Ingabe Kufanele Ukhathazeke?
Ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi sokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba okusheshayo, lapho umzimba wakho wengane okwazi ukuzala khona. Kubo bobabili abafana namantombazane, kunamaphethini athile okuthuthukiswa. Kodwa kokubili isikhathi nokubonakala kwangaphandle kokukhulelwa kungashintsha amantombazane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abazali namantombazane bangase bazizwe bedidekile ngezinye zezinkinga ezivamile.
Nanka eminye yemibuzo evame ukubuzwa mayelana nokukhulelwa kwamantombazane.
Imibuzo Ngokuphathelene Nokukhulelwa Nezinwele Zomzimba
Indodakazi yami eneminyaka engu-7 inezinwele zomlenze omnyama nezinwele ezingaphansi kwezinwele. Ingabe ukushaya kwentsha kusenesikhathi?
Mhlawumbe, mhlawumbe hhayi. Uma ingane yakho inenwele emnyama, kungenzeka ukuthi izinwele ziqala ngisho nokunyamala. Amantombazane ase-Afrika-American, amaSpanishi, namaNdiya, kanye namantombazane asezindaweni ezithile zaseYurophu, ngezinye izikhathi angaba ne-underarm noma izinwele ezingenalutho ngaphandle kokuphuma ebusheni.
Uma ingane yakho inomlenze omnyama futhi ingaphansi kwezinwele nezinwele ze-pubic noma ukuthuthukiswa kwebele, noma kunjalo, lokho kungaba indaba ehlukile. Noma yiliphi insikazi enezinwele zokushicilela noma ukuthuthukiswa kwebele ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-8 ingaba nobushakama obunempilo noma ukukhulelwa okwenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu. Uma wesaba ukuthi intombazane yakho iyaphumelela eminyakeni eyishumi nambili, xhumana nodokotela wezingane noma umhlinzeki womnakekeli womndeni ukuze ube yisikhathi sokuxoxa ngokukhathazeka kwakho.
Intombazane yami yentombazane ithola izinwele zomzimba, ngisho nezinwele zokushicilela, kodwa akukho ukuthuthukiswa kwesifuba okwamanje. Ingabe lokhu kuvamile?
Kungaba. Amaphesenti ayishumi nambili amantombazane ahlakulela izinwele zomphakathi ngaphambi kokuthuthukiswa kwebele. Lokhu kungenzeka okujwayelekile futhi akuyona imbangela yokukhathazeka. Uma amabele aqala ukuthuthukisa ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ezizayo ngonyaka, thintana nodokotela wezingane zakho.
Imibuzo Ngokuphathelene Nezibelethweni Nezikhathi Zokuya esikhathini
Indodakazi yami eneminyaka engu-8 inezinto ezibukeka njengezifuba. Akusikho lokhu kusenesikhathi?
Uma ingane yakho ikhuluphele, ingase ibonakale sengathi iyakhula amabele. Amabele akhe angeke akhiwe ngezicubu zangempela zesifuba kodwa, kodwa ngamafutha adipose. Noma kunjalo, uma okubukeka sengathi amabele aqala ukuthuthukisa noma kunini kusukela ekuzalweni kuya eminyakeni engu-7 noma engu-8, xhumana nodokotela wezingane. Lokhu ngezinye izikhathi kungaba isimo esibucayi, kodwa amabele okuqala angabonisa inkinga. Umhlinzeki wezempilo kuphela ongakutshela ngokuqinisekile.
Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kwentombazane kuhlobene kanjani nesikhathi sakhe?
Uma intombazane iqala ukuthuthukisa i-"buds" yesifuba (isifuba sebele sasesekuqaleni esitholakala ngaphansi kwengono), ungaqala ukulindela isikhathi sezintombazane ukuba siqale. Ukuya esikhathini kuvame ukuqala eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemibili nengxenye emva kokuvela kwamabele.
Bonke abangane bami abasha baye bathola isikhathi sabo kodwa yena. Ingabe kukhona okungahambi kahle?
Uma ingane yakho ineminyaka engu-15 noma encane futhi inezinye izimpawu zokukhulelwa (njengokuthuthukiswa kwebele kanye nezinwele zokushicilela), khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi "i-bloom ephuzile." Uma engenazo izimpawu zangaphandle zokukhulelwa , futhi usekhulile ngaphezu kuka-15, kubalulekile ukucela usizo lwezingane zakho.
Ingane yakho izodinga umsebenzi wegazi kanye nezinye izivivinyo zamalebhu ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ithuthuka ngesimiso.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Ukukhulelwa kuyisikhathi esithakazelisayo nesesabisayo sabafana kanye nabazali ngokufanayo. Izinto eziningi zishintsha kangaka masinyane futhi zingadideka. Kwabaningi amantombazane asebasha, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngokufanayo njengoba kufanele kwenzeke. Buza umhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa kwempilo yomndeni uma kukhona okubonakala kungakalungi.
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> Kliegman, RM. et. al. UNelson Bookbook of Pediatrics . Elsevier; 2016.
> Neinstein LS, Katzman DK. I-Neinsteins Yokunakekelwa Kwezempilo Kwezingane Ezincane Nezingane Ezincane: Umhlahlandlela Owusizo . I-Philadelphia: I-Wolters Kluwer; 2016.