Iningi labababa ngabantu abakhethekile abonisa uthando olungenamthetho, banikele ukusekela, banikele ihlombe ukukhala lapho izinto ziba nzima, zifundise izingane zabo, futhi zize uma udinga. Bafanelwe ukunakwa okuncane ngosuku lwabo olukhethekile.
Akubona bonke obaba abalindele izipho nanoma yini enye okufanele usebenzise imali. Ngisho noma ukhetha ukuthenga isipho nesipho ukuyihlolisa ubaba wakho, thola ukudala futhi udale izinkumbulo ezizohlala isikhathi eside kunomugqa we- "# 1 ubaba", ugqoke, noma ithotela legalufu lomuntu siqu.
Kunezindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukene zokugubha usuku lukaBaba. Isibonelo, umdwebo wengane encane yomndeni ungathinta inhliziyo kababa njengalokhu ikhadi lesipho kusuka endodaneni noma indodakazi endala. Ubaba omusha uzobonga ukuvuma okukhethekile kumama wengane.
Obaba nabama-Father-In In Fathers
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi inzalamizi empilweni yakho ngubaba wakho ophilayo, isithandwa sakho sokuqala, noma umuntu wesilisa oye wakuqondisa phambili nakubantu abadala, uzofuna ukumhlonipha ngalolu suku olukhethekile. Uyakwazisa ukuvuma, nakuba kungesiyo isizathu esithathile kulolu daba lobuholi. Akukho okulingana nosayizi owodwa-konke osukwini lukaBaba, ngakho faka ucabange ngaphezulu kulokho ocabanga ukuthi angathanda.
Imikhosi Yosuku Lwabazali Bomndeni Ohlanganisiwe
Uma uyingxenye yomndeni ohlanganisiwe, usengakhumbula bonke abathintekayo. Kubalulekile ukudweba okungenani amaminithi ambalwa ukukhombisa ukwazisa kwakho ngomuntu ngamunye oyise ekuphileni kwakho.
Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokuzigcina zingokoqobo kepha ungazivumeli zibe nzima:
- Gwema ukuletha noma yimiphi imizwa enzima owaye nayo esikhathini esidlule. Uma ubhala umlayezo kubaba wakho noma ubaba wakho, memezela kuphela imicabango emihle. Phela, lokhu kungumkhosi wokugubha, hhayi ukuphuma.
- Uma ungumama wezingane ezinomzali obaba nobaba ophilayo, beka eceleni imizwelo emibi nemicabango futhi ukhuthaze ukuba babonise uthando lwabo kubo bobabili amadoda. Izingane zakho zingase zifune ukuchitha usuku lonke noyise wabo ophilayo, ngakho-ke zibeke eceleni olunye usuku noma isikhathi sokuba zigubhe nezingane zabo zokuqala uma zihileleke ngokuzikhandla ekuphileni kwazo.
- Izingane ezinomzali ophilayo nabazali abathandekayo akufanele neze bazizwe benecala ngokuchitha isikhathi bobabili, ngakho-ke ukuvumela ubudlelwane ngamunye bube yedwa ngaphandle kwemithwalo yokuhlukana kwabazali.
- Ungalokothi uzizwe ukuthi izipho zamadoda omabili kufanele alingane. Uma nje becatshangelwa kahle, abababa kufanele bajabule ngokucabangela.
Isikhathi nemali
Iningi labababa bayakwazisa isikhathi nokucabangela ngaphezu kwesipho esivelele. Uma unemali eningi futhi ufuna ukuthenga isipho esihle, qhubeka futhi uthenge lokho ongakukhokhela. Kodwa musa nje ukuwuphonsa kuye futhi uqhubeke ngendlela yakho ejabulisayo. Hlela okuthile okhethekile futhi wenze isipho sibe yingxenye yomkhosi hhayi into kuphela oyenzayo.
Indlela ende
Uma ufana nabantu abaningi, awuhlali edolobheni elifanayo njengobaba wakho. Uma ungeke ube khona endaweni efanayo, mbize futhi umtshele indlela akusho ngayo. Gcina ucingo oluhle futhi lukhuphula ngokumbonga ngokuqondene nokunye okucacile.
Nazi ezinye izinto ongazisho:
- Uhlala esebenza (noma esebenza) kanzima ukugcina uphahla phezu kwekhanda lakho, izingubo ngemuva kwakho, nokudla etafuleni.
- Uphatha umndeni ngenhlonipho.
- Wayehlala ekhona kuwe uma udinga othile ozolalela.
- Waya kakhulu emidlalweni yakho noma ekukhulumeni kwakho.
- Ukuvumela ukuthi ubheke amathoni e-TV, ngisho nalapho iqembu lakhe lezemidlalo eliyintandokazi lidlala.
- Uhlale ethola izindlela zokuchitha isikhathi nawe .
