Ukunquma phakathi kwemijikelezo eyengeziwe, umnikelo noma ukulahlwa kwemibungu yakho
Uma uqala ukwelashwa kwe-IVF , kungenzeka ukuthi ube nemibungu eyengeziwe ekugcineni angeke uwele ingqondo yakho. Zonke izinkathazo zakho zingase zigxile ekubeni nemibungu eyanele (noma yimuphi!) Yokudlulisa.
Ingxenye yezindleko zakho zokwelapha i-IVF kufanele ihlanganise ukuguqulwa kwamagciwane angasetshenzisiwe kanye nemali yokugcina isikhathi esifushane. Uma umjikelezo wakho ungaphumeli, leyo mibungu ingadliwa futhi idluliselwe phakathi nomjikelezo wakho olandelayo, noma ungase unqume ekuqedeni omunye umjikelezo "omusha" nokugcina imibungu efriziwe ngomjikelezo wesikhathi esizayo.
Kodwa ake sithi uqedile umjikelezo ophumelelayo, futhi unemibungu engasetshenzisiwe kwiqhwa. Manje?
Awudingi ukunquma ngokushesha ukuthi yini ongayenza ngemibungu esele, kodwa kungcono impilo yakho engokomzwelo uma ungalindi isikhathi eside ukuzinquma.
Gcina iMibungu Eyengeziwe Yomjikelezo Wesikhathi Esizayo
Uma wazi ukuthi awuqedi ukwakha umndeni wakho, bese ulondoloza imibungu ukuze ukudluliselwa esikhathini esizayo mhlawumbe ngeke kube yisinqumo esinzima. Eqinisweni, ukuba nemibungu eyengeziwe yale njongo kungaba usizo olukhulu. Ukudluliswa kombungu okwakhiwe ngamafutha (ngezinye izikhathi okufingqiwe njenge-FET) kubiza kakhulu kunomjikelezo omusha we-IVF. I-FET inenani elilinganiselwa ku-$ 2,500, noma cishe u-R10 000 eshibhile kunomjikelezo wesilinganiso se-IVF. Futhi, ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo kunciphile kunokuphinda ujikeleze ngokugcwele kwe-IVF.
Kuthiwani uma ungahle uhlele ukuba nezingane eziningi? Mhlawumbe ukhulelwe amawele noma kathathu , futhi usufinyelele uhlelo lwakho lwesayizi lomndeni oluhleliwe.
Eminye imibhangqwana inqume ukuthi ibe nezingane eziningi kunokuba zihlelwe ekuqaleni, futhi zisebenzise imibungu abanayo baze baphume.
Noma kunjalo, ukusebenzisa wonke ama-embryo owadalwa akuyona inketho kuwo wonke umndeni. Ungase ungafuni izingane ezingaphezulu, noma ungase ungakwazi ukuthola okuningi ezenzweni zezokwelapha, zezimali, noma ezingokoqobo.
Nikela Imibungu Eyengeziwe Kwabanye Abashadile Abafayo
Enye indlela ongase ube nayo ukunikela ngemibungu yakho engasetshenzisiwe komunye umbhangqwana ongenamakhono.
Lokhu ngezinye izikhathi kubhekiswa ngokuphikisana ngokuthi i-embryo "ukutholwa," noma ngabe igama elithi "ukuthatha ingane" lilungile kulokhu kungabaza.
Iminikelo yesisu ingasetshenziswa nge-ejenti noma emitholampilo yakho yokuzala. Ngokuvamile, ama-ejenti akhokhisa kakhulu kulabo abatholayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-ejensi inganikeza umnikeli ukuthi aqonde ukuthi ubani ozokwamukela imibungu yawo.
Ngeke uthole noma iyiphi inkokhelo yezimali yama-embryos anikeziwe, kodwa abamukeli kufanele bahlanganise ezinye zezinkokhelo zokufaka umnikelo wombungu.
Umnikelo wesisu ungenziwa njengomnikelo ovulekile noma uvaliwe.
