Uma ngabe ingane yakho izalwa ekuqaleni, khona-ke ukunakekelwa kwengane owawuhlelile ngesikhathi ukhulelwe kungase kungabi yindlela yokukhetha. Izinsana ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ziyakwazi ukugula, kanti izimbungulu ezijwayelekile ezifana nomkhuhlane kanye ne-RSV kungabangela izinkinga ezinkulu ezithandweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izitha zingase zibe nezinkinga zempilo ezingapheli noma ukubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa okwenza kube nzima kunakekelwa kwengane yekhwalithi.
Ngaphambi kokukhetha ukunakekela ingane ingane yakho engakafiki, khuluma nodokotela wezingane ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezilungiselelo ezizobe zihamba phambili. Ezinye izitha zenza kahle ezindaweni zokunakekelwa kwengane ezivamile, kodwa abanye, ikakhulukazi labo abazalwa kakhulu kakhulu noma abanezinkinga ezingeziwe , bangase babe namasosha omzimba ahluleka kakhulu ukuhlelwa kwezinhlelo zokunakekela izingane. Ezinye izitha zingase ziphuze ekuhlangabezaneni nezinyathelo ezibalulekile, nezinhlelo eziqinile zokufunda kanye namashejuli okuqeqesha ama potty zingase zikhungathekise ingane kanye nomzali ngokufanayo.
Izinketho Zokunakekela Abantwana
Abazali bezingane ezingaphambi kwesikhathi banezinketho eziningi zokunakekelwa kwengane ongakhetha kuzo. Zonke zinenzuzo nezinkinga, ngakho-ke cabanga ngokukhetha ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo.
- Umzali Ekhaya: Ngisho noma bobabili abazali behlela ukubuyela emsebenzini ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane yakho, qaphela ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe umzali angahlala ekhaya izinyanga zokuqala noma iminyaka yokuphila kwengane yakho. Ukuba nomzali ekhaya kungaba ngumsindisi omkhulu wemali - imindeni eminingi idinga imoto eyodwa kuphela, ukudla kungakulungiswa kangcono ekhaya, izindleko zokunakekela izingane zingasuswa. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthola ukunakekelwa kwengane yesikhathi esigcwele ku-preemie yakho, qaphela ngokucophelela izimali zakho ukuze ubone ukuthi le ndlela ingasebenzela yini umndeni wakho.
- Umnakekeli Womndeni: Ukunikezela ilunga lomndeni umsebenzi wokunakekela ingane yakho isinqumo esibi, kodwa kuyisinqumo esisebenza kahle emindenini eminingi. Izinsana zangaphambi kwesikhathi zithola inzuzo yokuba khona endlini enokungavumeleki ukutholakala kwamagciwane nezifo futhi zibe nenzuzo yezinga eliphakeme labantu abadala ukuya ekuthuthukiseni ukufunda nokuthuthukiswa. Amalungu omndeni angase abe nomzali ohlukile kunakho, noma, noma angase abe nezinhlelo ezahlukene noma izindinganiso zokudla.
- I-nannies: I-nanny iyindlela enhle kakhulu kubazali abangakwazi ukukhokhela amazinga okukhokhela ama-premium ama-nannies abanekhono. Ama-nannies amaningi aqeqeshwe ekuthuthukiseni ingane, kanti amanye anezitifiketi ezengeziwe ekunakekeleni okusha. Bangasiza isi-preemie yakho ukufunda nokukhula ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ama-nannies amaningi ahlala emakhaya abo, nakuba abanye behlala emakhaya amaklayenti abo. Imali ye-nanny yesilinganiso ihluka kakhulu ngendawo kodwa ingaba phakathi kuka-$ 400 kuya ku-$ 1,000 ngesonto.
- Ama-Au Pairs: I-pair ye-au pair ingumfana osemusha, ovela ngaphandle ongathanda ukuzwa ukuphila kwelinye izwe. Bahlala nomndeni osondelene futhi banakekele izingane zomndeni, bethola isitifiketi sokumboza izindleko zabo zokuphila. Imikhaya yokubamba iqhaza ikhokhela phakathi kuka-$ 300 kuya ku-$ 350 ngenyanga ngenyanga yama-stipends nemali yokubekwa. I-pair enhle kunazo zonke ihlinzeka ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngothando amahora angama-45 ngesonto, ekhaya lakho, ngenkathi usungula izingane zakho emasiko angaphandle.
