Umbuzo: " Ingane yami eneminyaka eyisithupha isiqale ukuphuma esibhedlela ebusuku. Ngimgcine kanjani iphephile? "
Impendulo:
Qala ngokucabanga ngendawo yakhe emibuthanweni emikhulu nangaphezulu, kusukela esibuyeni kuya emnyango. Okokuqala, isikhalazo. Kulahlekelwa bonke labo bumpers (lezo zingu-oh-cute-cute pads ezivame ukuvikela ingane yakho ukuba ingabheki ikhanda layo ngokumelene ngaphakathi kwesikhala).
Ama-bumpers enza amatshe amakhulu okunyuka kwabagibeli. Futhi, thatha zonke lezo zilwane ezinkulu ezigxiliwe, imithwalo, kanye neziduduzi ezinzima eziphuma esikhwameni. Lezi zinto zaziyingozi njengengozi yokuphefumula lapho umntwana wakho encane. Njengoba manje sikhulu, amathikithi enkululeko.
Qala ngokuchazela ingane yakho ukuthi lokhu kuyimbhede yakhe siqu, ephephile, ekhethekile futhi ukuthi angalala khona ubusuku bonke, njengoMama nobaba obala embhedeni wabo. Khona-ke, uma ungakakwenzi kakade, hlela umshini womshini we-crib ngakho-ke kusesimweni esiseduze kakhulu phansi. Uma i-mattress ephansi nokuntuleka kwezinsimbi zokukhuphuka okwamanje akuvimbeli ukuphunyuka, unezinketho ezimbalwa.
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Ungase ucabange ukuthenga enye yamanethi okuphepha atholakalayo okwemakethe afanele ngaphezulu kwesiphakamiso njenge-dome enkulu. Lawa manetha ahlale ebonakala sengathi ufaka ingane yakho ejele, kodwa iyisixazululo sesikhashana (nabo bayakujabulela ukugcina izilwane ezifuywayo ziphuma ezikhungweni).
Uma izintambo zokuphepha zingesona isitayela sakho, cabanga ukufaka isango ngaphesheya komnyango wakhe noma ukusebenzisa ikhava yokuphepha yokuthi ingane yakho ngeke ikwazi ukuvula. Uma uhamba lo mzila, noma kunjalo, qiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi igumbi lomntwana wakho alinakuvimbela ingane ngokuphelele.
Njengoba ingane yakho isondela kabili, uzoqala ukuhlanganisa ukukhuphuka nokugxuma ngenkani yokuwa futhi angase aqaphele ngokwengeziwe.
Ungasiza le nqubo ngokumkhumbuza- "Khumbula ukuthi wawa kanjani futhi waqhuma ikhanda lakho wakhala?"
Noma yini eniyenzayo, musa nje ukuyeka futhi ubeke imithwalo ejikeleze isikhala, njengoba abanye abantu benza. Ngenxa yokuthi imithwalo ingashintsha futhi ibonise phansi, lesi akusona isisombululo esihle sesikhathi eside.
Isikhathi seTwin Bed
Isinyathelo esilandelayo "umbhede omkhulu wezintombi," okungaba umatilasi phansi noma embhedeni wamabili. Umbhede womabili kufanele uphonswe odongeni, ngesitimela sombhede ngaphandle. Lokhu konke kusebenza kuze kube sekuyisikhathi sokufunda kwamanzi lapho izwe liba likhulu nakakhulu!
U-Armin Brott, ohlonishwa yisikhathi njenge "superdad's superdad," uye wabhala noma wabhala ngokubhaliwe izincwadi eziyisithupha ezihlonishwayo ngokubaba, kuhlanganise nomagazini wesibili osanda kukhishwa we- Fathering Your Toddler: Umhlahlandlela Kababa Wonyaka Owesibini Nesithathu . U-Armin Brott usanda kukhishwa i-DVD entsha, "Ibhokisi lamakholi amasha ... ngoba izinsana aziveli nemiyalo!" Izihloko zakhe zivele eNew York Times Magazine , Newsweek , American Baby , Parenting , Child , Health Men kanye neThe Washington Post phakathi kwabanye. I-Armin ingumsakazo we-experience nesithameli se-TV futhi ibonakale kuNamuhla , i-CBS Overnight , i- Fox News , ne- Political Engalungile . Ungumngane we "Positive Parenting," isimiso somsakazo wamasonto onke eSan Francisco Bay Area. Vakashela i-Armin ku-www.mrdad.com.