Image Body and Young Adult
Isisindo somzimba sekuyisikhathi eside siyisihloko sokukhathazeka kwabantu abaningi. Kusukela kumaphilisi okudla emashumini ayisithupha kuya emadlelweni ama-grapefruit kanye nama-cottage shizi ama-seventyties kumalungiselelo okudla kwangaphambi kokuhlanganiswa okwavela eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye kuya ku-pilice yokudla i-combo fen-phen kule minyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye kuya kumaprotheni aphakeme , ukudla okunamafutha okuphansi i-millennium entsha, sibheka njalo indlela yokunciphisa phansi nokuma .
Ukwengeza kulokhu ukwanda kwezinselele ezemidlalo nezomzimba ezidlulele ezitholile ukuthandwa eminyakeni edlule. Akuyona into engavamile ukuba izinkulungwane zeminyaka zisebenze amahora amaningi ngosuku, zincintisana emidlalweni yamahhashi kanye nemikhumbi yebhayisikili, futhi zichithe izinkulungwane zamaRola abaqeqeshi, amakilasi azimele, imishini yokuzijabulisa kanye nokuningi. U-hardbody uphawu oluyisimangaliso kubantu abaningi, ikakhulukazi labo abahlala emadolobheni aqaphele umzimba njengoMiami, eLos Angeles, naseTattle.
Image Body in Age of Social Media
Kwabancane kanye nabantu abadala, imithombo yezokuxhumana eye yanezela indlela entsha futhi evame kakhulu yokuzibuka yona futhi iqhathanise imizimba yabo nabanye abantu. Amathuluzi atholakalayo ukuguqula izithombe, izinhlelo zokusebenza ezilandwa ngokushesha futhi ezilula ukuyisebenzisa, zingalungisa zonke iziphambeko ezingenasici, ezinqunu ezincane futhi zikhulise ama-biceps, okuvumela wonke umuntu ukuba akhe umzimba - okungenani ku-intanethi - ukuthi bayaziqhenya. I-Snapchat ne-Filters ye-Instagram ingashintsha ukukhanyisa, izithunzi, ngisho noma yiyiphi eyishumi isithombe esibonakala sengathi sivela.
Wonke lawa mathuluzi angamnandi futhi angakhohlisa futhi.
Futhi ngenxa yezicelo eziningi zamahhala, ama-selfie-holic manje anamandla okuguqula imizimba yabo ezithombeni ngendlela ehlelwe ngayo nge-makeup neminye imikhiqizo yobuhle. Uma i-intanethi ibizwa ngokuthi i-democratizer enkulu, mhlawumbe yimuphi umphakathi wezenhlalo oye wavumela noma ubani angene ngaphakathi kwekhasi elihle. Intsha ingakwazi ukumboza ama-pimples, ukugcoba amazinyo ngisho ne-airbrush nge-swayipha yomunwe, ukuphikisana nesithombe sabo ukuze sibe sezingeni elihle kakhulu, elincane futhi elishisayo. - Rachel Simmons, Time Magazine
Impilo Nemifanekiso Yomzimba
Naphezu kwamathuluzi okuguqula lokho abelana ngakho ku-intanethi lapho abantu abaningi abasha bebukeka esibukweni, abajabuli ngalokho abakubonayo. Futhi iqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi ubukhulu bomzimba abuyinto encane phakathi kwabantu abasha. Ngokusho koMnyango wezeMpilo waseMelika kanye nezinsizakalo zabantu, kusukela ekuqaleni kwawo-1960, ukusabalala kokukhuluphala kwabadala ngaphezu kokuphindwe kabili, kwanda kusuka ku-13.4 kuya ku-35.7% kubantu base-US abaneminyaka engama-20 nangaphezulu.
Nakuba uhlobo lomzimba olulungile lusetshenziselwa ukudla nokuzivocavoca , iningi labasilisa nabesifazane abasebenza ngokusemthethweni, kungase kube yilapho abaningi bengenakufinyelela. Akukho ukuphakama komlenze, ukunyathelisa amabhentshi noma amamayela agijimela ku-treadmill angashintsha imilenze emifushane ibe yinde, amabele amancane abe yizikhulu, izinqamu ezibanzi zibe yizinhlamvu ezincane. Ngokusobala, umgomo omuhle kunoma ubani, omncane noma omdala, kufanele abe nempilo enhle ngangokunokwenzeka futhi enze ukuthula nomzimba womzimba owodwa ozalwa naye.
