Izwe lanamuhla elichichima kwenza kube nzima ngezikhathi ezithile ukugwema ukunikeza ingane yakho izinto eziningi kakhulu. Imindeni eminingi inezintambo ezigcwalayo futhi idlula amathumbu amathoyizi agcwele amakhulu - uma kungenjalo izinkulungwane - zamaRandi 'izinto ezifanele.
Kufika iphuzu lapho abazali abaningi banquma khona ngokwanele. Kodwa ukubambisana nokusika emuva akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kodwa ukunikeza izingane izinto eziningi akuphilile.
Eqinisweni, izingane eziphuthumayo zingathola imiphumela yesikhathi eside .
Futhi akuzona nje amathoyizi abiza kakhulu abangela izingane ukuba zishiswe ngokweqile. Iningi labantu abasha banamuhla lihlehlisiwe futhi lihlelwe phansi. Sinesikhathi sokuzivocavoca basketball kanye nezifundo zepiyano kodwa abenzi imisebenzi.
Izifundo ziye zathola ukuthi izingane ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo zivame ukuba abantu abadala abathanda izinto ezibonakalayo. Futhi lokho kungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu. Ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo kuye kwaxhunyaniswa nokungajabuli ngesikhathi somdala.
Izinkolelo ezihola izingane ukuba zibe yizinto ezibonakalayo
Ucwaningo luka-2015 olwanyatheliswa kuyi- Journal of Consumer Research lwathola ukuthi izingane eziba izinto ezibonakalayo zamukela izinkolelo ezimbili eziyinhloko:
- Ukuphumelela kuchazwa yikhwalithi kanye nenani lezinto ezibonakalayo ezinomuntu siqu
- Ukuthola imikhiqizo ethile kwenza abantu bakhangele nakakhulu
Yiqiniso, abazali abaningi abafaki izinkolelo zabo ezinganeni ngezinhloso. Esikhundleni salokho, izingane zihlakulela lezo zinkolelo ezisekelwe kwisitayela sababelethi nabazali babo, kanye nalokho okuye kwaba yinto ehlongozwayo ekhaya labo.
Izenzo Zokuzali ezikhuthaza ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo
Abacwaningi bathole ukuthi imikhuba emibili eyinhloko yokukhulisa izingane ezithinta izinkolelo ezibonakalayo ezinganeni:
- Izingane ezivuzayo ngokufeza kwabo. Ukukhokha ingane yakho ngamamaki amahle noma ukumthembisa i-smartphone entsha uma wenza kahle kwebhola kungamfundisa ukuthi izimpahla ezibonakalayo ziwumgomo omkhulu.
- Ukunikeza izipho njengendlela yokubonisa uthando. Ukususa ingane yakho ngezipho njengesibonakaliso sothando lwakho kungamfundisa ukuthi ukuthandwa kusho ukuthola izipho.
- Ukujezisa izingane ngokuthatha izinto zabo. Ukuthumela umlayezo ohlukaniswe nezinto zakho kuyisijeziso esingase ufundise izingane ukuthi zidinga izinto zabo ezibonakalayo ukuzizwa zihle.
Ubuhlobo Bomzali / Ingane
Ucwaningo lwathola ukuthi abazali abashisekayo nabanothando babevame ukufaka isandla esimweni sengqondo sokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo. Kodwa, abantwana abakhulela emakhaya lapho bezwa khona benqatshelwe futhi bebengase babe nokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo.
Ngokwesibonelo, ingane eyayinomuzwa wokuthi abazali bakhe badumazekile, ingase ifune induduzo ezintweni ezibonakalayo. Noma, ingane engasichitha isikhathi esiningi nabazali bayo ingase ibhekane nesizungu ngokusebenzisa amathoyizi akhe nama-electronics.
Indlela Yokunciphisa Ukuthanda Izinto Ezibonakalayo
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi, akudingeki ukuba ulahle ingane yakho ukuze umvimbele ukuba abe yizinto ezibonakalayo. Kusobala ukuthi kunempilo ukunikeza izipho ingane yakho ngesizathu.
Kungumqondo omuhle wokuthatha amalungelo . Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, umphumela onengqondo kakhulu ungase uthathe ukususa izimpahla zomntanakho eziyigugu, njenge-smartphone noma ibhayisikili. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akusiyo kuphela umphumela omubi owake wakwenza.
Kodwa, kunezinyathelo ezimbalwa ongazithatha ukuze uhlasele umqondo wemvume ezweni lanamuhla:
- Ukubonga ngobuqotho. Ukufundisa ingane yakho ukubonga ngalokho anakho kuzomvimbela ukuba angacabangi ukuthi angeke ajabule ngaphandle kokuba eningi.
- Gxila esikhathini sokubaluleka. Kunokuba unikeze izipho zomntanakho, zihlanganyele emisebenzini elula ndawonye. Thatha uhambo, udlale epaki, noma udlale imidlalo yebhodi ebumbini ndawonye.
- Isibonelo sokuphana okuhle. Ingane yakho izofunda okuningi okuningi ezenzweni zakho, kunokuba amagama akho. Bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungumuntu onomusa futhi onika umuntu obazisa abantu ngezinto.
Kuthatha umzamo ohlanganyelwe wokufaka amanani enempilo kwengane yakho.
Qinisekisa ukuthi unikezela ingane yakho imilayezo enempilo eyomsiza ukuba akhule ukuze abe umuntu omdala onokwethenjelwa, ojabule.
Izinkomba
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