Njengoba bekhula futhi beqala ukuqonda izwe kangcono, izingane ziqala ukubuza imibuzo enzima. Ngaphandle kokuthi "Izinsana zivelaphi?", Abazali abaningi besaba usuku olulodwa lwezingane zabo lubuza, "Ingabe u-Santa wangempela?" Kungase kukubambe ngokumangaza futhi kunezindlela ezimbalwa ongayisingatha.
Izindaba Zeminyaka
Kungaba nzima ukuba abazali bamukele ukuthi izingane zabo zikhula futhi zivumela ukuhamba kwamasiko nezinkolelo zobuntwana.
Kubazali abaningi, kuyabuhlungu kakhulu ukucabanga ukuthi ingane yabo ikhulile eminyakeni enguSanta nayo yonke into ejabulisayo ehlotshaniswa nenkolelo eSanta nasezincane zakhe.
Kungenzeka nganoma isiphi isikhathi futhi kungase kuvele ngenxa yengxoxo nezinye izingane. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engu-6 noma engu-7 kungenzeka ukuthi uzwe okuthile esikoleni futhi ufuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuthi uSanta uzobonakala ngempela ngoKhisimusi. Kungaba kuhle ukuqinisa indaba kaSanta, ngisho nokubonisa izingane ezincane izithombe noma amavidiyo "aphile" i-Santas emidlalweni yithelevishini.
Umuntu oneminyaka engama-8- noma oneminyaka engu-9 angase abuze ukuthi ngabe kunjalo yini ukuba bazenze sengathi kukhona uSanta ngakho angaphuthelwa lutho. Kule minyaka yobudala, uzofuna ukusebenzisa isahlulelo sakho mayelana nenhloso yabo yangempela nombuzo. Ezinye izingane zilungele iqiniso kanti abanye abangekho. Uma kudingekile, cela imibuzo embalwa ebuza ukuthi, "Ubuza ngani?" ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi uphendule kanjani.
Ngesikhathi befika ku-10 noma ku-11, cishe phakathi kwakho akukho kholelwa ku-Santa Claus. Lokhu yisikhathi esifanele sokuthuthukiswa. Kule minyaka edlule izingane ziyaziqaphela ngokwengeziwe. Baqala nokubamba kahle ngokuyiqiniso. Kodwa abanye abayishumi nambili babamba izinkolelo zabo zobuntwana isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
Iqiniso liwukuthi uma ingane yakho ibuza imibuzo enjengokuthi, "Ingabe i-Santa yangempela?" mhlawumbe kakade uyayazi iqiniso noma unomqondo wayo. Angase afune ukuqinisekiswa okuvela kuwe.
Konke Okuphathelene Nengqondo
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ike yaqaphela konke, kungumqondo omuhle ukukhuluma iqiniso. Ngokwesibonelo, ungachaza ukuthi uSaint Nicholas wayengumuntu wangempela kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Wayeyaziwa ngokushiya izipho izingane ezisemzaneni wakubo kanye nokunakekela abampofu nabampofu . Izinganekwane zakhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, zaba indaba sonke esiyazi namhlanje.
Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokugxilisa izinkolelo nemindeni yomndeni wakho ngokubakhulisa engxoxweni. Ungenza lokhu ngokuqinisa umbono wokuthi umoya weSanta umelela lokho okusezinhliziyweni zabo bonke abantu abanomusa nabaphanayo.
Ngisho nabantu abadala bayaqonda ukuthi kukhona "imilingo" emlandweni weSanta Clause nokuthi awukwazi ukuchazwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Zingaki izinhliziyo ezibuhlungu eziphendukile ezinomphefumulo ngokuphefumulelwa kwe-Jolly Old Elf? Ingabe lokho akulona imilingo? Akukhona yini ngempela? I-legend yakhe ikwazi kanjani ukusinda kusukela esizukulwaneni kuya esizukulwaneni? Futhi ngezizukulwane ezizayo?
Ungabuye ukhumbuze izingane ukuthi iqiniso livame ukubhekwa ngombono nokukholwa.
Uma ingane yakho iqonda ukuthi inkolelo nokukholwa yizinto esizikhethayo sonke, angakhetha ukukholelwa kokuthile okukhudlwana futhi okuhlala njalo. Yabelana ngemicabango yakho ngalokho okukholelwayo nokuthi kungani umnika isikhathi sokuthola izinkolelo zakhe.
Amasiko KaKhisimusi
Lokhu kungase kube yithuba elihle lokubuyekeza amanye amasiko kaKhisimusi omndeni wakho wonyaka. Esikhundleni sokubhalela uSanta incwadi njalo ngonyaka, ingane yakho ingaba iSanta eyimfihlo kumntanakho omncane noma ingane yomakhelwane. Futhi angabhaka amakhukhi noma isinkwa kumakhelwane asebekhulile. Buza ukuthi angathanda ukuthatha "ukuthatha" kanjani uSanta futhi asakaze inhlanhla nokuphana ayehlale eyazi.
Ngenkathi izingane zingase zingasakwazi ukubuka i-reindeer ngo-Eva kaKhisimusi, phakathi kwakho kungase kube ukulungele ukwamukela umoya weSanta Clause futhi usakaze injabulo yokunikeza ngendlela yakhe ekhethekile. Ukusiza ukwenza kanjalo kuqinisekisa ukuthi enhliziyweni yengane yakho, uSanta uzohlala kuze kube phakade nokuthi empeleni, ngempela.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Lo mbuzo owodwa ungaba yinselele kunoma yimuphi umzali, futhi kuzokwenzeka ekugcineni. Impendulo yakho engcono kakhulu ingase ibe "Yebo, kodwa kodwa hhayi ngendlela ocabanga ngayo. Nansi okusho kwami ..." Kuyinto yokufunda okuhle kakhulu ekunakekeleni nasekunikeni ukuthi izingane zanoma yimuphi ubudala zizokhumbula.