Ukubheka izibalo zokukhulelwa kwentsha kanye nezindlela zokuzivimbela
Ngenkathi izinga lokukhulelwa kwentsha liye lahleka eminyakeni yamuva, kusekhona okwanele ukuthi abazali bentsha badingeke baqaphele ukuthi kungenzeka futhi bahlanganyele ekuvimbeleni kwawo.
Yeka Indlela Ejwayelekile Yokukhulelwa Kwezingane?
Ngokwezibalo ezishicilelwe yi-Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) maduze nje ngo-March 2016:
- Ngo-2014, inani labantwana abangu-249 087 lazalwa ngabesifazane abaneminyaka engama-15-19, ngenani lokuzalwa labangu-24.2 kwabesifazane abangu-1 000 kule nkathi yobudala.
- Ngo-2010, ukukhulelwa kwentsha nokubeletha kwabakho okungenani u-$ 9.4 wezigidi ezikhokhelwa abakhokhi bentela base-US ekwenzeni ukunakekelwa kwempilo nokwandisa ukunakekelwa kwabantwana, ukukhuphula izinga lokuboshwa kwabazali bezingane ezisencane, nokulahlekelwa kwemali yentela ngenxa yokutholakala kwemfundo ephansi kanye nokuthola imali phakathi kwabomama abasha.
- Amaphesenti angaba ngu-50 kuphela omama abasha abathola idiploma yesikole esiphakeme abaneminyaka engu-22 ubudala, ngokulinganiselwa cishe kwamaphesenti angu-90 abesifazane abangakaze babelethe ngesikhathi sobusha.
- Izingane zamantombazane asebancane zikwazi ukuphumelela esikoleni esiphansi futhi zilahlekelwe esikoleni esiphakeme, zibe nezinkinga zempilo ezingaphezulu, ziboshwe ngesikhathi esithile lapho zisencane, zibelethwe njengengane yentsha, futhi zibhekene nokungasebenzi njengomuntu omdala osemusha.
Nakuba lezi zibalo zokukhulelwa kwentsha zikhombisa ukuthuthukiswa kokuvimbela ukukhulelwa kwentsha eminyakeni yamuva, izinga lokukhulelwa kwentsha yase-US lisakhula kakhulu kunezinye izizwe ezisentshonalanga.
Isizathu Sokuba Kufanele Uzikhathalele Ngokukhulelwa Kwabancane
Uma ungewona umzali wengane noma ungenaye osemusha, ungase uzibuze ukuthi ingabe ukukhulelwa kwentsha kungakuthinta kanjani. Ngokusho koMnyango WezeMpilo kanye Nezinsizakalo Zabantu, Isikhungo Sikazwelonke sezeMpilo:
- Ukukhulelwa kwentsha kuyabakhokhisa abakhokhi bentela 9.1 billion ngonyaka.
- Ngaphezu kwengxenye yesithathu kubo bonke abasha abanomntwana ngeke baqede esikoleni esiphakeme.
- Kusetshenziswe izigidigidi zamaRandi ukunakekela omama abasha kanye nezingane zabo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bazoba ebhokisini lobuphofu.
- Amaphesenti angu-1.5 kuphela omama abasha abanesilinganiso se-ekolishi abaneminyaka engama-30.
- Izingane zamantombazane asebancane zinezilinganiso ezincane zokubeletha, zingase zenze kahle esikoleni, futhi zisengozini enkulu yokuhlukumeza nokungahoxiswa.
- Amantombazane omama aseneminyaka eyishumi nambili angaphezu kwamaphesenti angu-13 angagcina ejele.
- Amantombazane omama abasha abengamaphesenti angu-22 amathuba okuba omama abasha.
- Amaphesenti angaba ngu-80 omama abangashadile abashadile aphelela enhlalakahle.
Abazali Abazali Ababaluleke Kakhulu Bangenzani Ukuvimbela Ukukhulelwa Kwabancane?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu abazali abangayenza ukuze bavimbele ukukhulelwa kwentsha kumele bahileleke ekuphileni kwabo kwentsha. Uma uzibandakanya ngokwengeziwe empilweni yakho yengane, lapho uzokwazi ukugcina imigqa yokukhulumisana ivulekile uma kuziwa ezindabeni ezinzima ezifana nobulili nokukhulelwa kwentsha.
Futhi ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo. Ukubandakanyeka kusho futhi ukuzimisela ukuphendula imibuzo yengane yakho ngokuvuleka nokuthembeka, futhi ngaphandle kokwahlulela. Uma ubonisa ukungabaza ukwabelana ngolwazi olubalulekile nentsha yakho, bayoyeka ukuhlanganyela impilo yabo nawe futhi bazothola ulwazi abayidingayo kwenye indawo.
Eminye yale mithombo ehlukile yolwazi ingafaka phakathi ontanga, amawebhusayithi angathembekile, noma ngisho nezocansi. Ezimweni eziningi, ulwazi abalutholayo lungase lungalungile.
Yingakho imfundo yezocansi ekhaya ibalulekile kakhulu. Amaphakheji kolwazi angaholela ezinhlobonhlobo zemiphumela ongayesaba kakhulu ingane yakho, kuhlanganise nokukhulelwa okungahlelelwe.
Ngikhuluma Kanjani Nengane Yami Mayelana Nezocansi?
Ngakho unayo kanjani iThe Talk ? Nansi imfihlo: ayikho into enjalo. Noma okungenani akekho "I-Talk." Esikhundleni salokho, imfundo yasekhaya ekhaya kufanele ibe yingxoxo eqhubekayo eqala ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, lapho izinsana nezinsana ziqala ukufunda amagama afanele ezingxenyeni zomzimba zazo.
Kuphela kuqhubeka kusuka lapho, ngolwazi luya ngokujulile njengoba ingane yakho ikhula.
Kuyaqondakala uma umcabango walokho kukwenza ukhathazeke noma ungakhululekile. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ingabe ulwazi oluthe xaxa luzokwenza ingane yakho ikwazi ukuzama izinto engakakulungeli?
Ngokumangalisa, impendulo yalokhu cha. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuthola lolo lwazi kubazali ngaphambi kokuba bahlanganyele ngokocansi kusiza intsha ukuthi izivikele ezithweni ezimbi, ikhulise ukuzethemba, futhi ibuye ibasize ekuzivikeleni kulabo abadlwengula ngokocansi.
Yenza umzamo wokuba yingxenye yempilo yengane yakho. Yiba umuntu abaphendukela kuwo uma badinga ulwazi noma iseluleko. Ngale ndlela, bayobe bekulungele kangcono kunoma yini ukuphila abaphonsa kubo.
Imithombo
Izikhungo zokuLawula nokuvimbela izifo (CDC): Mayelana nokukhulelwa kwentsha