Ukushayisana kwezemidlalo kungaba nomthelela omkhulu kubantu abasha abasha, ikakhulukazi labo ababamba iqhaza njengabancintisana emincintiswaneni yemidlalo. Ngenkathi abesifazane besengcupheni yokusetshenziswa kwe-steroid, kudla kakhulu kubantu besilisa, ikakhulukazi labo abadlala imidlalo ephakeme nasekolishi, lapho ukusetshenziswa kwe-steroid kuye kwanda okungama-37% kusukela ngo-1996.
Indlela Ukwamukelwa Kwemzimba Kuthonya Abadala Abasha
Kunezintambo ezingahle zingakhuthazi impilo nempilo njengoba zikhuthaza ukwamukelwa komzimba, futhi abazali bezingane ezincane kufanele baqaphele lezi zintuthuko kokubili ku-intanethi nasekuphileni kwangempela. Umkhuba we "Ana" uhilela amaqhinga namathuluzi okuphila impilo engaphelele , nge-blogs, amakamelo okuxoxa, amaqembu e-Facebook nokuningi okukhuthaza le ndlela yokuphila eyingozi neyingozi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwesigcawu ukunyakaza kwamanoni, ukunikeza izwi kulabo abakhululekile ukukhuluphala kwabo kanye nesimo sokuthi banempilo, naphezu kwalokho abanye abakucabangayo.
Izinkanyezi eziningi ze-Instagram zivela kulo mphakathi, zakha ingxenye entsha entsha yezinkanyezi zemifashini nezindlela zokuphila ezikhuculisayo.
Kusukela kuwebhusayithi ye-National Association of Fat Acceptance (NAAFA):
Abantu abanamafutha bayabandlululwa kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwansuku zonke, kusukela emisebenzini eya emfundweni ukuya ezindaweni zokuhlala zomphakathi, ngisho nokufinyelela ekunakekelweni kwezempilo okwanele. Lokhu kucwaswa kwenzeka naphezu kobufakazi bokuthi amaphesenti angama-95 kuya kwangu-98 okudliwayo aphelelwe iminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu futhi ukuthi izigidi ezingama-65 zaseMelika zibizwa ngokuthi "zikhulu kakhulu." Umphakathi wethu omncane oqaphele ukholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi abantu abanamafutha banecala ngobukhulu bawo futhi kunembile kwezombangazwe ukugxeka futhi ubahleka usulu. Ukubandlululwa kwamafutha kungenye yezindlela zokugcina ezibandlululwa umphakathi. Abantu abanamafutha banamalungelo futhi badinga ukuqinisekiswa!
Ukwamukelwa komzimba kungukuthi, ukushintshwa okuhle emasikweni ethu - ukwazi ukuthi kukhona ububanzi bezinhlobo, ubukhulu, ububunjwa, imibala, kanye nemikhakha yinguquko enhle futhi ehlangene emithonjeni yethu nasemiphakathini yethu. Akukho "uhlobo" lomzimba ngempela, futhi yilokho ukwamukelwa komzimba okuhle okumele kuthuthukiswe - kodwa njengento yonke, ukweqa ngokweqile kungaba yingozi futhi kungabonakali.
Ingabe Umncanyana Wami Omncane Ulungile?
Kuyisimo esinzima sokuthi umzali kufanele asho noma enze noma yini ngokusayizi komzimba omdala omdala nokuthi bazinakekela kanjani . Ezimweni eziningi - mhlawumbe wonke amacala, empeleni - abantu abasha (nanoma ubani) bayazi ukuthi babheka kanjani nokuthi bazizwa kanjani ngemizimba yabo. Izinga lobuhle abazali abanalo zingahluka kakhulu kulokho izingane zabo zibona zikhangayo. Ngaphandle kokuba umuntu omdala omncane abonakale enesifo esibucayi sokudla noma inkinga yezempilo, kungcono ukubalinda ukuba eze kuwe usizo neseluleko. Uma unemibuzo mayelana nesimo sakho somuntu osemusha, ungaxhumana ne-National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) usizo nokusekelwa.