Ngeke yini kube mnandi ukugubha eduze komntanakho futhi usakwazi ukwenza izinto zifezwe ngezandla zombili? Abazali abaningi baye bathola ukuthi ukubethela ingane kubasiza ukuba benze lokho. Njengoba kuphakama ukuthandwa kwezingane, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uthwala ingane yakho ngendlela efanele. Imikhuba enempilo yokubeletha ingane igcina umntwana ephephile futhi abazali bekhululekile futhi bejabule.
Ngezansi uzothola imithetho yokubeletha ingane ephephile.
Okokuqala, yini engumntwana? Ukubeletha izingane kuye kwaba khona isikhathi eside uma sekukhona izingane. Abazali basebenzise okuthile-isigxobo, indwangu yendwangu noma isithwali esenziwe ngokukhethekile ukuze unamathisele umntwana (noma encane) kubo ukuze bangenasandla. Abantu abaningi badonsa isithombe somama osebenza nengane emhlane lapho becabanga ngendwangu. Nakuba lokhu kukhona ngempela, izingane zokubeletha nazo zihlanganisa nezinye izithwali zanamuhla ezitholakalayo ebhokisini elikhulu lezingane ezitolo. Ukwazi imithetho yokubeletha ingane ephephile kusho ukuthi ungakhetha umntwana ophethe umntwana ofanelwe wena nomntanakho.
Izingane Ziyabonakala
Lona umthetho obaluleke kakhulu wokubeletha izingane. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ungabona ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi kugcina ingane yakho iphephile. Uzokwazi uma ingane yakho inesidingo futhi ikwazi ukuphendula izidingo zomntanakho ngokufanele. Kufanele ukwazi ukubona ingane yakho futhi uhlole njalo.
Uma usebenzisa isithwali esinezingane zakho ngemuva kwakho, lo mthetho kusho ukuthi indwangu ayifuni ikhanda lomntanakho futhi ungabheka esibukweni noma omunye umuntu abone ubuso bomntanakho. Ngaphandle-ngubani ongafuni ukubuka phansi bese ubona ubuso obumnandi bomntwana obuhleka emuva kuwe?
Izingane Zisekhwaleni
Uhlobo oluyingozi kunazo zonke lokuthungela isiphequluli "isikhwama esikhwameni." Lezi zindlovu zanikeza izingane igama elibi.
Akugcini nje ukuthi lezi zindlovu ziphula umthetho wokuqala ngokumboza ubuso bomntwana, zivame ukuphula umthetho wesibili: ingane yakho idinga ukuphumula ekhanda lakho. Lokho kusho ukuthi ukubethela kwakho akulenga phansi phansi okhalweni lwakho. Imithwalo enhle, ephezulu (mhlawumbe phambi kwakho noma emhlane wakho) ikhululekile nakakhulu kumuntu ogqoke umntwana. Abanye abantu bathanda ukubiza lo mthetho ukuthi "ingane iyabusa". I-sling idinga ukulungiswa ukuze ifanelane nomnakekeli, ibe ubuningi kumnakekeli ngamunye ngamunye noma kokubili. Uma ukugoba kwakho kungalungiswa ngosayizi, ungadinga okungaphezu kweyodwa ukudonsa uma wena nomunye umuntu uhlela ukugqoka ingane yakho.
Izingane Ziyinto Ebonakalayo
Lo mthetho ungase ubonakale ungabalulekile, kodwa uma ubona ukuthi lokhu kusebenza uzoqonda kanjani ukuthi kungani sithi umntwana kufanele abe mpo. Ukuvumela umntwana ukuba ahlale endaweni yokubeletha kungalimaza kakhulu ingane yakhe. Ukudonsa isilwane somntwana esiseduze nesifuba sabo kungenza kube nzima ukuhamba nomoya. Ukuba nomntwana oqondile kuvumela ukuthi umntanakho ahlale eqondile ukuze umntwana angaphefumula ngokukhululekile. Lo mthetho ubuye ube nenzuzo yokuvumela ingane ukuba izwe izwe elibazungezile: abantwana bafunda okuningi ngezwe ngaphakathi kwabathwali babo!
I-Hips Yengane Iyanenkinga
I-pelvis yengane isathuthuka phakathi neminyaka embalwa yokuqala.
Amathambo athambile wezingane kanye nemigqa evulekile yenza kube lula ukuba nesimo esibizwa ngokuthi i-hip dysplasia. I-Hip dysplasia iyenzeka lapho ibhola nesigxobo esisekelweni sezinyimba singekho ukuhambisana. Ngenxa yokuthi izinyathelo zomntwana ziguquguquka, kubalulekile ukuthi sivikele isikhumba somntwana lapho sithwala. Gwema izithwala ezithinta imilenze yomntwana ngokuqondile noma ezondeza umntwana ngendwangu. Ingane yakho yokuthutha kufanele ivumele ingane ukuba ihlale kulo muntu othwala futhi ixhase ngemuva kwethanga lomntanakho. Uma ubeke kahle, amadolo omntanakho azohambisana noma aphakeme kunamajoyini akhe we-hip. Ezinye izithwali ezintsha zinikeze ngisho nezinyawo ezinyawo ukuze kuncishiswe ukucindezelwa ezingxenyeni zomntwana.
Ingane yakho izobukeka njenge-sumo wrestler noma i-koala yomntwana ku-carrier yayo. Bazobe bekhululekile kakhulu kulolu hlobo lokuthungatha.
Ukubeletha izingane kuyindlela enhle yokugcina abazali behlenga futhi kusize ukunciphisa isikhathi sezingane ezikhala .