Umnikelo ovulekile kusho ukuthi ungamazi umamukeli - bangase babe ngumngane noma ilungu lomndeni - noma, uma ubapha umbhangqwana ongawazi ngaphambili, ungase ugcine uhlobo lokuxhumana phakathi komunye nomunye.
Eminikelweni evaliwe, ngeke uxhumane nomndeni othola imibungu. Imitholampilo ethile yokuzala izokwenza nje kuphela iminikelo evaliwe. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza umtholampilo wakho ukuze uthole imininingwane.
Umnikelo womama awuwona wonke umuntu, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi uqonde ngokuphelele ukuthi kunesiphi isimo sengqondo nesomthetho esithinta isinqumo sakho.
Ukubonisana nesazi sengqondo , kanye nesikhathi sokulinda ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, kuvame ukudingeka ngaphambi kokuba unikele ngemibungu yakho.
Lokhu kungukuvikela kwakho futhi uqinisekise ukuthi wenza isinqumo esinolwazi.
Kufanele futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ukhuluma nommeli owaziyo umthetho wokuzala. Ukuze ugweme ukungqubuzana kwezintshisekelo, ummeli wakho akumele abe ummeli ofanayo we-ejenti, umtholampilo noma umndeni owamukelayo, noma ngabe uyazi umndeni ozokwamukela imibungu yakho.
Yazi nokuthi uma unikela ngemibungu yakho, awukwazi ukwenza izinqumo ukuthi zisetshenziswa kanjani. Uma lemibungu iba izingane, awunakho ukusho ukuthi zikhuliswe kanjani. Uma kungenjalo yonke imibungu yakho enikeziwe isetshenzisiwe, umamukeli-umnikeli ngeke akwazi ukukhetha ukuthi kuzokwenzenjani nabo.
Nikela imibungu eyengeziwe kuSayensi
Enye indlela ongakhetha ngayo ukunikela ngemibungu eyengeziwe ekucwaningweni kwesayensi.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ama-embri azinikele kwisayensi ngeke abe izingane noma izingane. Imibungu izobhujiswa ngenqubo yocwaningo, kodwa ulwazi oluzuziwe lunganika omunye umuntu ithuba lokuphila.
Akuwona wonke umuntu onganikela ngemibungu yawo kwisayensi. Imithetho yakho yasendaweni ingahle iwuvimbele ikhono lakho lokubanika, umtholampilo wakho ungase ungakwazi ukusiza umnikelo, noma imibungu yakho ingase ingalungi izidingo zocwaningo zamanje.
Kufanele wazi ukuthi unelungelo lokubuza ukuthi izimbuzi zakho ezizinikele zizosetshenziswa kanjani.
Thaw futhi Ulahle Imibungu
Enye indlela yokwenza imibungu ihlulwe futhi ilahlwe ngumtholampilo. Lokhu kuvame ukuqhutshwa emtholampilo we-embryo womtholampilo wokuzala noma kwi-cryobank lapho kugcinwa khona.
Umtholampilo ungakwazi ukukunikeza ama-embryos ashubile kuwe ukuze ungcwatshwe, nakuba imithetho yezomthetho ngokuphathelene nokulahlwa kwezicubu eziphilayo ingaba nzima.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imibungu engasetshenzisiwe ilahlwa emtholampilo noma inikezwe kuwe ukuba ingcwatshwe, ungase ubambe umkhosi noma umkhuba owenziwe ngokwakho ukuphawula ukudluliswa kwemibungu.
Enye indlela ehlinzekwa eminye imitholampilo ihilela ukudlulisa amabele embelethweni yakho ngesikhathi sokujikeleza kwakho lapho ukukhulelwa kungenakwenzeka. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukudluliselwa komusa."
Gcina imibungu yama-Leftover egcwele
Ungagcina futhi imibungu yakho eyengeziwe phezu kweqhwa, kuze kube yilapho unquma ukuthi kufanele ukwenze noma ungapheli.
