Incwadi ukukusiza ngokusebenzisa uhlelo lwekolishi nenqubo yokungena
Ukufaka isicelo ekolishi kuyinkqubo ende futhi inselele. Kusukela ku- SAT yokuqala ngokusebenzisa isaziso sokwamukelwa kokugcina, abazali nabafundi banamathele ngolwazi, ingxoxo, ukuncintisana, imibono kanye nezinto eziningi kakhulu ezenza ekolishi - ikolishi elungile - kubonakala sengathi ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu futhi onzima kakhulu.
Ngenkathi abafundi bethu esikoleni esiphakeme befunda , bezama ukuhlola, bedlala imidlalo yabo yokuzikhethela ngokusemandleni abo ngokuphelele futhi bazama ukungavumeli inqubo yekolishi iphazamise isipiliyoni sokuba ngumncane - esikoleni esiphakeme, abazali bazama ukuhamba indlela eya ekolishi ngaphandle kokushayisana okukhulu - nomntanakho, nomlingani wabo, ngamathemba abo kanye nemibono yalokho ingane yabo okufanele ikhethe futhi yenze ngesikhathi sekolishi.
Akekho umzali ohamba nge-labyrinth ekolishi engayikuzuza encwadini ethi Grown and Flown - kusukela ku-11th Grade Stress kuya ku-Success College . Ebhalwa nguLisa Heffernan noMary Dell Harrington, abadali bebhulogi ethandwa kakhulu kanye ne-website Grown and Flown, enezithombe zikaTeresa Kilman, le ncwadi inikezela konke okushiwo umzali okudingeka akwenze kusukela ngonyaka owedlule ukuze adle ukuhamba ngosuku .
Indlela kanye nezihloko zokwaziswa ezikulo bhuku elibhalwe kahle futhi elimnene kufaka phakathi ukucacisa ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ilungele ekolishi, ukusiza ingane yakho ngokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu ngezinye izikhathi zonyaka owedlule, izeluleko zamakhomishana asekolishi ezivela kwiprofesa ekolishi kanye namathiphu okuqeda ekolishi eminyakeni engama-4.
Enye yezincomo ezisencwadini ethi 12 Izindlela Eziqinisekisiwe Zokusiza Ingane Yakho Ngonyaka Ka-Junior:
8. Funda ukuphrinta okuhle Abazali kudingeka bahileleke kwinqubo yesicelo. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi ezinhlobonhlobo eziningi, izincomo, izithako ezengeziwe kanye nokuningi. Enye yezingane zami cishe ilahlekelwe yisikhathi esiphezulu sesicelo ngoba ukwesekwa kobuciko kuyadingeka ukuthi kuhanjiswe ngo-Okthoba. Enye indodana cishe ayitholanga isincomo esivela kumqashi ngoba wayengekho i-asterisk encane echaza isimo lapho izincwadi ezengeziwe zavunyelwa khona. Babesetadisha izivivinyo, benza imidlalo nemisebenzi ... Ngifunda ukuphrinta okuhle.
Iseluleko esiwusizo esivela kumama owake wahlala khona, okhulile futhi ovela Flown - kusukela ekucindezelekeni kweGrey 11 kuya ekuphumeleleni kweKholeji
UMichelle Miller-Adams, umkhulumeli wendwendwe kwiwebhusayithi e-Grown and Flown, ungumprofesa ohlangene wesayensi yezepolitiki e-Grand Valley State University e-Allendale, eMichigan. Uhlanganyela iseluleko sakhe sobuchwepheshe mayelana nomuntu oneminyaka engu-freshman, kufaka phakathi lolu lwazi olubalulekile:
3. Ukuzibandakanya Woza ekilasini olungiselelwe ngokwanele ukubuza umbuzo wokuqonda noma wenze amazwana awusizo. Ungabi ufulawa lwodonga, kodwa ungabi namandla - abafundi bakho abathandana nabo ngeke bakuthande uma isandla sakho sihlale siqala kuqala. Uma uthumela i-imeyili kumfundisi othile, yenzeni ngesizathu esihle futhi uhloniphe (ungasibheki nathi ngokuthi "dude" noma ngamagama ethu okuqala ngaphandle uma sikucele ukuthi uyenze). Vala ifoni yakho bese ungabhali phansi ngesikhathi sokufunda. Singatshela.
Akuzona zonke izinhlobonhlobo zendlela okumele zenziwe ngayo futhi zikwazi ukwaziswa kule ncwadi. Kuneziningi ezithinta isipiliyoni esingokomzwelo sokubuka izingane zethu zikhula bese zihamba ekhaya, zishiya abazali ngemuva kokuqala impilo entsha. Kulabo abanenkinga enzima ngokuvumelana noshintsho emndenini wabo oguqukayo noma umqondo wokusho ukuthi izingane zabo zihamba njengezindiza ezivela esidlekeni, kunezinhlobonhlobo mayelana nokusho ukuthi ungumama wezemidlalo , uvumele izingane zakho zihambe, futhi ukubhala le ncwadi ukuvala zonke izincwadi kumntanakho.
Njengoba uLisa ebhala enkulumweni yakhe enhle, Ukwazi Abantwana Bami Okuncane Okuncane:
Bese baphuma ekhaya. Bavuka ekuseni ekuseni njengoba beneminye yezinkulungwane zezinye izondlo nangobusuku base behamba. Ekuqaleni ngazitshela ukuthi kwakunjengenkampu (amandla ami okuzikhohlisayo abonakala engenakho imingcele) kodwa ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ngangiyeka ukukhuluma amanga amancane futhi ngiphikisana neqiniso lokuthi ikolishi isuka ekhaya.
Kuningi lokuhlola kule ncwadi kubazali abafuna isikhuthazo nokuqinisekiswa ukuthi konke mayelana nokuthumela izingane zabo ekolishi kuzoba kuhle. Kusukela ezintweni eziphathekayo ezifana nokuthengwa ukuze kudonswe ezindabeni zomuntu siqu njengokuthi uhlezi , Ukhulile futhi uvela-Ku-11th Stress Stress kuya Impumelelo yeKholeji kunokuningi okumele ufundise noma yimuphi umzali wezingane eziqeqeshwe ekolishi.