Umntanakho usekhulile futhi ulungiselela iminyaka yakhe njengomfana osemusha kanye nomuntu osemusha. Ngenkathi ungase ungaboni usuku nosuku zonke izinguquko nezinyathelo ezibalulekile phakathi kwakho okuphakathi, kungenzeka ukuthi phakathi kwakho uyazi kahle futhi ujabule ngazo, noma ulindele imicimbi ethile kanye nezikhathi ezithile.
Ingane yakho izobhekana nemicimbi eminingi ekhethekile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhathi sokuqala eminyakeni embalwa elandelayo, futhi zonke zibalulekile ngandlela-thile.
Ngezansi kukhona okuyingqophamlando ezimbalwa i-tween yakho mhlawumbe ilangazelela phakathi neminyaka ephakathi. Ezinye ongase uzidinge ukuzilungiselela, ezinye zizoba nje izikhathi zokujabulela nokukhumbula. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimo, qiniseka ukuthi wena nomntanakho ujabulela izinto ezibalulekile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuzayo.
Ukubuka omdala
Njengomzali, mhlawumbe ungayithanda uma ungamgcina ingane yakho ingcosana isikhathi eside. Ngenkathi ungase ungabi nesifiso sokuba ingane yakho ikhule futhi ikhule , kungenzeka ukuthi phakathi kwakho. Abaningi abayishumi nambili bafuna ukubheka asebekhulile futhi bevuthiwe kunalokho abayikho ngempela, futhi abaningi babo bazolingisa izitayela zemfashini zentsha, imikhuba, nezinye izindlela ukuze zivele zivuthiwe futhi zipholile.
Kunezingozi eziningana kulokhu kuziphatha. Ingane yakho isencane futhi ayilungele izimo izingane ezindala ezingase zithole zibhekene nazo. Futhi, ngenkathi i-tween yakho ifuna ukukhula, wena njengomzali uyazi ukuthi ukwehla ekukhuleni kungaba nzima futhi kufuneke, futhi ukunikeza iminyaka ebalulekile yobuntwana akuyona umbono omuhle.
Siza phakathi kwakho ukufunda ukuhlala okwamanje, futhi ujabulele okuhlangenwe nakho okulungiselelwe ukuthuthukiswa. Ukubeka imingcele kanye nezingxoxo zenhliziyo kuya kwenhliziyo kufanele kusize ingane yakho ifunde ukuthi ingayisebenzisa kanjani iminyaka edlule ngenkathi ikulindele eminyakeni engumusha.
Ukuhlala Kwedwa Kuphela
Ingane yakho kungenzeka ikhona phambi kwabantu abadala noma omncane abakhulile impilo yakhe yonke, kodwa ingane yakho cishe iyabuza ukuthi kuyoba njani ukuhlala ekhaya yedwa .
Ukuhlala ekhaya uqobo kusho ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula futhi ikhulile, nokuthi uthemba phakathi kwakho ukuphatha izinto okwesikhashana. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingakulungeli ukuhlala yedwa isikhathi eside, i-middle yakho ingase ikwazi ukubhekana nakho okufushane kuphela.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi imithetho yakho yombuso noma yendawo ngaphambi kokuba ucabange ukushiya phakathi kwakho ngokuzenzekelayo. Futhi, ezinye izikhathi ezingu-13 zingenakukhululeka ngaphandle kokuqondiswa kwabantu abadala, ngakho-ke wazi ukuthi noma ngabe i-tween yakho ikulungele ngempela isipiliyoni ngaphambi kokuhlola amanzi.
Ukuthola nokuchitha imali yabo
Kwabaningi abayishumi ukucabanga kokuthola izingane noma ukuthola imali yokuhlala kwezilwane, noma nganoma iyiphi enye indlela kuyathandeka. Lezi zingane ezindala azikwazi ukulinda ukuze zisebenze ukuze zithole imali yazo zichithe, noma zilondoloze okuthile okukhethekile. Abanye abangu-13 bangase bafune ukusebenza ukuze bakwazi ukufakazela ukuthi bangenza umnikelo emndenini. Ingaphakathi lakho lingase lilungele ukusebenza isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba ulungele ukuba asebenze.
