Nginomntwana emndenini wami owandisekayo okhuphisana kakhulu. Futhi akuyona imidlalo enhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uvame ukuthokoza lapho ephumelela futhi uzama ukusola wonke umuntu uma elahlekelwa, noma uguqule imithetho ngomzuzu wokugcina ukuze akwazi ukulahlekelwa. Ngenkathi ukuncintisana kulungile, kunjalo nendawo yokudlala yezinga. Lokhu kubangela ukuthi umbuzo omdala onobaba (okungenani uyenzela mina) - ingabe sivumela ingane yethu ukuba iwine emncintiswaneni noma sidlala ukuze sinqobe, sinethemba lokuthi bayoba ukuncintisana ngokubheka ukuthi sinqobe?
Izikole ezintathu zokucabanga
Ochwepheshe bokubeletha babonakala behlelwa ngezindlela ezintathu ezihlukene zombuzo wokuthi ngabe kufanele yini ukuba ingane iphumelele ngokuphumelelayo.
- Yebo-vumela ingane iphumelele ukuze ikhiphe ukuzethemba kwayo
- Cha - gcina izinga lezinga lokudlala ngoba uvumela ingane ukuba izuze lapho iphikisana nabanye
- Ngezinye izikhathi - ukushaya ibhalansi phakathi kokuphumelela okuvamile kanye nezifundo ezingase zivele ngokulahlekelwa.
Ikamu elithi "Yebo" lizwa ukuthi kunezingcindezi ezanele emhlabeni ngokuzizwa kwengane ukuthi kufanele ukuba abazali bangabe besakha imizwa eminingi yokungafaneleki. Bathi, "Uma izingane ziwina, zizoba ngcono nakakhulu ngazo. Lokhu kuzobaqinisa ngokumelene nezihlukumezi nabanye esikhathini esizayo empilweni ngoba bazoba nomqondo oqinile wokuzibheka. "
Angiweli eqenjini elithi "Yebo" ngoba ngicabanga ukuthi lidala umuzwa wamanga wokuphepha futhi kuveza imizwa yokufaneleka kamuva lapho bengathola ukuthi abanamakhono kangakanani kwezinye izinto.
Uma behlala bewina imidlalo lapho bedlala nomzali, abazizwa benesifiso sokusebenza kanzima futhi balula amakhono abo emdlalweni olandelayo noma emncintiswaneni.
Ikamu elithi "Cha" libonakala likholelwa ukuthi kufanele sibe njalo nezingane zethu futhi sizilungiselele izinto ezibukhali zokuphila "kwenja-yokudla inja".
Uma sizihlanganisa, ziphetha, ngakho-ke ngeke zilungele ukuphila futhi zingadumazeka kakhulu uma behluleka noma belahlekelwa emncintiswaneni wokulunga, oyinhloko. Uma bebuthakathaka noma bengenele, ukwehluleka komncintiswano kuzobagqugquzela ukuba babe namandla, abanamakhono amaningi, futhi banamandla kakhulu. A
Kodwa lokho kubonakala sengathi leli qembu lingamnaki yiyona nto yokudikibala. Uma ingane ilahlekelwa ngokuphindaphindiwe emncintiswaneni nomzali noma ingane yakhulile, angase alahle noma aqhubekele kwenye into enethuba elingcono lokuphumelela. Ingane elahlekelwa izikhathi eziyishumi kwabayishumi emncintiswaneni wokudubula wamahhala ungashukunyiswa okwesikhashana ukuze ibe ngcono, kodwa uma iba yintambo yokulahleka okungama-20 noma kwe-30, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi ayeke ukuzama.
Ngivame ukuwela eceleni kweqembu "Ngezinye izikhathi" labazali abazama ukulinganisela okuhlangenwe nakho okuncintisana ngakho ukuze izingane zifunde ukulahlekelwa ngomusa kodwa futhi ngezikhathi ezithile zibe ne "injabulo yokunqoba." Uma ingane inokuhlangenwe nakho kokubili futhi izwa ithemba lokuthi ngezinye izikhathi angase aphume phezulu, azoqhubeka ezama futhi ahlale ekhuthazekile ukuthuthukisa.
Ukugcina Inkundla Yokudlala Yezinga Elikhulu
Umqondo wokuvumela ingane ukuba iwine - "ukuphonsa umdlalo" - awukho obaba abaningi.
Sibona umsebenzi wethu njengoba sifundisa izingane ukuba sibhekane namaqiniso futhi sihlale sifuna ukukhula. Lokhu kudinga ukuba sigcine izinga lezemidlalo futhi "vumela umdlali ongcono kakhulu ukunqoba."
Ngivumelana nalokho, kepha kukhona izinqumo esingayenza ukuze sigcine inkundla yokudlala ibe yizinga elingakghona ngenkathi inikeza amathuba okunqoba izingane zethu.
Sebenzisa ama-tees ahlukene. Esigabeni segalofu, kuvame ukufaka amaqoqo amathathu wetiyi ekuqaleni komgodi. Amathikithi okuncintisana abuyele emuva futhi ahloselwe abadlali begolfu abanolwazi abanamakhono aphezulu. Ama-tees aphakathi, noma ama-white tees, aklanyelwe ama-golfers amahle futhi kukhona enye iqoqo lezinti (amathiyi abomvu) eduze nomgodi wegolfu omusha noma mhlawumbe abesifazane abangenawo amandla okushaya ibhola kuze kube manje.
Singasebenzisa le "paraesgm ehlukene" uma sidlala imidlalo nezingane zethu. Singabanikeza ukuqala kwekhanda elifushane emncintiswaneni, noma bavumele ukudubula amaqabunga ngebhasikidi engaphansi komthethonqubo 10 'ukuphakama - okungenani okwesikhashana. Leli lungu elihle lokulinganisa inkundla yokudlala phakathi kwamakhono omnumzane wengane namakhono ezingeni eliphakeme lomzali noma umntakwethu omdala.
Hlanganisa nabazali. Sithole indlela ephumelelayo kakhulu emidlalweni ngaphandle kokuthi "ukuvumela ingane ukuba iwine" iwukuba nemidlalo eminingi kumaqembu. Siphathanisa ingane encane nomzali oyedwa kanye nomntwana omdala nomunye umzali noma umntanakho omdala. Uma bedlala kumaqembu, ingane encane inethuba elingcono lokuwina. Isihluthulelo sihlanganisa amazinga amakhono amaqembu ukuze wonke umuntu abe nethuba elingalingana lokuwina lo mdlalo.
Bonisa isibonelo sezemidlalo esihle. Njengesihlobo sami, uma ukunqoba kuba yizinto zonke, khona-ke kukhona ukuthambekela kokuba yisisindo esikhulu . Ngakho, njengomzali, uma unqoba, yibani nomusa futhi uncome. Uma ulahlekelwa, yiba nomusa futhi uhalalise. Vumela abantwana bazi ukuthi ukugcoba kwenza abanye bazizwe bebi. Uma ubeka imidlalo emihle emncintiswaneni, izingane zakho zizofunda ukubaluleka kokuwina nokulahlekelwa ekilasini nokuhlonipha.