- Izindawo Zokunakekelwa Kwabantwana Ekhaya: Izindlu zokunakekela izingane zangaphakathi zihluka kakhulu. Amanye amabhizinisi amancane aqhutshwa ngamama omama ahlala ekhaya anakekela izingane ezimbalwa kuphela; Amanye amabhizinisi amakhulu nakumnakekeli wokusiza nabantwana abaningi. Abanakekeli basekhaya bangase babe nolwazi olubanzi lokusebenza nezingane futhi bakwazi ukusiza abazali ukuba banakekele izitha zabo, ngisho nalabo abanezidingo ezikhethekile. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinketho yokunakekela izingane engabizi kakhulu ngaphandle kokunakekelwa komndeni ku-preemie yakho.
- Izindawo Zokunakekelwa Kwezinsuku: Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku zihlinzekela inqwaba yezingane emvelweni weqembu. Abaningi banikeza izinhlelo zemfundo, ukudla okunomsoco, namahora awandisiwe kubazali abanezinhlelo zomsebenzi ezingavamile. Kungenzeka babe nokuhlangenwe nakho ukusebenza nezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile, futhi abazali abanemithwalo yemithwalo esindayo akudingeki bakhathazeke ngokuthi umnakekeli wabo ojwayelekile angase adinge isikhathi ngoba izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezinsuku zinezikhundla ezitholakalayo. Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwamasango zivame ukusebenza ngokulinganisa othisha / izingane ngokulinganisa nengane yengane, kodwa amakilasi angase ahlanganiswe ukuze izingane eziningi zibekwe ndawonye.
Okubalulekile
Uma ufuna ukunakekela ingane yakho engakafiki, akukho hlobo olulodwa lokunakekelwa kwezingane oluzohlinzeka ngokunakekelwa okungcono kwengane yakho. Imigomo yakho eyinhloko ekutholeni ukunakekelwa kwengane ukugcina izingane zakho ziphilile futhi ziphephile futhi zandisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nokuzizwa ngokomzwelo. Bheka zonke izinketho zakho lapho ukhetha ukunakekelwa kwengane ingane yakho ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Uma uthola ukunakekelwa kwezingane oyithandayo, qinisekisa ukuthi ihlangabezana nalezi ziqu:
- Ukuchayeka okuncane kwezinye izingane: Ukutholakala okulinganiselwe kumagciwane.
- Inqubomgomo ekhudlwana yokugula: Ukugcina i-preemie yakho kude nezingane ezigulayo.
- Uhlelo lwe-Flexible yokuqeqesha zangasese: Izitha zangasese zingakwazi ukuqeqesha isitoreji kamuva.
- Imigomo eqinile yokuhlanza ngesandla: Kubasebenzi nabafundi.
- Uhlelo lwezemfundo olufanele: Ukuthuthukisa intuthuko ngaphandle kokuqina kakhulu.
- Ukuqonda ukuthuthukiswa kwengane: Ukukusiza ukuthi ubheke ukulibaziseka kwentuthuko.
Imithombo
> I-International Au Pair Association. http://www.iapa.org/Docs/index/index.php4
> International Nanny Association.
> Rosenthal, uMarjorie S. MD, MPH; Crowley, Angela A. PhD, APRN, BC, PNP; I-Curry, i-Leslie PhD, i-MPH "Okuhlangenwe nakho Kwabanikezeli Abanakekeli Kubantwana Bomndeni Ekukhuthazeni Kwezempilo." Impilo Yomndeni Nomphakathi. Ukwakhiwa Kwezempilo Emndenini Nomphakathi Okthoba / Disemba 2008 31: 326-334.
> Sears MD, William, Sears MD, Robert, Sears MD, James, Sears RN, Martha. Incwadi Yengane Yokuqala: Yonke Into Okudingeka Uyazi Ngomntwana Wakho Okhulile Kusukela Ekuzalweni Kuya Kudala . Little, Brown and Co., New York, 2004.