Ukukhuluma Nabangane Umndeni Nabanye Ngokulahlekelwa Kokukhulelwa Kwakho
Ngesikhathi besalokhu bejwayela izindaba ngokwabo, imibhangqwana eminingi ihlukumeza indlela engcono kakhulu yokwazisa abantu empilweni yabo mayelana nokukhulelwa kwesisu okwamanje kanye nokunye ukulahleka kokukhulelwa . Ukuphula izindaba kungase kube nzima uma umndeni nabangani beye basekela futhi bejabule ngokukhulelwa. Ukutshela abantu mayelana nokukhulelwa kwesisu noma ukubeletha kungabuye kube inselele uma unabantu abaningi abadinga ukutshelwa.
Nazi amathiphu ambalwa okuthola ukuthi umsebenzi ungenziwa kanjani ngendlela engeke ibe yikhokhisa kakhulu kuwe, kodwa ake abathandekayo bazi ngalesi simo.
Gcina kube lula
Awudingi ukunikeza ulwazi oluningi ngalokho okwenzekile. Ungatshela abantu ukuthi, "Siphumelele isisu. Udokotela wathi kwenzeke ngezinye izikhathi." Ngaphandle kwalokhu, yabelana nganoma yiluphi ulwazi olukhululekile ukwabelana nabo. Uma abantu bakucindezela ngolwazi ukuthi awulungele ukukhuluma, kuhle kakhulu ukuvala ingxoxo, "Ngifuna ukukwazisa, kodwa asikho okwamanje ukukhuluma ngakho. Siyabonga ngokukhathazeka kwakho . "
Ungesabi ukusebenzisa i-imeyili
Uma unezinye izingane, cishe uzofuna ukukhuluma nabo ngomuntu. Kwezinye izihlobo, abangane, noma osebenza nabo, ungase uthole kungacindezeli kakhulu ukusebenzisa ithuluzi lokukhulumisana eliningi njenge-imeyili. Ukuthumela ukuqhuma kwe-imeyili eyodwa enkulu kungakusiza ukucindezeleka uma kuqhathaniswa nokuzama ukutshela wonke umuntu, futhi kuzonciphisa ithuba lokuthi kuzodingeka uphendule ngokushesha izimpendulo ezingaphenduliyo nokuphawula okungaqondakali.
Bhalisa umngane noma isihlobo ukuphula izindaba
Uma unesifo sokubeletha isikhathi esigcwele futhi unabantu abaningi abalinde izindaba abangazi ukuthi kuzoba kubi, bona ukuthi unomngane noma isihlobo esingase uzimisele ukukwenza izingcingo. Ukuba nomunye umuntu usakaze leli gama kungathatha ingcindezi kuwe ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha isikhathi sakho ukubhekana nezindaba zakho.
Lo mbono wokuvumela abanye ukuba bangene ukusiza kusiholela ekuphakamisweni okulandelayo:
Vumela abantu bazi ukuthi yini okudingayo
Abangane bakho nezihlobo mhlawumbe bafuna ukukusiza , kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi abazi ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani. Lapho abantu becela ukusiza, bawuthathe kuwo futhi ubazise ukuthi yini okudingayo. Mhlawumbe ungase ufune ukuthi babheke ezinye izingane zakho ukuze ube nesikhathi esedwa wedwa, noma ungase ufune umngane wakho omkhulu ukuba eze futhi ahlale nawe ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho. Uma abantu bezama ukukutshela ukuthi ungakhulumi kodwa ungazizwa ulungele, bababonge ngokukhathazeka kwabo kodwa bachaze ukuthi awulungele ukukhuluma ngokulahleka.
Yilungele ukuphawula nezeluleko
Ukuphawula okungenangqondo, okungalindelekile kungukuthi wonke umuntu oye waba nokulahleka kokukhulelwa. Yilungele ukuthi uzwe okunye noma wonke lawa mazwana avela kubantu abakuphila kwakho. Khumbula ukuthi iningi labantu alisho lutho olubi lapho bethi lezi zinto; ngezinye izikhathi azi ukuthi yini ongayisho.
Ungacabangi ukuthi kufanele uzithathele yona ukuze ufundise umuntu owenza amazwana angenalwazi, esikhundleni salokho, uqede ingxoxo ngokushesha uma ukwazi ukwenza kanjalo. Asikho isizathu sokuvumela othile ukuba akuzwe uzibi nakakhulu kunalokho okwenzile kakade, futhi akudingeki ukuba ubekezelele amazwi angenangqondo, engacabangi .