Funda ukuthi Ungayilinda Yini
Ingabe ukhathazekile ngenkulumo yengane yakho nokuthuthukiswa kolimi? Uma kunjalo, awuwedwa. Abazali abaningi bakhathazekile mayelana nezinyathelo zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane zabo kuzo zonke izindawo. Njengazinye izindawo zokuthuthukiswa, izingane zithuthukisa ikhono lokukhuluma nokukhuluma ngezilimi ezahlukene. Ukubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okuxhumana akuzona izibonakaliso eziphelele zokukhubazeka kwenkulumo noma ulimi.
Inkulumo nokuthuthukiswa kolwimi kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi kwenzeka esikhathini esingakapheli isikhathi kunokuba kube neminyaka eyiyo. Kodwa-ke, kunezibonakaliso ezivamile zokukhuluma nokulibaziseka kwelimi ongayilinda .
Izinsana zokuzalwa kuya ezinyangeni ezingu-18
Izigaba zokuqala zokukhulumisana zibandakanya ukuziphatha okufana nokubuka noma ukuphendukela ekuzweni umsindo, ukuhlangabezana nombono womnakekeli, nokwenza umsindo womsindo. Njengoba umntwana eqhubeka ethuthuka, uzoqala ukulingisa ukunyakaza nemisindo yabanye abazungezile. Eminyakeni eyizinyanga eziyishumi nambili, umntwana uqala ukufunda ukuthi abanakekeli bakhe bahlobanise imisindo ethile ngezinto kanye nabantu. Uqala ukukhuluma amagama afana ne-da-da, ma-ma, ne-b ibhodlela.
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ukubambezeleka kungase kube ukukhathazeka uma ingane ikhona:
- Unomkhawulo wokuxhumana kwamehlo noma awuphenduli emisindweni yemvelo yakhe
- Awubuki noma ahlabelele, umsindo womsindo ngezindebe
- Ayiphenduli ingoma yokucula idlala nabanye
- Akubonakali ukulalela noma ukukhathazeka ngamazwi abanakekeli noma izingane zakubo
- Ayenzi ukuthinta okuvamile njengokukhomba into efunwayo, ukuxosha noma ukubingelela
- Kubonakala kungakhululekile, ukukhala ngokuvama ngendlela evamile
Izingane ezinyangeni ezingu-18 kuya ku-24
Abantfwana besiteji kufanele baqale ukubuka abanye endaweni yabo.
Bahlakulela ikhono lokubonisa imizwelo emzimbeni wabo womzimba nokubamba. Bazoqala ukukhombisa amakhono okuqonda, noma amakhono okulalela ngokukhomba izinto lapho becelwa ukwenza kanjalo noma ngokulandela izinkomba ezilula.
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ukubambezeleka kungase kube ukukhathazeka uma ingane ikhona:
- Uqhubeka nokubonisa ukuxhumana okuncane nabanakekeli kanye nezinye izingane
- Kubonakala ukukhombisa uhla lwemikhawulo elinganiselwe
- Akakaqali ukusho amagama angabodwa kubantu abavamile nezinto
- Ayikwazi ukukhomba izingxenye zomzimba ezimbili noma ezintathu ezifana nenhloko, izingalo, izinyawo noma imilenze
- Akukhomba izinto ezijwayelekile noma abantu lapho bebuzwa noma bengakwazi ukukhomba izithombe zezinto ezivamile uma bebuzwa
- Kubonakala kungathandeki endaweni yakhe
- Awuzami ukunaka abanye noma ukuxhumana
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-24 kuya ku-36 Izinyanga
Ngalesi sizukulwane, izingane ziqala ukucula izingoma ezilula zokudlala izingoma noma ukulingisa izingoma ngokudumisa. Baqala ukukhombisa amakhono okukhuluma okukhulunywe ekuqaleni . Bangakwazi ukubiza izinto eziningana ezijwayele emakhaya abo noma kuzilungiselelo zamasuku futhi bangenza imisho elula emibili kuya kwemibili.
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ukubambezeleka kungase kube ukukhathazeka uma ingane ikhona:
- Ayikwazi ukukhomba noma ukusho amagama wezinto ezivamile endaweni yakhe
- Akusho imisho elula efana nokuthi "ufuna ubisi," "ikhaya likaDa-da," noma "isikhathi asihambanga"
- Awujabuli ukulalela izindaba noma ukulandela encwadini
- Awunesithakazelo emibonisweni yethelevishini yezingane
- Ingabe kunzima ukuqonda kunabanye abantwana bakhe ubudala
Ukuphi Ukucela Usizo
Uma usola ukuthi usana lwakho noma ingane yakho encane ingaba nenkulumo nokulibaziseka kolwimi, ungathola ukuhlolwa kwamahhala kusukela ohlelweni lwezingane ezisencane. Ingane yezingane yakho ingakusiza ukuba uthole ukuhanjiswa kulezi zinsizakalo, noma ungathintana nezinsizakalo zokusiza zangaphambi kwesikhathi . Thola ulwazi kwizinhlelo zakho zesifundazwe noma sezwe lase-US kumakhasi omthombo wami wesifundazwe. Izinhlelo zezingane ezisencane ziyizinhla zokuqala ekhasini ngalinye lombuso.