Ukwelashwa kwesibili kungukuthi lapho umbhangqwana unezingane okungenani eyodwa, uzama ukukhulelwa futhi, kodwa awuyikukhulelwa okungenani ngonyaka owodwa wokuzama.
Ukungabi namuntu kwesibili kungase kudideke futhi kugxilwe ingqondo. Awunenkinga yokukhulelwa ngesikhathi sokugcina. Ngakho, kungani kungenzeki manje?
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukungabi nabantwana okuyinhloko kuvame kakhulu kunokwelashwa kokubili.
Ukwelashwa okuyinhloko lapho umbhangqwana ungakaze ube nezingane futhi awukwazi ukucabanga.
Noma kunjalo, iqiniso yizinombolo ziyingxenye nengxenye.
NgokweSikhungo Sokulawula Izifo, imibhangqwana engu-11% esenayo ingane kakade iyaqhubeka nokuzwa ukungabi nabantwana okungezansi. Lokho cishe imindeni eyizigidi ezingu-4 noma cishe ingxenye yesigameko sezinkinga zokuhluleka.
Abashadile abanesifo sokubeletha okungesibili bangase babe nethuba lokuyeka ukufuna usizo . Bangase bathole nokuthi abangane, umndeni, kanye nodokotela bahlukunyezwa izinkinga zabo zokuzala.
Phela, banezinyane elilodwa. (Noma izingane ezimbili, noma ngaphezulu ...) Akukhona lokho okwanele?
Iqiniso liwukuthi noma unzima yini inombolo yenani lomntwana, inombolo yesibili, noma inombolo yesihlanu, kukhona ukukhathazeka nosizi oluzobhekana nalo. Ukubhekana nokungabi nabantwana okungezansi kungenselele .
Unomfanekiso walokho ocabanga ukuthi umndeni wakho uzoba khona. Ingane yakho ingase icele ingane yakini. Futhi izimbangela zezokwelapha zokwelashwa kwesibili akuyona into enzima kakhulu yokwelapha nokuxilongwa kunokungabikho kokuqala kokuqala.
Izimbangela
Ukwelashwa kwesibili kubangelwa yizinkinga ezifanayo eziholela ekungeneni okuyisisekelo.
Lezo zimbangela zihlanganisa:
- Ukwelashwa kwabantu besilisa ngenxa yobuningi besilisa besilisa noma obungekho, izinkinga zesimo somzimba (owaziwa nangokuthi i-sperm morphology), noma izinkinga nge-sperm movement (eyaziwa nangokuthi i-sperm motility)
- Izinkinga nge-ovulation , kungakhathaliseki ukuvuthwa okungavamile noma ukugcoba
- Izigubhu ezivinjiwe ezikhohlisiwe
- I-Endometriosis
- Ama-fibroid
- Ukususwa kwesisu okuvamile
- Izinkinga zomzimba (izinkinga zamangqamuzana ombulali wemvelo noma ama-anti-sperm antibodies)
- I-mucus yomlomo wesihluku
- Izinkinga nge -endometrium
- Ukuncipha noma uketshezi lwesibindi
- Akuchaziwe
Cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu zezigameko zokungakhulelwa zihlobene nokuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda, enye yesithathu ihlobene nokungafaki kwamantombazane, kanti enye yesithathu ihlobene nezinkinga zombili wesilisa nowesifazane noma ihlala ingachazwe.
Kungani Angikwazi Ukubona Lesi Sikhathi Sonke?
Lona ngumbuzo omkhulu emqondweni wabantu abathola ukungabi nabantwana okungezansi.
Ukungabi namuntu kwesibili kungase kube nesiteleka uma ...
Usukhulile : uma ngabe unomntwana wakho wokuqala ku-35, futhi uzama okwesibili ngo-38, ukuzala kwakho ngokwemvelo kuye kwehla ngokuphawulekayo .
Ubudala buyimbangela enkulu yokungabi nabantwana bokuqala.
Unomlingani omusha : kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani wakho omusha unenkinga yokungabonisi okungaziwa. Kodwa kungenzeka futhi ukuthi izingane ezinezihlobo zangaphambili zenze inkinga yokuzala.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani.
Inkinga yokuzala yenzalo yanda kakhulu : kungenzeka ukuthi uhlale une-endometriosis, noma uhlale une- PCOS encane. Mhlawumbe izindawo zakho zokulondoloza ama-ovari zivele zivele phansi, kodwa awuzange ube nomqondo.
Isikhathi sidlulile, futhi izinto ziye zaba nzima. Kuyenzeka.
Uzuze isisindo : ukuzala kuthinteka isisindo . Ukuphelelwa ngokweqile noma ukuphuza ngokweqile kungabangela izinkinga ze-ovulation kubantu besifazane, futhi okungenzeka kunomthelela wezempilo wesilisa kumadoda.
