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Ukuqeda ubudlelwane bomshado kungenye yezenzakalo ezingokomzwelo ezingase zenzeke empilweni yengane. Ukudumala kungase kube nokudlulela. Ukujabha kokuba umuntu ahlukane nawe kushaywe ngempela ukuzethemba kwakho . Futhi noma ngabe nguyena owenza ukuhlukana, kunzima ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yontanga yakho futhi uzizwe ujabule ngawe.
Ishintsha isimiso somntwana wakho wansuku zonke, sinikeza umuntu oyedwa ongakhulumi naye futhi ebeka ngempela udoti empilweni yabo yomphakathi. Yingakho bathi, ukuhlukana kunzima ukukwenza. Nawa amanye amathiphu azokusiza ukusiza ingane yakho ngokuphumula:
Nika ingane yakho isikhathi nesikhala ngenkathi ugcina iso elindile. Kuyinto evamile ukuba ingane yakho ibe yisihlungu isikhathi esithile. Kodwa isikhathi eside noma ukucindezeleka okuphelele kuyinto umzali kuyodingeka ukuba ayenze futhi abhekane nayo ngokuletha usizo oluthile lochwepheshe .
Sebenzisa amakhono akho wokulalela asebenzayo. Uma ingane yakho ifuna ukukhuluma , vula kulokho akusho ngaphandle kokuphazamisa. Angase angafuni ukuzwa ukuthi ukuphumula kwakho kokuqala kwenzekani ngalesi sikhathi. Uma kunesidingo engxoxweni, cela. Kodwa gcina lesi sikhathi mayelana nentsha yakho.
Yenza isibonelo sokuziphatha okufanelekile. Kuzodingeka ube umeluleki wezinhlobonhlobo futhi ungashintshi umfana / intombazane ingane yakho yokuphola. Ungaphakamisi ukuziphatha okungalungile, ngisho nokuhleka kokunciphisa imizwa yengane yakho.
Funa izindlela zokubamba ukuzethemba kwengane yakho. Ukumsiza ukuba ajabulele imisebenzi neqembu lakhe lomphakathi futhi ukuthola ukuzilibazisa kuzosiza - ekugcineni. Ungabhekiseli ingane yakho mayelana nokuqeda ukuphumula, vele umvumele ukuba akwenze ngesikhathi.
Ngokushesha ingane yakho izofuna ukuphinda iphinde iphinde ithole futhi. Lezi zinkinga kanye nokuhlaselwa empilweni yethu yebantfwana kubangela ukucindezeleka kithi futhi singase sizizwe sifuna ukumisa ngokungavumeli intsha yethu ukuthi ihlaselwe noma izama ukulawula ubuhlobo babo.
Ungenzi lokho. Vumela ingane yakho ukuba yenze izinqumo zayo futhi ibe khona lapho ikudinga. Yilokho okukhulisa ingane kwentsha.
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