Uma ingane yakho icela ukujoyina abasebenzi, ungasiza. Nika ingane yakho ukuthi isebenze ukuzungeze indlu, bese ubeka isikhathi sokugcina. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ifunde indlela yokuphatha isikhathi, cela usizo, futhi ulandele umsebenzi, ngisho noma kunzima noma akujabulisi.
Nikeza ingane yakho imithwalo ephephile ezosiza ophakathi kwakho ukuba athuthukise amakhono adingekayo uma engena ezweni elisebenzayo langempela.
Ukuthatha Uhambo Ngaphandle Kwenu
Abantu abayishumi nambili bazimisele futhi bekulungele ukwamukela i-adventure , kodwa lokho kungaba nzima ukukwenza uma umama noma ubaba elele nxazonke. Yingakho abantwana asebekhulile bevame ukujabulela ukuhamba ngezinyawo noma ngisho nokuphumula ngaphandle komama nobaba, kanye nezingane zakubo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uzinikele kuzo zonke izinkambo zasendleleni, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ingane yakho ukuthi ingabe ingahamba yini ngaphandle kwakho, futhi ungayithathi uma uyenza. Noma, cabanga ukuthumela i-tween yakho ngezimpelasonto endlini yomzalwane noma nomngane omuhle futhi othembekile, noma ekamu lokulala ebusuku.
Ikamu lokulala ebusuku linikeza abantu ithuba lokuthola abangane abasha, bafunde amakhono abalulekile, futhi babe nokuzijabulisa kwabo. Noma ngabe yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okukhethayo, khumbula ukuthi kuzosiza phakathi kwakho ukuthuthukisa ukuzimela kanye namakhono okuxazulula izinkinga, futhi kungase kukunikeze ikhefu, futhi.
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Umntanakho angase abe esikoleni esiphakathi, kodwa usevele eqala ukucabanga ngesikoleni esiphakeme nayo yonke into ejabulisayo efika nayo. Ukuya emsebenzini wesikolo esiphakeme, njengomdlalo webhola lebhola lezinga eliphezulu, kukhona into eningi ayikwazi ukulinda ukuyenza. Ukuya noma yikuphi umsebenzi wesikole esiphakeme noma umcimbi ujabulisa abantu abayishumi nambili abajwayele ukufundisa izingane, futhi bathole ukuthokoza esikoleni esiphakeme futhi bakhulile. Uma ingane yakho inesithakazelo sokuya esikoleni esiphakeme noma ukudlala esikoleni esiphakeme noma ikhonsathi ucabange ukuhlangana ndawonye ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nesikole futhi ukhuthaze isithakazelo somntanakho esikoleni sakhe esiphakeme esikoleni esiphakeme.
Ukuthola isoka noma intombi
Ungase ungajabuli kakhulu ngomntanakho ukuphola noma ukuthola isoka noma intombi, kepha uhlangothi lwakho lungase luzwe ngendlela ehlukile. Izinsuku ezingu-13 zinezinkanuko zokubhangqa nezinye izinto ezibalulekile nokuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyazi. Eziningi zalezi zinyunyana zingezesikhashana futhi azibi kakhulu, kepha uma ingane yakho ifuna ukuphola, kuzodingeka wenze imithetho yakho kanye nokulindela kucace kakhulu. Kungase kudingeke ubhale inkontileka ethi "ukuphola" ukuthi wena nesibonakaliso sakho sangaphakathi, ngakho-ke akukho ukungaqondi kahle ngalokho okungavumelekile.
Nakuba ukuphola kungase kungabi nakakhulu njengoba kungase kube esikoleni esiphakeme, kungathinta futhi imizwa yengane yakho nokuzethemba uma izimpikiswano noma ukuphumula kuphakama, ngakho-ke lungele ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ibuyele ezinyaweni ngemva kokuhlangenwe nakho ukudumala.
