Uma usanda kushada, kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange ucabangele izinhlobo ezahlukene zesitokisi kuze kube manje. Kodwa uma uhlela isehlukaniso noma ubeka izingcezu ndawonye emva kokuhlukana, izinketho ezitholakalayo kuwe zibaluleke kakhulu. Kuzama ukuyogcina kuphela ukugcinwa ngokomzimba ngenxa yokuthi uyifanele noma, ukubeka ngokucacile ngoba awufanelanga noma yini oyenzile emndenini wakho.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba uhlola izinhlobo zesitokisi nokuvakashelwa okukhona kuwe, khumbula ukuthi ukucabangela okubaluleke kakhulu yiyona engcono kakhulu kubantwana bakho.
Qonda izinhlobo ezahlukene zoMuntu
Ukuze uqonde ngokugcwele izinhlobo zokugcina izingane nokuvakashelwa okukhona kuwe, kuzodingeka wazi kahle igama elisetshenziswe ochwepheshe bezomthetho. Ngokuyinhloko, udinga ukuqonda umehluko phakathi kokugcinwa komthetho nokugcinwa ngokomzimba .
I-Custody Legal
Ukugcinwa kwezomthetho kubhekisela egunyeni lomthetho ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu egameni lomntanakho. Izibonelo zezinqumo ezinkulu zibandakanya ukuthi ingane yakho izoya esikoleni, yikuphi ukukhulelwa okungokwenkolo oyoba nayo (uma ikhona), nezinqumo zezokwelapha ezingekho eziphuthumayo. Izinketho zokugcinwa kwezomthetho zihlanganisa:
- I-Customs Legal Custody : Umzali onesibopho somthetho kuphela umuntu onamandla okusemthethweni ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu egameni lomntwana. Lokhu kufaka phakathi izinqumo mayelana nemfundo, inkolo, kanye nokunakekelwa kwezempilo.
- I-Customs Legal Custody : Ukugcinwa komthetho okuhlangene kusho ukuthi bobabili abazali banegunya lomthetho lokwenza izinqumo ezinkulu ezinganeni. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi abazali bangakwazi ukwabelana ngokuthi "ukugcinwa kwezomthetho okuhlangene" ngaphandle kokuba "nokugcinwa ngokomzimba."
Isifiso Sokwenyama
Ukugcinwa ngokomzimba kubhekisela lapho izingane zihlala khona isikhathi esiningi.
Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukugcinwa kokuhlala." Izinhlobo zokugcina ngokomzimba zihlanganisa:
- Ukuziphatha Okuyisimiso Esincane : Ngalolu hlobo lokugcinwa kwengane, ingane ihlala endaweni eyodwa. Ezimweni eziningi, umzali ongabambeleli unikezwa amalungelo okuvakasha ovulekile, kufaka phakathi ukukhishwa kwe-sleepovers.
- I-Customs Physical Custody : Leli fomu lokugcinwa kwengane libizwa nangokuthi "ukugcinwa kwesabelo," "ukubeletha okwabiwe," noma "ukuhlala okubili." Kulesi simo, izingane zihlala nomzali oyedwa ngesonto (noma ingxenye yonyaka) futhi zihlala nomunye umzali ngesikhathi esisele. Ukuhlukaniswa kwesikhathi esichitha endaweni ngayinye cishe kufana.
- I-Nest Custody Custody : Yilapho izingane zihlala endaweni eyodwa, futhi abazali bajikeleza futhi baphume endlini yezingane ngezikhathi ezivamile. Isibonelo, umama angase ahlale emzini wezingane ngoMsombuluko kusihlwa kuze kube ngoLwesine, futhi ubaba angahlala khona kusukela ngoLwesine kusihlwa kuze kube ngoMsombuluko ekuseni. Nakuba le ndlela yokugxilisa ingane inganciphisa ukuguqulwa kwezingane, kungabiza ukugcina izindawo ezintathu zokuhlala ezihlukene.
Ukuvakashelwa
Ukuvakashelwa kwababelethi nabantwana kuvumela abazali abangenalo imvume yokubona abantwana babo njalo.
Izinhlobo zokuvakasha zifaka:
- Ukuvakasha okungahleliwe : Lolu hlobo oluvame kakhulu lokuvakashelwa. Abazali abanokuvakashelwa okungavunyelwe ngokuvamile bavunyelwe ukuthatha izingane zabo emakhaya abo noma bajabulele ingane yokuphuma lapho bevakashelwa khona. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukulinganiselwa kuchazwe kusengaphambili. Isibonelo, uma umama ekhetha ukuncelisa ingane, umzali ongabheki angacela ukuthi avakashele ingane kumama kamama kuze kube yilapho umntwana ekwazi ukuthatha ibhodlela.
- Ukuvakashelwa okuqondisiwe : Kwezinye izimo, izinkantolo zizokwenza ukuvakashelwa okuhambile, okusho ukuthi omunye umuntu omdala onomthwalo wemfanelo kufanele abe khona isikhathi sokuvakashelwa. Kuye ngezimo, izinkantolo zingavumela umzali ongabambeleli ukuba akhethe umuntu ozosebenza njengomphathi. Isibonelo, angase akhethe umkhulu noma umngane womndeni. Kwamanye amacala, umzali nengane kufanele bahlangane endaweni ecacisiwe ukuze isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle esimisiwe noma i-oda elihlelwe yinkantolo lingabheka ukuxhumana.
- Ukuvakashelwa okungokoqobo : Ukuvakashelwa okungokoqobo kwenzeka ngokusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe be-video-conferencing. Ngenkathi kungalungile njengendlela yokuvakasha kuphela, ukuvakashelwa okujwayelekile kunganikeza umqondo wokuqhubeka lapho abazali nezingane behlala kude noma ekuvakashelweni komuntu kungavamile.