Lokhu akuyona mahhala, kunjalo. Imitholampilo yokuzala inkokhelo yokukhokhisa imali yokugcinwa, engakwazi ukuhamba noma yikuphi kusuka kuma-dollar angamakhulu ngonyaka ngonyaka wezinkulungwane ezimbalwa zamaRandi.
Ezinye imitholampilo zikhawulela ukuthi imibungu ingaba isikhathi esingakanani ekugcineni indawo yazo futhi ingadinga ukuthi imibungu yakho idluliselwe ku-cryobank. Lokhu kuzofika ngemali eyengeziwe.
Uma umtholampilo wakho udinga ukudluliselwa ku-cryobank, qiniseka ukuthi ucwaninga okukhethwa kukho. Isibonelo, buza ukuthi i-cryobank ingavumela yini umnikelo wemibungu kwenye umbhangqwana, noma isayensi? Buza ukuthi bangayisingatha kanjani ukulahlwa kwemibungu uma ukhetha lokho kukhetho esikhathini esizayo? Futhi yini eyohileleka ukuba uyithumele emtholampilo ukuze isetshenziselwe ukwakha umndeni wakho?
Khumbula ukuthi ukulibazisa isinqumo ngalokho okufanele ukwenze ngemibungu yakho efriziwe kungaholela ezinkingeni kamuva.
Isibonelo, uma ulinde isikhathi eside kakhulu, ukuba nomunye ingane enemibungu kungase kungabi usizo noma kunconywa ngemithi. (Njengoba sisazi, imibungu eqhwayo ayinayo umkhawulo wokuphila, ngakho-ke umnikelo kunomunye umbhangqwana usengenzeka.)
Izinkinga zomthetho nazo zingavela uma ubambezela ukukhetha ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze.
Isibonelo, uma isahlukaniso, ubani ozokhuluma ukuthi imibungu isetshenziswa kanjani? Lapho ushona, ngubani ozozuza iimbungu? Futhi labo abazuzwayo kufanele babhekane kanjani nokulahlwa kwemibungu noma ukuqhubeka kwezindleko ze-cryopreservation?
Uma kwenzeka ukufa, intando yakho kufanele icacise ukuthi kufanele kwenzekani emibungu. Uma kungekho myalelo eshiywe, futhi umtholampilo awukwazi ukufinyelela kumuntu ngokuphathelene nemibungu yakho, emva kwesikhathi esithile cishe bayothathwa futhi balahlwe.
Qaphela ukuthi akuwona wonke umtholampilo wokuzala onika zonke izinketho. Okungcono, uzofuna ukuxoxa ngezinketho zakho ze-embryo zesikhathi esizayo nomtholampilo wokuzala ngaphambi kokuqala ukwelashwa. Uma ungakwenzi lokhu, kanti umtholampilo wakho awukunikezi izinketho ozifunayo, ungase ukwazi ukuba nemibungu idluliselwe kwenye emtholampilo. Lokhu kungabiza.
Imithombo:
Ukuhlukaniswa kwemibungu eshiyiwe: umbono wekomiti. I-American Society of Medicine Yokuzala. http://www.asrm.org/uploadedFiles/ASRM_Content/News_and_Publications/Ethics_Committee_Reports_and_Statements/abandonedembryos.pdf
Ngemuva kwe-IVF: Isinqumo se-Embryo. Sula. http://www.resolve.org/family-building-options/donor-options/after-ivf-the-embryo-decision.html
Imibuzo Yokubuza Uma Ucabanga Ukunikela Amabungu Akho KuCwaningo. Imibuzo Yokubuza Uchungechunge. Sula. http://familybuilding.resolve.org/site/DocServer/If_You_Are_Considering_Donating_Your_Embryos_To_Research.pdf?docID=451&JServSessionIda004=zo01uokmg1.app229d
Imvume eyaziwa kanye nokusetshenziswa kwamagetet nemibungu yokucwaninga: umbono wekomiti. UmNyango we-American for Medicine Reproductive. http://www.asrm.org/uploadedFiles/ASRM_Content/News_and_Publications/Ethics_Committee_Reports_and_Statements/informedconsent.pdf