- Wenza isiqiniseko sokuthi yonke imizuzu esetshenziswe nawe yayikhethekile.
Kuhle futhi ukuthumela ikhadi kusengaphambili. Bala isikhathi esithathayo ukuze ufike lapho bese uyidonsa ngolunye usuku noma amabili ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyitholile ngaphambi kokushaya ucingo lwakho. Uma unesimo sezimali, kuhle ukufaka isipho noma ikhadi lesipho ngento engamthakazelisa.
Amathiphu nemibono yoSuku lukaBaba olukhethekile
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugubha uSuku lukaBaba njengomuntu omdala noma ufuna ukukhombisa umyeni wakho uthando oluthe xaxa phakathi nonyaka wokuqala wokuphila komntanakho, uzofuna ukwenza usuku angabukeka ngalo ngokuthanda.
Nanka eminye imibono yokubonisa indoda ehola phambili uthando oluthile:
- Masilale, futhi lapho evuka, umlethe ukudla kwasekuseni ngesitimela esihle.
- Mpheke nazo zonke izitsha zakhe ezizithandayo, futhi ungakhohlwa i-dessert.
- Mthathe emcimbini owuthandayo, njengebhokisi le-ballgame noma ikhonsathi.
- Uma unesimo sezimali, mnike okuthile engakuzithengi yena. Lokhu kungaba idivayisi ye-elekthronikhi, i-drone, i-toy control yokudlala, noma yini enye oyibona ku-"Njengoba Kubonakala ku-TV" indawo yokugcina esitolo sakho sekhaya esikhulu.
- Mbhale indaba noma inkondlo etshela zonke izici zakhe ezinhle nezizathu azikhethele zona. Lokhu kungaba okujulile noma okuhle njengoba ufuna.
- Mthathe emotweni ngezindawo zokumangala. Lokhu kungaba yipikinikini epaki, ukuphumula kwezimpelasonto, ukuvakasha kwezokuvakasha zendawo, noma noma iyiphi indawo ocabanga ukuthi uzoyithanda.
- Mphathele ukudla esidlweni sakhe esithandayo.
- Yenza eminye yemisebenzi akwenzayo emndenini, njengokutshala utshani noma ukugeza imoto.
- Gcwalisa ibhasikidi ngokuphatha okuthandayo kanye nezinye izinto ezizomkhumbuza ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani. Ezinye izinto ongase uzifake ukuzenza zihlanganisa ama-coffees, amathikishi, amabhodlela ewayini, ikomishi elilodwa lomkhofi, omagazini, izincwadi , amathikithi emdlalweni noma i-movie, i-golf, i-tennis tennis, ibhuku lekhuphoni lokubhucisa, ukudla okuthandayo, nemisebenzi yendawo nxazonke zendlu.
- Mnike ukubhaliswa konyaka owodwa kwamakhukhi akhethandayo, ikhekhe noma i-pie njalo ngenyanga.
Ubaba omusha
Obaba bamazinyane amasha ngokuvamile bazinakwa ngoba ukugxila kumama izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye futhi manje isigqoko esincane esiyigugu senjabulo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani indima ayidlalayo ekuphileni komntwana.
Nazi ezinye imibono yesipho kubaba omusha:
- Ikomishi ngesithombe somntwana wakhe
- Isikhumba somuntu siqu noma isinqumo sekhompyutha yakhe, ifoni noma ithebhulethi
- Ukufanisa i-T-shirt ne-onese ngaye nomntwana
- Ibhokisi lamathuluzi agcwaliswe izinto kubababa abasha
- Isithombe esiqoshiwe somndeni noma ezandla zomntwana
Uma ubaba omusha encike ekusebenzeni okungcono, nansi eminye imibono:
- Ibhuku lokuzali
- Isikhwama somntwana esibhekene nomntwana noma isikhwama se-diaper
- Uhlu lwadlalwayo lwe-Lullaby kulabo abangenasici noma ebusuku
Ungakhohlwa umkhulu
Khumbula ukuthi omkhulu babengabababa kuqala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umkhulu wakho wayekhona yini lapho ekhulile noma ekuqothule kude, uzokwazisa uhlobo oluthile lokuvuma ngalolu suku olukhethekile. Kuleli phuzu empilweni yakhe, cishe akalindeli isipho esibonakalayo. Umlayezo womuntu siqu ekhadini, encwadini, noma esithombeni esakhiwe kuzokwenza lukhanyise usuku lwakhe.
Siyabonga ngokuba ngubaba wami
Enye yezinto obaba abaningi abazoyiqonda ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye oyenzayo yimbonga yokubonga nje ngokuba nguyihlo. Esikhathini sephepha lokuqala, jot phansi uhlu lwezimfanelo zikababa wakho bese ubafaka emlayezo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ukuthi uyamthanda kangakanani. Lokho kuyosho okungaphezu kobaba wakho kunanoma yini enye.