Abazali abasha bavame ukuzuza isisindo (okuyingxenye yokukhulelwa, okuyingxenye ekucindezelekeni nasekuntulekeni kokulala.) Lokhu kungase kukwanele ukukucindezela ohlangothini olungenalutho.
Unenkinga entsha yezempilo : mhlawumbe wena noma umlingani wakho uye wahlakulela isifo sikashukela. Mhlawumbe uthatha imithi ye-high blood pressure. Noma, mhlawumbe unenkinga yokucindezeleka .
Noma iyiphi yalezi zifo ingathinta ukuzala kwakho noma idinga imithi engathinta ukuzala kwakho.
Ukukhulelwa kokugcina noma ukubeletha kubangele inkinga yokuzala : ukutheleleka kwe-pelvic noma izinqubo eziningi ze-D & C kungabangela ukunamathela kwe-uterine noma kuvinjelwe amashubhu we-fallopian .
Uma unesigaba se-C, ungahlakulela izicubu ezibomvu, ezingathinta ukuzala kwakho.
Asikho isizathu esicacile sokuba kungani lesi sikhathi sihlukile : izikhathi eziningi, akekho ongakutshela ukuthi kungani inkinga ethile yokuzala yakho ayikuvimbeli ekukhulelweni kwesikhathi sokugcina.
Kuningi mayelana nokuzala esikuqondiyo. Akekho onayo yonke izimpendulo.
Kufanele Ufune Nini Usizo?
Uma ungaphansi kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala, kufanele ufune usizo uma ungakhulelwa ngemva konyaka owodwa wokuzama.
Uma uneminyaka engu-35 noma ngaphezulu, kufanele uthole usizo emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha.
Futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki, uma uhlangabezana nokuhlukumeza okubili okulandelanayo, kufanele uthole usizo.
Eminye imibhangqwana icabanga ukuthi kufanele iqhubeke izama ngisho nangemva kokudlula konyaka. Abazange babelethe isikhathi sokugcina? Ngokusobala, uma beqhubeka bezama, bayophumelela ngalesi sikhathi. Kulungile?
Nope!
Sicela ungayeki ukuthola usizo. Ezinye izimbangela zokugula ezingaphezu kwesikhathi. Ukwehlisa usizo kunganciphisa izimo zakho zokuphumelela kokukhulelwa.
Iqiniso lokuthi ukhulelwe esikhathini esidlule akuqinisekisi ukuthi uzophinde ukhulelwe ngokwakho.
Ngokudabukisayo, azikho iziqinisekiso zokuzala, noma ubani.
Ukuhlola
Ukuvivinywa kokungazalwa kwesibili kufana nokuhlolwa kokungasebenzi kokuqala. Bobabili owesilisa nowesifazane kudingeka bahlolwe.
Mhlawumbe unomlingani omusha, futhi omunye wenu unomntwana kanti omunye akakwenzi. Ingabe umlingani "ovundiwe ovundiwe" udinga ngempela ukuhlolwa kokuzala?
Impendulo inguyebo. Benza.
Njengoba kukhulunywe ngenhla, ukuba nezingane akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuzwa ukungabi nabantwana.
Ukwelapha
Imithi yokwelapha okungeyona eyesibili iyafana nokungazalisi okuyinhloko. Ukwelapha kungafaka:
- Izidakamizwa zokuzala, ngokuvamile ziqala ngomuthi ovame ukwakhiwa we-Clomid
- Imithi yokwelapha engakhiwa, eyaziwa ngokuthi i- gonadotropins
- IUI
- I-IVF , ngezinye izikhathi kuhlangene nezinye izinketho zokuzala zokusiza
- Ukuhlinzwa, ngokuvamile ukuhlinzeka laparoscopic , ukulungiswa kuvinjelwe amashubhu we-fallopian, noma ukususa i-fibroids noma i-endometriosis idiphozi
Njengoba ufuna isisombululo ngezinkinga zakho zokuzala, ungaba nabangani nomndeni abangakukeli izinqumo zakho.
Bangase bazibuze ukuthi kungani "uzama kanzima kangaka." Kungani "ungazitholi nje?" Kwenzeke okokugcina, kuzokwenzeka futhi.
Laba bangani nomndeni bakalungile. Qinisekisa ukuthi isidingo sakho sokwelashwa sifana nomuntu ongenasisekelo wokubeletha.
Akuyona "isilinganiso esinqunyiwe" sokusebenzisa ukwelashwa okungakusiza ukuba ube nengane oyifunayo.
Imithombo:
Chandra A, Martinez GM, Mosher WD, Abma JC, Jones J. Fertility, ukuhlela umndeni, kanye nempilo yokuzala yabesifazane base-US: Idatha evela ku-2002 National Survey of Growth Family. Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sezibalo Zempilo. I-Vital Health Stat 23 (25). 2005. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_025.pdf
Ukungafihli kwesibili. HLELA: I-National Infertility Association. http://www.resolve.org/diagnosis-management/infertility-diagnosis/secondary-infertility.html