Ucabanga ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwentsha engashadile ngeke kwenzeke endodaneni yakho noma indodakazi yakho? Ucabanga ukuthi usemncinyane kakhulu ukuthi angenze lokho, noma ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke ngoba ungumfana? Izibalo zikazwelonke ezivela e-US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention on the teen violence violence zitshela indaba ehlukile.
Ukuvame Ukushayela Ukuhlukumeza Ngokuvamile?
Izibalo zamanje ezenzweni zokudlwengula ezithandwayo zentsha zitshela indaba esabekayo:
- Enye yamantombazane ayishumi nambili kanti omunye wabafana abasha abangu-11 uyavuma ukuba nobudlova obubonakalayo emphakathini owedlule ngonyaka odlule. Omunye kwabayishumi abathathu bathi bayamazi umuntu ohlaselwe ngokomzimba noma ozwakalayo ngumlingani wokuphola.
- Omunye kwabahlanu abaneminyaka engama-13 no-14 abaye baba nobuhlobo bathi bayamazi umuntu oshaywe intukuthelo isoka noma intombi.
- Omunye kwabayishumi abasebasha uyavuma ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo ngonyaka odlule.
- Phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka engu-11 kuya kwengu-14 abaye baba nobuhlobo, abangamaphesenti angu-62 babo bayazi abangane abaye bahlukumeza kabi isoka noma intombi.
- Cishe eyodwa kumantombazane amantombazane amahlanu asetshenziswe ngokomzimba noma ehlukumezwa ngokocansi ngumlingani wabo.
- Amantombazane angama-70% asetshenziselwa ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi awazi umhlaseli wabo. Umhlaseli wayengumngane, isoka noma ukujwayele okungajwayelekile.
- Amaphesenti angaphezu kwengxenye yamantombazane ahlolisisiwe abika ukuhlukunyezwa ebuhlotsheni babo - okusho ukuthi bobabili yena nomlingani wakhe babethukuthele komunye nomunye.
Beyond Violence Physical and Abuse
Ngaphezu kokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, intsha eningi ilawulwa ubudlelwane bokuhlukumeza noma ngokomzwelo. Ukuvuthwa nokusikeka kuyisibonakaliso esisodwa okumele sikubheke, kodwa kubalulekile nokuba abazali babone izimpawu zokukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwentsha kanye nobudlova kuyenzeka yonke indawo kuya kwinani elimangalisa labasha.
Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bazi izibalo, izimpawu ukuthi umlingani wakho osemusha ungumhlukumezi , ukuthi umjikelezo wokuhlukunyezwa ebuhlotsheni ubukeka kanjani, nokuthi yini okufanele ubheke uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho isetshenziswa kabi. Abazali abafundelayo bangasiza ukuyeka lesi sifo sokuxhashazwa ebuhlotsheni besilisa.
Imithombo:
Khetha Inhlonipho: Ukuthintana Namazinga Okuhlukunyezwa. Izikhungo zokuLawula izifo. http://chooserespect.engagethecrowd.com/scripts/teens/statistics.asp
Ukudlwengula Intsha. Isikhungo Sezinsiza Zokuvimbela Udlame Zwelonke. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwentsha: Ukubheka ngokucophelela ubudlelwane obunothando obusakhulayo. UMnyango Wezobulungiswa wase-US, iHhovisi Lezobulungiswa. https://www.nij.gov/journals/261/pages/teen-dating-violence.aspx
I-Tween Relationship Study. I-National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline. http://www.loveisrespect.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/tru-tween-teen-study-feb-081.pdf