Yenza umusa umkhuba endlini yakho.
Kulula ukubambelela ekufundiseni ingane yakho ukuthi ungayithola kanjani izinhlamvu zakhe nokuthi ungayinquma kanjani ukudla ngommese okhohlwa ukugxila ekufundiseni ingane yakho ukuba ibe nomusa. Futhi abanye abazali bakhathazeka ukufundisa umusa kungase kubangele ukuthi ingane ilahlekelwe yilokho emhlabeni wokuncintisana wanamuhla.
Kodwa ukufundisa ngomusa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ucwaningo uthi ukufundisa umusa kunethonya elihle emkhakheni wezemfundo, ezempilo kanye nemiphumela yomphakathi yabantwana.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane ezibandakanya izenzo zomusa ezingahleliwe zingase zamukeleke yiontanga. Izenzo zabo ezinhle zithuthukisa inhlalakahle yabo futhi zizisize ukuba zithuthukise imibono emihle yezwe labo. Uma umusa ufundiswa esikoleni, izingane zibonela ukuzethemba, isisusa esengeziwe sokufunda, ukuthuthuka kokubakhona, nokunciphisa ukuxhaphazwa nobudlova.
Kodwa, ucwaningo lubuye lubonise ukuthi izingane namuhla zithandwa kakhulu futhi zizwela kakhulu kunokuba ziningi eminyakeni eyishumi eyedlule. Ngakho ungalindeli ingane yakho ukuba ifunde umusa ngokubheka ontanga. Hlanganisa izenzo zomusa eziphuthumayo nengane yakho njengendlela yokulingisa indlela yokupha, ukuhawukela nokunikela.
Yiqiniso, izenzo zomusa wengane yakho zingeke zikwazi ukuba zonke 'okungahleliwe' ngoba cishe kuzodinga usizo oluthile oluvela kuwe. Kodwa, ukumfundisa ukwenza izinto ezinhle kwabanye abantu manje kungaba yisihluthulelo sokumsiza aqaphele amathuba okubonisa umusa kamuva ekuphileni.
Nikela Izinto Kubantu Abadinga
Kuhle ukuba izingane zihileleke ekufundiseni imali, kepha ngezinye izikhathi aziqondi ngokugcwele umqondo wokuthi ngubani okhulisa imali noma ukuthi imali isetshenziswa kanjani. Kungcono ukubenza bahlanganyele ngqo ekunikezeni izinto. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ongakhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba inikeze izinto kubantu abanesidingo:
- Tshala ingadi yemifino bese unikeza ingane yakho imisebenzi ejwayelekile, njengokunisela izitshalo, ukudonsa ukhula, nokuvuna imifino. Bese unikeza abanye imifino.
- Hlanganisa amathoyizi asetshenziswe kahle bese ubanikela entsandaneni, indawo yokukhosela engenamakhaya, noma indawo yokuhlala yodlame lwasekhaya. Xoxa nengane yakho mayelana nokuthi amathoyizi aya kuphi futhi ake amkhethe ukuthi yimaphi amathoyizi azimisele ukunikela ngawo.
- Siza ingane yakho ibone izingubo ezingayinikela kwezinye izingane. Mtshele ukuthi yiziphi izinto azifuna ukuzinikela.
- Yenza ukudla bese uyithumele kumakhelwane osekhulile, isihlobo noma umngane.
- Nikela amabhuku asetshenziswe kahle emtatsheni wezincwadi.
Bhala Ngiyabonga Amanothi
Ngiyabonga amanothi akudingeki abe yilokho okushiwo uphawu lwezingane amanothi ngemuva kokuvula izipho. Esikhundleni salokho, fundisa ingane yakho njalo abantu ongabonga.
Cabanga ngokubonga abantu abakhonza wena noma umphakathi wakho. Khombisa bonke abantu abasebenza ngemuva kwezigcawu ukwenza impilo ibe ngcono. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokubonga abantu:
- Siza ingane yakho ukubhala amanothi okubonga kubantu abakuzisayo. Angakwazi ukudweba izithombe zikaMgogo noma anikeze ikhadi elikhethekile kumhlinzeki wezinsuku, uthisha weSonto leSonto, noma umngane womndeni.
- Dala amanothi akhethekile kwabanye abantu abasiza umndeni wakho-njengomthumeli weposi, umuntu osika izinwele zezingane zakho, noma udokotela.
Yenza Okwenzela Umuntu
Nikeza izenzo zokusebenza kubantu abangadinga usizo. Uma wenza umkhuba ojwayelekile ukwenza kanjalo, ingane yakho izofunda ukuqaphela abantu abanesidingo namathuba lapho engena khona. Nazi ezinye zezindlela ongenza imisebenzi yabanye nomntanakho:
- Thola umakhelwane ongasebenzisa usizo ngezigceme. Njengomndeni, thola amaqabunga, usike utshani, noma ukhula ensimini.
- Nika njalo isikhathi sokusiza uMkhulu noGogo nxazonke endlini.
- Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba imangaze ingane yakini ngokwenza umsebenzi wakhe owodwa.
Ukunakekela Izilwane
Izingane zivame ukuthanda ukwenza izenzo zomusa ezibandakanya izilwane . Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ongazinakekela ngazo izilwane:
- Cela ukuzithandela endaweni yokuhlala yezilwane. Ezinye izindawo zokuhlala zingase zivumele izingane ukuba zisize ngemisebenzi elula, njengokushiya iminikelo noma ukulungisa ukudla izilwane.
- Ezinye izindawo zokuhlala zezilwane zivumela izingane ukuba zifunde izinja. Buza ngethuba lokuba ingane yakho ixoxe izindaba noma ufunde izincwadi ezilwaneni ezingase zizizwe zodwa endaweni yokukhosela.
- Ukuzithandela ukuhamba inja yomuntu noma ukunakekela isilwane umnikazi wakhe ozophuma edolobheni.
- Siza ingane yakho ikhethe ukwelashwa okhethekile kwesilwane sakho.
Yenza Isipho Somunye Umuntu
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi idale izipho ezincane angayinika abanye. Izipho zingaba ubuciko obulula abenzayo noma izithombe azidonsayo. Uma ethola imali , ungamkhuthaza ukuba asebenzise imali yakhe ukuze athenge izinto zakhe zobuciko. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ingane yakho ingenza izipho komunye umuntu:
- Nikeza ingane yakho ngempahla yobuciko ukuze akwazi ukudala izipho. Ikhadi elenziwe ngokuzenzela, i-bird feeder elula, noma imidwebo ingabonisa usuku lomuntu.
- Esikhundleni sokumkhuthaza ukuba abhale uhlu olude lokufisa amaholide, siza ingane yakho ukuba idale uhlu lwezenzo zomusa nezipho ezenziwe ngokwezifiso angazithola.
- Bhala phansi amagama abangane abaningana, amalungu omndeni, kanye nomakhelwane emasothini ephepha. Beka amaphepha embizeni. Kanye ngesonto, dweba igama bese usebenza nengane yakho ukuthola isipho ongayenza lowo muntu.
Nika Ukuncoma
Izenzo zokungahleliwe zomusa zingaba lula njengokusho okuthile okuhle kumuntu. Fundisa ingane yakho ukwenza umkhuba ukunikeza ukuncoma nokudumisa imizamo yabantu. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokuthola ingane yakho iqhaza ekunikeni ukuncoma:
- Beka umgomo ekuqaleni kosuku ukunikeza amagama anomusa kanye nokuncoma. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ithi, "Ngiyathanda amasinki akho," kwenye ingane ebaleni lokudlala, noma ithi, "Izinwele zakho zibukeka zihle namhlanje," kudadewabo, khuluma ngokunikeza ukuncoma kubantu.
- Hamba eduze amakhadi amanothi anemibala. Futhi ake ingane yakho ibhale izincomo ezincane kubo ukuze zihambe kwabanye abantu. Shiya enye etafuleni etafuleni ukuze uncoma isiphakeli sakho noma ushiye ikhadi lenkampani ozinakekela igceke lakho ukuze ubancoma emsebenzini abawenzayo.
Spread Some Cheer
Izenzo zokungahleliwe zomusa zingabandakanya noma yisiphi isenzo esilula esikhanyisa usuku lomunye umuntu. Uma ngokusuka enhliziyweni usakaze injabulo, umusa uzoba njengomvelo wesibili kumntanakho. Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa ezilula zokwenza ingane yakho iqhaza ekuboniseni umusa kwabanye:
- Sika ezinye izimbali kusuka engadini yakho (noma uthenge izimbali esitolo) bese unika omunye umuntu.
- Vakashela umuntu ongasebenzisa inkampani ethile, njengomakhelwane osekhulile noma umuntu ongase angaphumi endlini.
- Ukuzithandela ekhaya lasebekhulile. Amanye amakhaya asebekhulile angayamukela izingane ezivakashela izakhamuzi. Noma ungakwazi ukuletha izinto ezizenzela izakhamuzi, njengezithombe ingane yakho enemibala.
- Phakamisa iziphuzo ezingaphezulu kanye nokudla okulula uma uya endaweni yokudlala bese unikeza ukwabelana nezinye izingane.
- Khetha umuntu ohlukile ukunikeza izinkumanga ezikhethekile ngenyanga ngayinye. Bese, sebenza nomntanakho ukukhomba izenzo zomusa ongayenza kulowo muntu. Bona ukuthi ungayigcina isikhathi esingakanani imfihlo.
- Qala ukuma kwe-lemonade bese unikeza i-lemonade mahhala.
- Yithi, "Ake sibone ukuthi singabona yini abanye abantu ukuthi basize namhlanje." Khona-ke hamba ngosuku lwakho ufune amathuba okubamba umuntu ngomnyango noma ukuvumela othile ukuba ahambe phambi kwakho emgqeni esitolo.
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