Amasu agqekeza ukuziphatha okubi
Ingane enesimo esibi ngokweqile ibonakala sengathi isesimweni esibi. Izikhalazo eziqhubekayo, ukungabi naso injabulo, nokunye ukuziphatha okungathandeki kalula kungagqoka noma yimuphi umzali. Kulula kubazali nezingane ukuthi bangene emkhathini wokusebenzisana okungalungile, kepha ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kungenzeka.
Njengomzali, kufanele uhlakulele amasu okubhekana nokusebenza okusebenzela wena nomntanakho.
Indlela enhle yokubhekana nesimo sengqondo esibi ukuthatha izindlela ezine-prong. Lezi zindlela zizokusiza ukuba uphathe isimo sengqondo somntwana wakho ukuze ungabafundisa ukuthi bayakwazisa kanjani injabulo encane ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
1. Hlukana neminye imizwa emibi
Ungamnaki ingane yakho uma enesimo esibi . Yeka isimo sengqondo. Uma ungaphenduli ukunganakwa kwengane yakho, uthatha isinyathelo esisodwa phambili ekuqedeni ukuziphatha okubi. Isimo sengqondo esiveza ukwamukelwa kwengane yakho, isimo sengqondo esibi kanye nakho konke, kuzogcina ubudlelwane bakho buqinile futhi kukuvumele ukuthi uqhubeke uphumelela ekuthuthukiseni okuhle.
2. Thola izidingo ezingezansi
Ngokushesha uzokwazi ukubona amaphethini wengane yakho enemizwa engalungile. Mhlawumbe kubi nakakhulu ekuseni, noma ngemva nje kwesikole. Njengabantu, sisengozini yokucasula kanye nokuziphatha kwe-cranky ngokujwayelekile uma sikhathele noma silambile.
Izimo ezintsha nazo zizokwenza ukuphendula okungalungile.
Ukusebenzisana kwezenhlalo esikoleni kanye namaqembu okudlala kungadliwa noma kuphikisana, futhi kubonakala sengathi kuyinkimbinkimbi njengoba ingane yakho ikhula. Umntanakho angase afune ukunakwa kwakho, futhi ukugcoba isu labo ukuwuthola.
Lapho ulungisa izidingo ezingaphansi kwengane yakho yokuphila kahle ngokomzimba, isakhiwo nokujwayela ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, ukuhlela izimo ezintsha, ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi, nokunakekelwa okuhle , ingane yakho izokuthuthukisa ukulawula okunamandla phezu kwemizwelo yakhe kanye nekhono lokulinganisela imizwa engafanele .
3. Ukuphikisa ukungabi nalutho
Ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuba ikhulise imizwa yabo noma ilawule yonke imimoya yomndeni ngokuziphatha kwabo okukhononda njalo nokuziphatha okubi. Ukubhekana nezitatimende ezingenangqondo noma ukuveza izici ezinhle zesimo. Uma bengaboni, okulula "Kwanele. Ngiyaqonda ukuthi uzizwa ngaleyo ndlela, kodwa ..." kwanele. Hambisa ngemisebenzi yakho bese uvumela ingane yakho ukuthi indaba ivaliwe.
4. Fundisa ukuziphatha okuhle
Ukucela ingane ngendlela engafanele ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo esithokozile, nesimo sengqondo esihle kakhulu, kodwa ungabasiza bafunde ukwenza okuhle ngisho nalapho bengakujabuleli. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukwenza umzamo omuhle uma ukusabela kwabo kokuqala kungalungile. Khombisa ingane yakho ukuthi iguqule uma iwonakele ubuhlobo bezenhlalakahle nesimo sabo sengqondo esibi.
Bazisize bathuthukise izinto zokuzilibazisa nezithakazelo ukuthi 1) ziyakujabulela, futhi 2) zinganciphisa noma zithulise isimo sengqondo esibi. Nika ingane yakho izinqumo phakathi kokukhethwa okubili, ngisho nalapho bengathokozi ngalutho. Babonise uthando oluningi nothando ukuze bafunde ukwabelana okufanayo. Ukuhlanganyela injabulo yakho kanye nokubonga kunikeza isibonelo sokuphila okuzovumela ingane yakho ukuba inqobe inselelo yabo enzima.