Uma ubuza abazali ukuthi yikuphi kunzima kakhulu lapho bekhulisa izingane zabo, ngokuvamile kuvame ukuthi yikuphi ubudala izingane zabo zikhona manje.
Yize lokho kungase kubonakale kuyindlela elula yokubheka izidingo zokubeletha, uma ubheka ukubeletha ngokwengeziwe ngokweqile, ngokuvamile uthola ukuthi iminyaka ngayinye inezinselele zayo.
Eziningi zalezi zikhathi ezinzima zihambisana nokuguquka, njengalapho ingane yakho ishiya ibele, isuka esikhungweni esiya embhedeni, ishiya i-naps, iphinde iqale inkulisa, njll.
Ukufunda nokulindela lokhu kuguqulwa kwengane kungenza umzali kube lula.
Iphutha
Ukuguqulwa kokuhamba ukusuka kwamabili amabili kuya komunye bese ekugcineni ukuyeka ukulala kunzima kungaba nzima kakhulu. Amaviki ambalwa noma izinyanga ezimbalwa, baze bajwayele ukwenza isimiso sabo sokulala esisha, izingane zingakhathala kakhulu, zizwele futhi zithukuthele, ikakhulukazi ntambama nasekuseni.
Qinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho zithola ukulala ngokwanele, kuhlanganise nokulala kwesikhashana kusuka ekulaleni kwabo, futhi ungayeki ama-naps ngaphambi kokuba kudingeke. Khumbula ukuthi iningi labantu abaneminyaka emibili nabangama-3 ngeke liphume uma ubapha ukukhetha.
Uma ingane yakho encane ishiye ukuphumula, kodwa ngokushesha ilele esihlalweni sayo semoto noma ihlehlisiwe emini, khona-ke cishe uyomyeka ukuba ahambe ngokushesha. Kungase kudingeke ushintshe isikhathi sakho lapho umbeka phansi ukuze uphumule, ube nokuvumelana ngokwengeziwe esimisweni sakho semini, noma nje ube nesinye isikhathi sekusasa ngokuthula uma ungakakwazi ukuthola ingane yakho encane noma ingane yokufundela esikoleni ukuba uthathe a nap naphinde ucabanga ukuthi udinga eyodwa.
Izindlela zokudla
Abazali abaningi nabo babhekene nezinkinga lapho ukudla komntwana wabo kusuka ekunganeni kuze kube yincanyana bese kudla okufana nomndeni wonke, okuyinto ethemba ukudla okunempilo.
Ukubukeza izikhathi 'ezivamile' ukuthi izinsana ziqale ukudla kokudla, ukudla kwaminwe, nokudla kwetafula kungenza ukondle ingane yakho, ikakhulukazi kubazali abasha.
Kungaba okubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi izingane ezincane ezincane zihamba kancane ekudleni kwazo, njengokuzidla ngokwabo, futhi zingaba zikhethe kakhulu.
Ukuguquka Kwezingane Ezivamile
Okunye ukuguqulwa kwezingane ezijwayelekile ukuthi abazali kufanele, noma ekugcineni, bazijwayele kufaka:
- ukuhambisa ingane yakho esikhungweni se-bassinet (cishe izinyanga ezintathu ubudala)
- ukuzitholela nokuthola izinyo zokuqala (phakathi kwezinyanga ezingu-3 kuya kwezingu-15)
- ukulala ubusuku (cishe izinyanga ezine kuya kwezinhlanu)
- ukuqala ukudla kwezingane (cishe izinyanga ezingu-4 kuya kwezingu-6)
- ukuqala ukudla kokunweba kanye nokudla kwetafula (cishe izinyanga ezingu-8 kuya kwezingu-9)
- ukugcoba kusuka kubisi lwesana kuze kube nobisi lonke (izinyanga ezingu-12)
- Ukushintsha kusuka ebhodleleni kuya ekomidini le- sippy (ezinyangeni eziyi-12 kuya kwezingu-15)
- ukuhamba kusuka emanzini amabili (ekuseni nakusasa ntambama) ukuya ku-1 ntambama naphakathi (izinyanga ezingu-12 kuya kwezingu-18)
- ukuncelisa usana lwakho noma ingane encane kusuka ebisi lwebele kuze kube yifomula lesana noma ubisi lonke, kuye ngokuthi uneminyaka yakhe
- ukuthukuthela kanye nezinkathazo ezimbili
- ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi (iminyaka engu-18 kuya eminyakeni engu-3)
- ukuhambisa ingane yakho embhedeni omncane (iminyaka engu-2 ukuya kweyesi-3, uma ingane encane ikhuphuka esihlalweni sayo, noma ingama-intshi angu-36 ubude)
- ukuqedela ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi (iminyaka yobudala 2 1/2 kuya ku-3 1/2)
- ukuyeka inhlanhla ntambama (cishe iminyaka engama-3 kuya kwengu-5, kodwa ngokuvamise kakhulu lapho iqala ubolisa)
- usuku lokuqala lwesikole
- ukuhlala ubomile ebusuku (iminyaka engama-4 kuya kwengu-5 noma ngisho nangemva kwezingane ezithile futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe kakhulu uma sebeqeqeshiwe ngokugcwele)
- ukulahlekelwa izinyo zokuqala (iminyaka engama-6 kuya kwengu-7)
- ukuqala ukukhulelwa - amantombazane (abaneminyaka eyi-8 kuya kweyishumi nambili)
- ukuqala ukukhulelwa - abafana (abaneminyaka eyi-9 kuya kwengu-14)
- ukufunda ukushayela
- abaphothule esikoleni esiphakeme
- ukuhamba ngaphandle kwendlu
- ukuya ekolishi
- ukuthola umsebenzi
Yiqiniso, lezo ezimbalwa zokugcina zingenzeka ngendlela ehlukile.
Imithetho Yokuguquka
Ayikho imithetho enzima futhi esheshayo lapho ubhekene nokuguqulwa kwengane, ngaphandle kokuthi kufanele usolise ukuthi kukhona okungalungile uma ingane yakho ingaphandle kwebanga elijwayelekile lapho kwenzeka okuthile.
Isibonelo, uma uneminyaka engu-18 ubudala usuvele eshiywe ngokuphelele noma ingane yakho engu-8 idinga ukunqunywa kwansuku zonke, lokho kungaba ukukhomba inkinga yezokwelapha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwazi ukuthi izingane eziningi aziqali ukuhlala zome kuze kube yilapho zineminyaka engu-5 kuya kweyisishiyagalombili zizokusiza ukwazi ukuthi umuntu oneminyaka engu-3 noma engu-4 ubudala ujwayelekile uma ehlanza umbhede, ngisho nangemva kokuba i-potty eqeqeshiwe.
Okunye okuwukuthi 'umthetho' mayelana nokuguqulwa kwengane ukuthi izingane ezinemithambo ehlukene ziyabathinta ngokuhluke kakhulu. Ngenkathi ingane elula ehambayo ingase ikwazi ukushintshela ubisi lonke kanye nenkomishi ye-sippy ngesikhathi esifanayo, enye ingane ephikisana kakhulu ingashintsha ingadingeka ishintshe kancane kancane ubisi lonke bese ishintsha kancane kancane isiphuzo se-sippy ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kamuva.