Ukujoyina iQembu
Isikole esiphakathi sinikeza abantu ithuba lokuba benze okungaphezu komphakathi kunesikoleni esiphansi. Izikole eziningi zinikeza amakilasi emva kwesikoleni noma izinhlangano ingane yakho ingajoyina, noma amaqembu ezemidlalo noma amaqembu ezemidlalo yangaphakathi. Ukuhlala ngemuva kwesikole ukuba uhlanganyele eqenjini kungaba yinto ejabulisayo ezinganeni ezincane, ezazivele zihamba ekhaya ngemva kwesikole.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuphenya okukhethwa esikoleni sayo, bese uzama ukusiza phakathi kwakho ukuthola iqembu noma iqembu elihambisana nobuntu babo. Uma ingane yakho isivele idlala imidlalo, ungakhuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukwenza into ehluke ngokuphelele, njengokujoyina iklabhu yemvelo noma iqembu le-Spanish. Ukuhlolwa kuqakathekile ekusizeni phakathi kwakho ukuthola okuthile okusha futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nesithakazelo noma isifiso esisha.
Ukuzikhandla Kokuthile
Ama-tween ahlakulela ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, futhi afuna ukuthi wazi. Abantu abayishumi nambili bajabule kakhulu ngomqondo wokuphatha okuthile. I-middle yakho ingase ifune ukuphatha izingane zakini ezincane ngenkathi umatasa wenza isidlo sakusihlwa, noma ingane yakho ingase ifune ukubamba iqhaza emcimbini noma iphrojekthi engayihola ngayo. Vumela ingane yakho ukuba ithinte amakhono obuholi ngokudlulisela imisebenzi efanelekayo kuye.
Ungase ucabange ukubeka ingane yakho icala lokuhlanza i-pantry, ukuhlela igaraji, noma ukuhlela ingadi entsha yemifino. AmaTweens angafunda futhi ngokusiza ukuhlobisa ngamaholide, ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo yokwenza umsebenzi wesikole noma imiklasi yeklasini, noma ngokuhlanganyela enhlanganweni noma eqenjini labantu elibhekana nemisebenzi yomphakathi noma imicimbi ekhethekile. Hlanganisa izithakazelo zomntanakho ngamaphrojekthi, futhi ubone ukuthi masinyane kangakanani u-tween wakho ufunda amakhono amasha futhi uyaziqhenya ekwenzeni umehluko.
Ukuthola Ukukhathazeka Okuyiqiniso
AmaTweens akhathazekile ukuthuthukisa umqondo wabo siqu kanye nobunikazi obuhlukile futhi buhlukile kubazali babo. Lesi sigaba sentuthuko sivamile, futhi abazali akufanele bathathe lesi sigaba ngokwabo. Eqinisweni, ungakwazi ukuzitholela ngemuva ukuze usize ingane yakho ikhululeke ngokwanele ukuzwakalisa yona futhi ihlole ubunikazi, izithakazelo namakhono.
Abantu abayishumi nambili bafuna ukuthola ukuzilibazisa noma isifiso esibasiza ukuthi bangubani. Bangase babamukele ezemidlalo, ubuciko, noma isayensi ukuze bakwazi ukwenza isitatimende kubo noma ontanga yabo. Abanye abangu-13 bazokhathazeka ukujoyina amakilabhu (noma ezinye izinhlangano) futhi bathathe imithwalo yemfanelo eminingi nalawo maqembu. Ukusekela izifiso zakho ze-tweens, futhi ungamangazi noma udumale uma ingane yakho ihamba ngokuzungezile kusuka ezithakazelweni kuya ezithakazelweni. Konke kuyiyingxenye yenqubo.
Ukuba Useduze Kwenu
Yikholelwa noma cha, cishe phakathi kwakho ufuna ubuhlobo obuseduze nawe kunokuba ucabange. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ihlakulela umbuthano wabangane futhi ithembela kulabo abangane ngokwengeziwe, naye ufuna ubuhlobo obuseduze nawe, umzali. Ngenkathi usadingeka ukuba umzali wakho ingane, futhi usethe imingcele, kufanele ujabulele phakathi kwakho kanye nalesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa.
Ingane yakho iyakhula, futhi uthola ukubona zonke izindlela ezinhle kakhulu ukuthi i-tween yakho ikhula. Ungase uthole ngisho nombono walokho okushiwo ngumuntu omncane osemncane oqala ukubukeka, futhi lokho kungaqinisekisa ukuthi wenza umsebenzi omuhle njengomama noma ubaba.