Amathiphu Okuzokusiza Unqobe I-Custody Custody
Ukuvela kweNkantolo kungasabisa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma kugcinwe ingane yakho. Abazali kufanele bahambe kuzo zonke izinqubo zokugcinwa kwezingane njengoba zilungiswe ngangokunokwenzeka. Nansi ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuthi yini ongayilindela ngesikhathi kuqhubeka izinkantolo zenkantolo nokuthi ungalungiselela kanjani imiphumela engcono kakhulu.
Amathiphu okulungiselela
Uma ufaka inkantolo ukuphikisana nokugcinwa kwengane, kubalulekile ukuba ulungele ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukulungiselela kusho ukuthi iziphakamiso zakho zihlanganisiwe, kodwa kusho ukuletha abantu abalungile nokugqoka ngendlela efanele.
- Lungiselela izingxabano zakho. Uma unommeli, bazokusiza ngalokhu; uma kungenjalo, wena ngokwakho ungacabanga ngemibuzo ebalulekile njengokuthi "ingabe nginalo ilungiselelo lokuphila lomntwana wami?" futhi "ngingakwazi yini ukunikeza ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo ingane yami okudingayo?"
- Lungiselela izimpendulo zemibuzo enokwenzeka. Uma unomsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele nengane encane, isibonelo, cishe ijaji lizobuza ukuthi "ingane yakho ihambe kuphi ngemva kwesikole?" Uma uhlala ekamelweni elilodwa lokulala, ijaji lizokwazi ukuthi ingane yakho izolala kuphi. Yiba nezimpendulo zemibuzo enjalo ekulungele ukuhamba.
- Letha abantu abanjengabantwana noma abothisha abangakwazi ukusekela ngokunembile izimangalo zakho zokuba umzali ophezulu.
- Gqoka izingubo ezihlelekile, ezilungele ukugqoka, nezindwangu ezithumela umlayezo "Ngingumuntu omdala onomthwalo wemfanelo."
Lindela Ukubeka Okuncane
Ngokungafani nendaba yobugebengu, indaba yomndeni ingezinhle kakhulu. Ngokuvamile lolu daba lunikezwe esimweni esincane kakhulu kunalokho umuntu angacabanga. Igumbi elisendlini elisetshenziselwa ukugcinwa kwezintambo zokugcina abantwana liyingcosana kakhulu futhi lidlula kakhulu kunezinkantolo ezikhonjisiwe kuthelevishini, futhi bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazoba khona ekamelweni.
Lindela i-Frame Time Limited
Abagwebi, abalamuli, nabanamacala okugcina izingane bazwa amacala amaningi nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, kunomthelela oqinile wokuthi icala lokugcinwa kwengane ngeke lihlale isikhathi eside ngoba kungase kube nezinhlelo eziningi ezenziwa. Abazali ababambe iqhaza ekuqhutshweni kwengane kufanele basebenze nabameli babo ukuze bahlanganise yonke imininingwane futhi bazimisele ukubeka izinyawo zabo phambili esikhathini esifushane.
Hlela izifakazelo eziningi
Ngesikhathi sokugcina ingane iqhubeka, amaqembu alandelayo azokhuluma:
- Abazali
- Ingane (uma ingane ineminyaka yobudala yokwenza isinqumo esinolwazi)
- OFakazi (kubandakanya abasebenzi, izikhulu zezikole, njll)
Amaqembu azofakazela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nengane kanye nabazali. Amaqembu angase futhi akhe umbono lapho umzali angase afaneleke kangcono ukukhonza njengomzali oyinhloko kumntwana.
Lindela isinqumo esisheshayo
Ngemuva kokuba bobabili abathintekayo bevelele uhlangothi lwabo ekuvikeleni ilungiselelo elithile lokugcinwa, ijaji lizokwenza isinqumo sakhe. Uma ufinyelela ukuzimisela ukugcinwa kwengane, ijaji lizokwenza isinqumo ngokusekelwe ekuthandweni kwengane. Isinqumo sejaji sizofaka:
- Ngumuphi umzali okuzobhekwa njengomzali wokulondeka
- Isikhathi sokuvakashelwa, kufaka phakathi amaholidi kanye namavikikiki, lapho umzali ongekho ngaphansi kokuthola ilungelo lokuvakashela
Umzali ongathanda ukwaziswa okwengeziwe ngalokho okumele akwenze ngesikhathi sokulalelwa kwengane kufanele akhulume nommeli wakhe noma ahambele ukuzwa kwengane yomphakathi ukuze azilungiselele icala lokugcinwa kwengane. Into engcono kunazo zonke abazali okufanele bayenze ukulungiselela kusengaphambili. Ngokulungiselela, umzali uzobe esesimweni esihle kakhulu sokunqoba ingane yakhe icala.