Funda ukuthi unganikeza ngempumelelo iziyalezo nemiyalo yezingane
Ezweni elihlabayo ledijithali, abazali abaningi banzima ukuthola izingane ukuba zilalele. Ukuheha ukunakekela ingane kungase kuzwe njengempi ekhuphuka, futhi akumangalisi ukuthi kungani. Unomncintiswano ngokumelene ne-TV, imidlalo yevidiyo, nezinye iziphazamiso eziningi ukuthatha ukunakwa kwengane yakho.
Yiqiniso, i-electronics akuyona nje isizathu sokuthi ingane yakho ikwazi ukukukhipha. Izingane nazo zivame ukuzwa ukukhetha.
Kodwa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi, izinguquko ezimbalwa ezilula endleleni enikeza ngayo izikhombisi kungaba yisihluthulelo sokuthola ingane yakho ilalele okokuqala lapho ukhuluma.
Khipha Iziphazamiso
Ukumemezela imiyalo evela endlini yonke ngenkathi ingane yakho idlala imidlalo yevidiyo noma ithumela imiyalezo engeke iphumelele. Lahla noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka ngaphambi kokuzama ukwenza isicelo noma ukunikeza izikhombisi-ndlela. Misa kancane ithelevishini, uphazamise umdlalo wevidiyo, noma cisha umculo ukuze uthole ukunakwa okugcwele kwengane yakho.
Uma kunokwenzeka, faka ukuxhumana kwamehlo nje ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unakekele ngokugcwele. Kwezinye izingane, ezifana nezingane ezine-ADHD , isandla ehlombe kungaba yindlela eyengeziwe yokuqinisekisa ukuthi unakekelwa ngokugcwele kwengane yakho.
Tshela, Ungabuzi
Enye yeziphambeko ezivame kakhulu abazali abazenzayo lapho bethola izikhombisi-ndlela , ukubuza, hhayi ukutshela. Uma ucela ingane yakho ukuba yenza okuthile, usho ukuthi unendlela yokuthi cha.
Uma ubuza, "Ungacela yini ukuthatha amathoyizi?" Ngisho noma ingane ephikisanayo iyothi "Cha!" Kunalokho, tshela, "Sicela uthathe amathoyizi manje."
Nika ingane yakho isixwayiso emizuzu emihlanu uma kunokwenzeka. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Hamba uhlanze ikamelo lakho njengamanje," uma ingane yakho iphakathi kokudlala, uthi, "Ngemizuzu emihlanu kuyoba isikhathi sokuyeka ukudlala nokuhlanza igumbi lakho."
Khona-ke, lapho leyo mizuzu emihlanu idlulile, uthi, "Isikhathi sokuyeka ukudlala nokuhlanza ikamelo lakho manje." Lena indlela enenhlonipho yokunikeza ingane yakho isikhathi sokulungiselela ukushintsha imisebenzi.
Nika Umyalo Omunye Ngesikhathi
Izingane ezincane, nezingane ezinezinkinga zokunakekelwa, aziphenduli kahle izinkomba eziningi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuthi, "Faka i-backpack yakho, uthathe amasokisi akho, ufake iJean yakho engcolile emshini wokugeza," kungabangela ingane yakho ukuba ilahlekelwe isinyathelo noma ezimbili endleleni.
Qala ngemfundo eyodwa ngesikhathi. Linda kuze ingane yakho iqede umsebenzi wokuqala ngaphambi kokunikeza imiyalo emisha.
Ezinye izingane ezindala nezintsha zingakwazi ukubhekana nezikhombisi-ndlela ezimbalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi kufanele zibe namandla okusebenza ngendlela yazo. Yisho izinto ezinjengalezi, "yisikhathi sokwenza uhlu lwakho lomsebenzi," futhi ingane yakho ingayamukela imithwalo yemfanelo yokuqeda umsebenzi ngamunye ohlwini.
Buza Ingane Yakho Ukuphinda Izikhombandlela Zakho Ku-Loud
Emva kokunikeza imfundo, cela umntwana wakho ukuthi abuyele lokho akuzwile. Lokhu kungaqinisekisa ukuthi uyaqonda okulindelekile futhi kukunika ithuba lokucacisa uma kukhona ukudideka.
Qinisekisa ukuziphatha okuhle
Lapho ingane yakho ilandela izinkombandlela zakho inikeza imiphumela emihle ukuze uqinise ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle. Dumisani ukulalela kwakhe ngokusho ngesikhatsi esithi, "Umsebenzi omkhulu ukuhlanza ikamelo lakho ngenkathi ngikucela ukuba uwenze."
Uma ingane yakho yenza umsebenzi omkhulu wokulalela, mnike umvuzo omangalisayo njalo kanyekanye ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Noma, sungula uhlelo lomvuzo oluhlelekile noma uhlelo lwezomnotho we-token ukuze lushukumise ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omuhle.
Nikeza Umphumela Omubi Wokungathobeli
Uma ingane yakho ingalandeli imiyalo yakho, nikeza eyodwa uma ... bese isixwayiso . Yithi, "Uma ungahlanzi igumbi lakho njengamanje, uzolahlekelwa yi-elekthronikhi ubusuku bonke."
Uma ingane yakho ingathobeli, landela ngokulandela imiphumela emibi . Thatha ilungelo, njengama-electronics, amahora angaba ngu-24.