Indlela yokuzuza kakhulu izincwadi ezindala zombala uma ungumzali
Amabhuku ombala omdala asekhulile ekuthandeni, futhi uma ucabangela izinzuzo zabo eziningi, kulula ukubona ukuthi kungani benza ngisho nezinhlu ezingcono kakhulu. Kubazali, lo mkhuba omusha unikeza iziphakamiso eziningi - nezinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuqapha. (Uma ufuna ukuthi izingane zakho zizame izandla zabo kumakhasi ombala omdala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingane zingazizwa zikhungathekile uma zingakwazi ukusebenza kumiklamo eyinkimbinkimbi, isibonelo.) Kuzo zonke, lezi zincwadi ezithandwayo zingakwazi yiba indlela enhle yokuphumula uma ungumzali omatasa.
Yeka ukuthi imibala emibala edala ingaba kanjani inzuzo kubazali
- Kuhle ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka. Njengokuhamba, izincwadi ezindala zembala zizovuselela futhi zizindle, futhi zivumele ukuba ufunde umhlaba, kusho uMarygrace Berberian, uProfesa Wobsizi bezokwelapha we-Art Therapy noMqondisi we-Art Therapy eSikoleni Sezikole eNew York University. (Yiqiniso, ukuhamba kunganikeza ezinye izinzuzo eziningi ngoba umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca, ngakho umbala akufanele ube yinto ongayenza ukuze uphinde usebenzise umsebenzi - kungaba omunye wemisebenzi oyenzayo ukuze unciphise ukucindezeleka, njengokuhamba noma i-yoga. Futhi, kusho uProfesa Berberian, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi nakuba izincwadi zombala ezindala zingasiza ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka, akufanele zicatshangwe njengezokwelapha kwezobuciko, okuyinto inqubo ehilela uchwepheshe osebenza neklayenti.)
- Ikhuthaza ukucabangela nokugxila. Ungagxila emisebenzini eseduze - ukudala isithombe sakho - bese uvala noma okungenani ubeke ivolumu kubo bonke abakwenzayo uhlu kanye neminye imithombo yokucindezeleka empilweni yakho.
- Kuyajabulisa. Esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani izincwadi ezindala zombala zingase zithandwa kakhulu ukuthi yindlela elula yokufeza umuzwa wokufeza. (Futhi njengabazali, sonke siyazi ukuthi kungenakwenzeka kanjani ngezinye izikhathi ukuqeda umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka!) Amakhasi ombala omdala angafakwa phansi uma udinga ukuphatha "Angikwazi ukuthola amasokisi ami angithandayo" uhlobo lwenkinga noma ingane elwa futhi ibuye iphinde iphinde ithole, futhi uma usuqedile, ungase uzizwe unomuzwa wokuphumelela.
- Kulula futhi ashibhile. Njengoba ukucindezela ukucindezeleka kuyahamba, izincwadi zombala ezindala zilula futhi azidingi amakhono akhethekile noma amathuluzi (ngaphandle kwamabhuku namapensela ombala noma noma yini oyisebenzisayo ukukhipha amakhasi). Akufani nokudweba noma ukugcwalisa ingubo engenalutho - akukho ukucindezelwa noma ukwesaba ukwehluleka. Akuyona indlela ehlulekayo, indlela engenangqondo yokuzizwa enomqondo wokuthokozisa ngokushesha, kusho uBerberian.
- Kuyithuba elikhulu lokuthatha ikhefu kusuka ku-tech. Ukusuka ku- phubbing (noma " ukushaywa ucingo") izingane zethu kanye nabashade bethu ukubhekisisa ukubuka uchungechunge lwakamuva noma idokhumenti sisigqila ku-Netflix, sinokuthembela ngokweqile kwi-tech nanoma yini esenza sikwazi ukubuka izikrini kuhle into. (Eqinisweni, esinye sezizathu ezenza kungani iBerberian icabanga ukuthi izincwadi ezindala zokubala imibala zivame kakhulu ngoba, esikhathini esedlule, sagxile kakhulu emisebenzini nasebuchwepheshe; manje, kukhona ukuphikisana nakho konke lokho, nezinto ezifana namaqembu aqoqa noma ubuciko noma ukudweba ubusuku buhamba futhi.)
