Ukuqonda Lesi Sigaba se-Identity Formation
Ingane yakho ekhulayo iveza ukuthi ungubani, futhi lokho kuyisigaba esithakazelisayo sokuthuthukiswa. Ukusabalalisa i-Identity ingxenye ebalulekile yalokhu kuthuthukiswa.
Ukusabalalisa i-Identity isinyathelo esisodwa ekutholeni umuzwa wokuzizwa . Libhekisela esikhathini lapho umuntu engenawo ubunikazi obucacile noma afuna ngentshisekelo eyodwa.
Ngamanye amazwi, yisikhathi lapho ubunikazi bomuntu buhlala khona lungaphendululwa, nokho akukho inkinga yokungena (inqubo ebizwa ngokuthi i- identity moratorium ).
Imvelaphi yokuhlukaniswa kwegama lesikhathi
Ukusabalaliswa kwezimpawu kungenye yezimiso ezine zobungcweti ezibonwe ngumqondo wezokwelapha waseCanada uJames Marcia. Wathuthukisa imibono yakhe ngokuthi ungubani ngokubonisana nomsebenzi we-theorist u-Erik Erikson, owabhala kabanzi ngezinkinga zobunikazi. UMarcia washicilela umsebenzi wakhe ngezimo zobunikazi ema-1960s, kodwa kusukela ngaleso sikhathi izazi ze-psychologists ziye zaqhubeka nokucubungula imibono yakhe.
Ukuhlukaniswa Kwamazisi Kuphi Umlando?
Izingane kanye neshumi nambili ezincane zivame ukuhlukaniswa kohlobo lwamazisi ngezinhlobo eziningi zobunikazi, njengezenkolo, umsebenzi, noma amasiko. Isibonelo, uma ucela intombazane encane ukuthi ngabe unguRepublican, Democrat, noma Independent, cishe uzosho ukuthi akakwazi futhi akakaze acabange ngakho.
Lena yimpendulo ye-classic evela kumuntu ohlukaniswa nobunikazi: Akukho ukuzibophezela endleleni yokucabanga futhi akukho ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuntuleka kokuzibophezela. Ukusabalalisa ulwazi kuyisigaba evamile ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu kubantwana abakhulayo.
Uma ukhathazekile ukuthi phakathi kwakho akubonakali ukuthi unomqondo oqinile wokuzimela, qiniseka ukuthi njengoba iminyaka eyishumi neminyaka isondela, ingane yakho izoqala ukudweba i-niche yakhe emhlabeni, ihlole izithakazelo zakhe emculweni, emfashini, izincwadi, ezombusazwe, inkolo nokuningi.
Olunye Ukwaziswa Kwemininingwane Yentsha
Enye intsha ingase iphinde ibone ukuchithwa kwesazisi, inqubo lapho bacabanga khona ukuthi bangubani. Bangase bathi bangumdemokhrasi noma umKatolika, ngoba nje abazali babo, noma ngoba umngane omuhle noma uthisha oyintandokazi. Njengoba bezi ngokwabo kangcono ngokushiya ekhaya, ukuya ekolishi noma ngokuhlangana nabantu abasha, bangase banqume ukuthi bangabaseRiphabliki, futhi, futhi bazibheka njengomKristu wevangeli esikhundleni seKatolika.
Ngemuva kokubona ukuhlukaniswa kobunikazi, ukubhula kobunikazi, nokuhlonza ukwazisa, intsha ivame ukufinyeleleka ekufinyeleleni kwe-identity, ukugcwaliseka kokuzikhethela kwabo okuhlukile nokuziqhenya kweqiniso. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi izingane nezingane ezincane azibona lezi zimiso zomthetho ngendlela ethile.
Ngemuva kokuba sebebone lezi zinyathelo ezintathu ezibalulwe ngenhla, abantu abaningi bavela ngeqoqo lezinkolelo nezinkolelo, umsebenzi oqeqeshiwe, kanye nezinye izimpawu zobunikazi obuzibonakalisa kahle. Lokhu kutholakala kobunikazi kwenzeka ngokujwayelekile.
Ukusabalalisa Ubunikazi Ngaphandle Kwengane
Ngezinye izikhathi abantu ababhekene ne-borderline personality disorder kuthiwa banokuhlukaniswa.
Laba bantu bavame ukuzizwa sengathi abanalo iqiniso loqobo. Ubunikazi babo buyashintsha ngokuya kubantu abahlala kuzo kanye nezimo abazitholela zona. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukubika ukuthi banenkinga yokukwazi ukuthi baqala kuphi kanti abanye baphela.
Umthombo:
Santrock, John, PhD. Izingane, i-Eleventh Edition. 2010. New York: McGraw-Hill.