Njengoba unyaka wesikole udonsela ekupheleni, izingane emhlabeni wonke ziyajabula. Nokho, abazali abaningi abajabuli kangako ngezinsuku ezinde zasehlobo. Emindenini eminingi, iholidi lasehlobo libhekisela ekuncintiswaneni kakhudlwana, ukwesaba okukhulu, nezinkinga ezinkulu zokuqondisa.
Uma ungaphansi kokuzijabulisa ngamaholidi ehlobo ehlobo, nansi amasu ayisihlanu okuyala ukuvikela nokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha:
1. Ukusungula Imithetho Yomndeni
Ungavumeli iholidi ehlobo liholele ekumeni. Yakha imithetho yasekhaya ngokuqondile ngamaholidi ehlobo.
Ihlobo libuye libe yisikhathi esihle sokubuyekeza imithetho yakho ekhona ngokusekelwe ezidingo zomntwana nokuziphatha kwakho. Mhlawumbe ungavumela isikhathi sokulala esincane kamuva bese ukhululekile kakhulu uma izingane zakho zenza imisebenzi yazo.
Thola ukuthi yiziphi izici ozifunayo ngokuqondile. Bhala phansi imithetho yakho bese uthumela uhlu endaweni ebonakalayo kakhulu.
Ungalokothi ubeke uhlu lude kakhulu-ngokuqinisekile uzongena kakhulu izingane zakho nohlu oluyinkimbinkimbi luyoba nzima kakhulu ukuliphoqelela. Imithetho yakho yasendlini kufanele ibe uhlu olulula, kunokuba kube nenqubomgomo ephelele nenqubo yenqubo.
2. Yakha Ukwakhiwa Usuku Lwabantwana Bakho
Ukushintshanisa isimiso esihleliwe sosuku lwesikole seholide eliphumuzayo kungaba yingozi kwezinye izingane. Ngaphandle kokutshelwa ukuthi benzeni noma kanjani ukusebenzisa isikhathi sabo, izingane eziningi zisebenzisa ukuziphatha okubi.
Ngenkathi ezinye izinkinga zokuziphatha zenzelwe ukuheha abanye, abanye bavele nje besuka emathunjini.
Dala isakhiwo ngokusungula isimiso esilula kumntanakho, kungaba usuku lonke noma emva kokunakekelwa kwansuku zonke.
Yenza umyalo wokuthi imisebenzi yodinga ukuphothulwa ekuseni. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ingasebenzisa i-electronics noma idlale ngaphandle uma umsebenzi wakhe usuqedile.
Noma, tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ukusa ekuseni kuwukufunda, ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, nokuqedela amaphrojekthi wezobuciko ngenkathi izintshonalanga zidlala ngaphandle.
Izingane ezincane zidinga imisebenzi ehlelekile ukuze bahlukanise isikhathi sabo. Isikhathi sokugcina isikhathi, isikhathi sangaphandle, isikhathi sokudla, kanye nezikhathi zokudla njengezingaguquguquki ngangokunokwenzeka.
3. Gxila ekunakekeleni okuhle
Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo nokuphazamisayo kuvame ukuvela esifisweni sezingane sokuthola ukunakwa. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uhlambalaza, uxwayisa, noma ulalele ingane yakho, uyamnaka. Futhi ezinganeni eziningi, ukunakwa okungalungile kungcono kunokungaboni lutho.
Nika ingane yakho inqwaba yokunakwa yodwa . Sebenzisa isikhathi nengane yakho ikhuluma, ifunda, futhi yenza imisebenzi ejabulisayo.
Ukulinganisa okuvamile-ngisho nemaminithi angu-10 ngosuku-kungahamba indlela ende yokunciphisa ukuziphatha okubi.
Dumisani ukuziphatha okuhle kaningi. Bonisa ukwazisa lapho ingane yakho idlala ngokuthula, yabelane nomfowabo, noma ilandela izinkomba zakho. Ukudumisa kuyindlela elula yokuqinisa ukuziphatha okuhle nokuvimbela ukuziphatha okufunayo.
4. Yakha uhlelo lomvuzo
Izinhlelo zokuvuza zingenye yezindlela ezisheshayo zokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha. Thola ukuziphatha okuhle ofuna ukukubona kaningi.
Bese usebenzisa izikhuthazo ukusiza ingane yakho ihlangabezane nemigomo yakhe.
Ngakho-ke ngenkathi isenkulisa singaphendula kahle eshadini lesitika elimkhumbuza ukuthi lizothatha amathoyizi akhe, umntwana osekhulile angase ashukunyiswe uhlelo lwezomnotho olusisiza ukuthi alusebenzise ulimi oluhloniphayo.
Khumbula ukuthi imivuzo akudingeki ihlanganise izinto ezibiza noma imisebenzi emikhulu. Kunezinzuzo eziningi zamahhala nezindleko ezincane ezingashukumisa izingane ukulandela imithetho.
5. Landela Ngeziphumo
Uma ingane yakho iphula imithetho, landela ngemiphumela enengqondo . Imiphumela kufanele igxile ekufundiseni-kunokuba ijezise-ingane yakho ngokuziphatha okungalungile.
Imiphumela ephumelelayo iyosiza ingane yakho ukuqaphele ezinye izindlela zokuziphatha okubi esikhathini esizayo.
Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ingasishiyi ibhayisikili yakhe, thatha ilungelo lakhe lokuyigibela amahora angu-24. Uma enqaba ukuhlanza igumbi lakhe, ungamvumeli ukuba asebenzise i-electronics kuze kube yilapho igumbi lakhe lihlanzekile. Siza ingane yakho ukuba ithathe umthwalo wokuziphatha kwayo okungalungile.
Tshela izingane zakho imiphumela ngaphambi kwesikhathi uma kunokwenzeka. Yithi, "Uma ungahlanzi igumbi lakho ngaphambi kokudla ukudla ngeke ukwazi ukuya epaki namhlanje." Bese ushiye ingane yakho ukuba ikhethe okuhle.
Ungenzi izinsongo ezingenalutho. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi usho ukuthi uthini futhi usho ukuthi uthini. Ukubambisana kuyisihluthulelo sokuthola ingane yakho ilalele okokuqala lapho ukhuluma.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Zonke izingane kufanele zivivinye imithetho futhi zifinyelele kanzima ngesikhathi seholide ehlobo. Sekuyisikhathi sokuba bahlole imingcele yabo.
Zama ukubheka ukuphulwa komthetho njengoba imizamo yengane yakho yokumnika ukuzimela. Noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka ayenakho ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe ubufakazi udinga ukwesekwa okunye nokuqondiswa okuvela kuwe.
Okubaluleke nakakhulu, zama ukujabulela amaholide ehlobo kuze kube yilapho egcwele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumzali osebenzayo noma uzoba ekhaya nezingane zakho, thatha umoya ojulile futhi ubheke injabulo ezinjabulweni ezilula nezingane zakho ngesikhathi seholide ehlobo.
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