- Kuyinto ephathekayo. Unesikhathi sokubulala ngenkathi ulinda ingane yakho ukuqeda isigaba sokudansa noma umkhuba webhola lebhola? Amabhuku ombala omdala aphephile, futhi ungaxoxa nabanye abazali ngenkathi usebenza ekhasini. (Kungenzeka ukuthi baqede ukwenza okunye, ngakho-ke, ungathanda ukufaka amanye amakhasi engeziwe.)
- Ungabenza ngezingane. Izingane eziningi ezindala zingakwazi ukubhekana nezinkomba eziyinkimbinkimbi zamabhuku ombala omdala, futhi ngisho nezingane ezincane zingabanika ukuhamba ngokufaka umbala wesigaba - sokuthi, i-mandala - ngamapensela anemibala. Ukuze uthole izingxenye ezincane noma ezengeziwe, abantwana abancane esikoleni bangakwazi ukwenza iziphakamiso zombala futhi baziqhenye ngokwabo lapho besiza abazali babo ukuba benze isithombe esihle. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuzijabulisa nokudlala nengane yakho kubalulekile ngenjabulo yakhe nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo okunempilo ; into elula njengokubala komntwana wakho ingaba enye yezindlela eziningi ongaletha injabulo ekusebenzisaneni kwakho futhi uphumule futhi ujabule ndawonye. Kodwa-futhi lokhu kubalulekile kodwa, nge-capital "B," "U," ne "T" - kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzigcine engqondweni uma ubala nezingane.
Unganiki ingane yakho umklamo onzima kakhulu ukuba umbala. Ingane ingase izwe sengathi amakhono akhe awakwazi ukufana neyakho futhi angase azizwe ecasuke uma engakwazi ukubala imibala enhle kakhulu njengomama noma ubaba. (Futhi izingane, ikakhulukazi izingane ezincane, zizoba namakhono amakhono omsebenzi adingekayo ukuze zibalale lezo zindawo ezincane.) Qiniseka ukuthi ukhetha imiklamo elula yokwenza ndawonye futhi ulondoloze izithombe ezinzima kakhulu ngemuva kokuba izingane zakho zilale, noma uma ingane yakho ilala ukhetha, makabe esebenza nawe kwezinye izindawo futhi akutshele ukuthi yimiphi imibala yokubeka abanye kumiklamo ekhudlwana.
Uma umbala nomntanakho, ungamniki imithetho noma umtshele ukuthi yini noma kanjani okumbala. Futhi uma edala ucezu lobuciko, cela imibuzo eminingi bese ungena empeleni, "kusho uBerberian. Buza ukuthi kwenzekani esithombeni, noma kungani wakhetha imibala ethile yezinto ezithile. Futhi qiniseka ukunikeza udumo nokukhuthazwa okuningi.
Igatsha ngaphandle kwamabhuku namakhasi omdala omdala. Yenza imidwebo yakho uqobo bese ubhala umbala lezo zakhiwo lapho usuqedile. Umdlalo owodwa ongawudlala: Qala ngokwenza i-squiggle, bese wenza ingane yakho ingeze kulokho, futhi uqhubeke uphenduka kuze kube yilapho usungule umsebenzi wakho wokubala, uphakamisa i-Berberian.
Hamba ngaphandle bese usebenzise isikhala somgwaqo ukuze udwebe phansi. Ebusika, ungapenda eqhweni. Futhi uma usuqedile ukubala umbala wezwe lakho, thatha ibhola lebhola, i-Frisbee, noma ezinye izicathulo zokuhamba futhi ugijime ngaphandle. Hlela imidlalo emnandi yangaphandle , noma nje ugijime futhi udlale ukufihla nokufuna. Ukuhleka nezingane akuzona nje kuphela okuhle kubo kodwa okunye okungcono kakhulu ukucindezeleka kwabazali.