincintiswano zivame ukudala ukudayisa umtholampilo othize noma umkhiqizo wokuzala. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukusho ngokusobala ukuthi ubani ozuza emncintiswaneni, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlaselwa.
- Ingabe iwebhusayithi ibheka ubuchwepheshe? Ingabe isayithi lomncintiswano lixhumeke ngqo kwiwebhusayithi yomtholampilo eyaziwayo?
- Uthole kanjani mayelana nomncintiswano? Uma ngabe kubukeka nge-spammy yokubuka esithangamini sokuzala, noma i-imeyili ebheka izinhlanzi, qhubeka uqaphele.
- Ucelwa ulwazi lomuntu siqu? Ukucela ikheli le-imeyili noma inombolo yefoni kuvamile. Uma umncintiswano ucela ikhadi lakho lesikweletu noma ulwazi lwebhange, hambani!
Uma unokungabaza, shayela umtholampilo ukuthi uhlotshaniswe nomncintiswano bese ucela kuqala uma umncintiswano unembile. Futhi, qinisekisa ukuthi uhlola ukuthi umtholampilo wokuzala ohilelekile emncintiswaneni ungokoqobo (hhayi "umtholampilo" ongacabangi owasungulwa ukuze uhlasele abantu).
Cabanga ngokucophelela ngomtholampilo wokuzala futhi ukwelashwa okunikezwayo
Kungenxa yokuthi umjikelezo wamahhala awusho ukuthi kufanele uwuthathe kalula. Bheka emtholampilo wokuzala njengoba ngokucophelela njengoba uthanda uma uzinikela. Ingabe lo mtholampilo ubungacabangela uma benganikeli umjikelezo wamahhala?
Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi ukwelashwa okunikezwayo kufanelekile kuwe.
Uma udinga i-IVF egcwele, futhi umncintiswano kuphela nge- mini-IVF , akufanele ungene. Uma udinga umnikezeli noma umnikezeli we- gamete , qiniseka ukuthi umncintiswano uhlanganisa lezi zinhlobo zemjikelezo. (Emncintiswaneni cishe ngeke ukhokhe izindleko zeminikelo yokunikela noma i-gamete, kodwa i-IVF eyisisekelo ingase ibe "mahhala.")
Lokhu kufanele kucaciswe ngokucacile emithethweni, kodwa uma ungaqiniseki, shayela abaxhasi bemincintiswano bese uthola ukuthi yini ehlanganisiwe, okungekho, nokuthi yini ongayikhokha ngaphezulu komjikelezo wamahhala, uma uwina.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ufanelekile
Ingabe udinga ukuhlala endaweni ethile? Ingabe kunemingcele yobudala emncintiswaneni? (Abanye abavumeli abesifazane abangaphezu kuka-40 ukuba bangene.) Uvumelekile ukungena uma unomshwalense we-IVF yokwelapha?
Ezinye izimpikiswano zingase futhi zikhawulele uhlobo luni lokungazalwa. Ungase uvumelekile ukungena uma usuvele unabantwana ekhaya noma unesifo sokungabikho kwesibili .
Qinisekisa ukuthi Ungakwazi Ukuwina
Lapho imitholampilo inikeza "umjikelezo we-IVF wamahhala," awakusho neze ukuthi zonke izindleko ze-IVF. Mhlawumbe kungaba ukwethembeka ngokweqile ukuyibiza ngokuthi umjikelezo we-IVF ophuzile.
Ezinye izincintiswano zimboza izindleko ezingaphezulu kunezinye. Imali ongase udingeke ukuzikhokhela ihlanganisa:
- Izindleko zokuhamba, ezingabangezela ngempela uma umtholampilo ungaseduze
- Ukuhlolwa kokuqala nokubonisana
- Imithi yokwelapha, engabandakanya izinkulungwane zamadola kwezinye izimo
- Izindleko ze-anesthesia
- Noma yini engacatshangwa ngokuthi "eyisisekelo" i-IVF, kufaka phakathi ubuchwepheshe bokuzala bokusiza njengo- ICSI noma ukusizwa okusizayo
- Ukuqapha umjikelezo, ovame ukuhlanganiswa, ngezinye izikhathi awunjalo
- I-embryo iqhwa futhi isilondolozi, okungenzeka noma kungavunyelwanga emncintiswaneni, noma kungasetshenziswa isikhathi esilinganiselwe kuphela
Qiniseka ukuthi uzoba nemali yokumboza okungahlanganisiwe, ngaphandle kwalokho ungadinga ukulahlekelwa umklomelo wakho.
Futhi qiniseka ukuthi lokho okuwinayo ngeke kukukhokhele okungaphezu kokukhokha ngokwakho. Uma umtholampilo awuseduze, izindleko zokuhamba kanye nesikhathi sokuvala umsebenzi zingenza umjikelezo "wamahhala" awufanele.
Qinisekisa ukuthi Uyathuthukiswa Ngokuzizwa Kwakho Ukushicilelwa
Funda ngokucophelela ukuphrinta okuhle uma ufaka. Ngisho noma ungawina, ukungena kwakho kungasetshenziselwa ukuthengisa emtholampilo.
Uma unqoba, ungadingeka ukuthi ukhulume nabezindaba. Kungase kudingeke uvumelane ukuthi uthathwe izithombe noma ulayishwe ngevidiyo ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, noma ngemuva kokwelapha kwakho kwe-IVF. Izikhathi ezingokomzwelo kakhulu zingahle zifakwe futhi zabiwe esidlangalaleni.
Uyakulungile nalokhu?
Qinisekisa Ukulandela Imithetho
Yeka ukuthi kungaba yinto edumazayo kanjani ukusebenza kanzima kwividiyo noma ukungena kwezindaba ukuze uvumeleke? Funda imithetho nemithetho ngokucophelela. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlangabezana nobude bevidiyo nezindinganiso zokubala amagama.
Kungadingeka ukuthi usho igama lomtholampilo kuvidiyo yakho noma inkulumo. Yebo, lokho kuyisici sokumaketha emncintiswaneni!
Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi uhambisa kahle ukungena kwakho. Ungacelwa ukuba uthumele i-imeyli ukungena kwakho, noma ukuyithumele kubhulogi, noma ubhale njengamazwana ku-Facebook noma kubhulogi yabo. Kungadingeka ulayishe ividiyo yakho kuwebhusayithi ethize. Wonke umncintiswano uhlukile, ngakho funda leyo mithetho!
Enye inothi lokugcina: uma ungaphumeli, akusho ukuthi indaba yakho ayizange ibuhlungu ngokwanele. Cishe cishe yonke indaba yokungenasici iyabuhlungu. Ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umuntu onganqoba.
Zama ukungenzi ukulahleka ngokwakho. Uma kungenakunqoba kungangezela ngokuyinhloko ku-heartbreak yakho, kungase kube ngcono ukungangeni.
Imithombo:
2013 'I Believe' Video Journal Project - UDkt. Sher Uchaza. Imitholampilo ye-Sher Fertility for Medicine Reproductive. http://haveababy.com/fertility-information/ivf-authority/2013-believe-video-journal-project/
URochman, uBonnie. Imicimbi Yomndeni: Umncintiswano Wevidiyo we-IVF Wabashadile Abafuna Ingane: Uhlukumeze Noma Ulungile? TIME.com. http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/19/fertile-ground-couples-compete-for-free-ivf-xploitation-or-generosity/