Ukubukeka Ngaphakathi Kubuciko Nezokuthuthukiswa Okuvamile
Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili baqhubeka nokwenza izintshisekelo zabo kanye nezintandokazi zabo, ezifakwe ubuntu babo obuhlukile kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi abazali nabanye abantu abadala abaneminyaka engu-8 ubudala baqhubeke nokubonisa ukuziphatha okuhle futhi babeke izibonelo ezinempilo nezibonelo eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala bazoqhubeka nokuthuthukisa amakhono emisebenzini abathandayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibhola lebhola, chess, umculo, ubuciko, noma eziningi zezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa nezithakazelo.
Bakha phezu kwamakhono abaye bakhulisa kokubili ukuqonda nokusebenza ngokomzimba. Ungase udideke uma uqaphela ukuthi ngokuzumayo, ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-8 ayisekho ebangeni eliphansi-esikoleni elidinga ukunakekelwa okuseduze ngenkathi ehlanganyela ezinkambisweni zansuku zonke ezifana nokuhlanzeka komuntu siqu nemisebenzi yakhe.
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili zingase zifune ukufaka isandla esengeziwe ekuthathweni kwezinqumo zomndeni kanye nemigomo ngokusiza ukuhlela ukuthi yini ongayidla noma ukudlala isikhathi somndeni, mahhala. Njengoba izinyawo zabo zitshalwe ngokuqinile ebuntwaneni obuphakathi, izingane ezineminyaka engu-8 zizobonisa isithakazelo ekubeni "abantu abadala" futhi bazokwazi ukuqala ukubhekana nemithwalo yemithwalo nemisebenzi eminingi.
Ukudla
Izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ziqhubeka ziveza isithakazelo ekwenzeni izinqumo zabo mayelana nokudla kwazo nokudla okulula. Ngenkathi izingane ezincane zingase zingabonakali ukungafuni ukudla okunye noma okuthandayo kwabanye, izingane ezineminyaka engu-8 ubudala cishe zifuna izwi elengeziwe ezindabeni ezifana nokuthi yini umndeni wakho othenga esitolo noma okudingayo ukuze uthole isidlo sakusihlwa.
Ukucindezela kontanga nakho kungadlala njengoba izingane ezineminyaka engu-8 zibona ukuthi iziphi ukudla okukhethwa abangane babo; uma abangane babo abaningi bedla ukudla okungenamsoco kanye ne-soda, ingane eneminyaka engu-8 ingase ifune ukulandela isibonelo sayo.
Lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sabazali ukufaka imikhuba yokudla enempilo enganeni yabo ezohlala isikhathi eside.
Ngokufundisa ingane eneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ukuthi yini okukhetha ukuyenza ukuze ube nokudla okulinganiselayo nendlela yokunciphisa ukukhetha okungalungile, abazali bangabeka isisekelo sokhetho olunempilo ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ihlale iqinile futhi iphilile empilweni yakhe yonke.
Ukulala
Izinto eziningi, ezifana ne-TV, amakhompiyutha, imisebenzi yangaphandle , nomsebenzi wesikole, zinganquma inani lamahora obuthongo bakho abaneminyaka engu-8 ubudala. Kodwa kubalulekile ukusungula imikhuba emihle yokulala ukuze ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-8 iqhubeke yenza ubuthongo kuqala. Zama ukugcina amadivaysi e-elektroniki afana nama-TV namakhompyutha aphuma ekamelweni lomntanakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uzovimbela noma iyiphi i-caffeine engcolile ekudleni kwengane yakho ngokungamniki ushokoledi ngaphambi kokulala.
Ukubaluleka kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni kwengane, futhi ukungatholakali okwanele kuboniswe ngendlela engathinteki ukufutheka kwengane, ikhono lokunaka, nokuziphatha, okwenza ubuthongo kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka esikoleni. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engu-8 kufanele athole amahora angu-10 kuya kwangu-11 okulala ubusuku bonke.
Imisebenzi
Ukubeka imisebenzi yasendlini kubantwana bakho kungasiza ukwakha ukuzethemba, ubanike umqondo wemfanelo, nokunye okuningi. Lapho uneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, ingane yakho inokulawula ukulawula, ukusebenzisana nokuqapha ukwenza imisebenzi enzima kakhulu endlini, njengokukhetha ukuhlanza izingubo nokuhlanza izingubo ezihlanzekile, ukulayisha i-washing machine, ukulayisha ukudla kanye nokusiza ukudla okudliwayo.
Abazali bangase futhi bafune ukunikeza ingane yabo eneminyaka engu-8 ithuba lokuthola imisebenzi ethile yasendlini ukuze basize ukumfundisa ngendlela yokuqonda nokuphatha imali . Eminye imisebenzi, njengokuzenzela umbhede wakhe nokugcina igumbi lakhe lihlanzekile, noma kunjalo, lingasebenza kangcono njengendlela evamile okulindelekile engabanjwanga nesabelo.