Iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqonda izingane ezinesiphiwo? Ungabheka uhlu lwazo izici nezici , futhi ubone ukuthi yiziphi izici ingane yakho enayo. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi ayikho indlela esheshayo futhi elula. Ungabheka futhi incazelo ephelele kakhulu yezici ezivamile ezijwayelekile zezingane ezinamakhono . Kungasiza, futhi, ukufunda izincazelo ezihlukahlukene zobuciko .
Kodwa enye indlela yokuqonda izingane ezinesipho ukuqala ukwazi okuthile mayelana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zobuphiko ongase ubone ezinganeni. Khona-ke ungase ufune ukubheka izici zobuntu ezihlukahlukene ezinganeni eziningi ezinezintandokazi, ukuziphatha okuboniswa izingane eziningi ezinezintandokazi, nezinkinga zokuthuthukisa nezomzwelo abazizwayo. Uma uqala ukubheka konke lokhu ndawonye, ungaqala ukuthola ukuqonda kwamakhono.
Isipho
Kunzima kakhulu ukuthola isibambiso kunoma yiliphi i-giftedness. Akekho owake wakhula ngencazelo ephelele. Ngihlale ngithi izingane ezinesipho zifana nezinkondlo - uyazi uma ubona eyodwa, ucabanga ukuthi uyazi ukuthi yini eyenza inkondlo - noma ingane enesipho. Isifiso sasihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezintathu: ngezibalo, ngamazwi, noma emhlabeni jikelele. Yini enye efana nayo? Ngezinye izikhathi abantu abaqondi kahle izipho futhi bakholelwa ukuthi izingane ezinezintandokazi ziyizingane "ze-hothouse" kuphela .
Ngenkathi ezinye izingane ezinesiphiwo singakwazi "ukuhlelwa phansi," akusikho konke okwenzayo!
Izici zobuntu
Amaningi amaningi anesipho abelana ngezici zobuntu ezifanayo. Eqinisweni, izingane eziningi zinezici ezifanayo ukuthi lezi zici ngezinye izikhathi zibhekwa njengengxenye yobuphiko. Nakuba kulula ukukusho lokho, akulona iqiniso ngokuphelele.
Akuzona zonke izingane ezinesipho ezinamakhono, ngemuva kwakho konke. Isibonelo, izingane eziningi ezinamakhono yizethulo, kodwa akuzona zonke. Futhi abaningi babo bangabantu abaphelele (okungaba kuhle noma kubi), kodwa hhayi bonke. Futhi abaningi babo banamakhono amaningi - banamathalenta amaningi namakhono - kodwa akubona bonke abakwenzayo. Kodwa futhi, lezi zici zibonisa kaningi ezikaneni ezinezintandokazi, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukuqonda, ngokujwayelekile, ukuthi yini okufanele unikezwe isipho, ubuke lezi zimfanelo zobuntu.
- I-Extrovert
- Introvert
Izintandokazi
Izici zobuntu kuyinto eyodwa; ukuziphatha kungenye. Ezinye zezimfanelo namakghono wezingane ezinamakhono zibonakala ziholela ekuziphatheni ezithile. Isibonelo, ezinye izingane ezinezipho ezizishoyo zingakwazi ukuzifundisa ukuthi zifunde eminyakeni esemncane kakhulu, ngaphambi kokuba ziqale isikole. Abanye basebenzisa amakhono abo okukhuluma kanye namandla okucabanga ukuze baphikisane ngezinto ezinhle kakhulu phansi kwelanga - banjengabameli abancane. Ezinye izingane ezinezintandokazi zihamba phambili futhi zijabulisa abafundisi. Eqinisweni, ezinye zihlukile. Bawa yisisulu sokuthi bangaphansi noma bangayinselela konke okushiwo uthisha noma akwenzayo. Kodwa futhi, ukuqonda lezi zindlela zokuziphatha kungakusiza uqonde izingane ezinesiphiwo.
Izinkinga Zentuthuko Nezimo Zomzwelo
Izingane ezinezintandane zithola izinkinga ezithile zentuthuko nezomzwelo ezinye izingane ezingaboni.
Njengani? Ukuthuthukiswa okungenasisekelo kwesinye. Futhi leyo ntuthuko ingaletha nazo ezinye izinkinga. Ukucindezeleka okukhona kungabhekana nezingane ezinezintandokazi - ngisho nasezinsukwini ezincane. Lokhu ukucindezeleka akufani nokucindezeleka okuyimpendulo kumcimbi wangaphandle, njengokufa kwesilwane. Futhi okubili okuhlukile kuyinto kuphela izingane ezinezintandokazi ezingabhekana nakho. Kungani? Ngoba kuhlanganisa ubuhle! Ngesinye isikhathi, abazali bangase bakhathazeke ngokuthi ingane yabo ekhuluma kabi ihlushwa yi-hyperlexia. Kodwa isithakazelo esibucayi ngamazwi anikezwe izingane ezinamagama namagama akufani ne-hyperlexia. Kuhle ukwazi umehluko.
- Ukuthuthukiswa okungenasisekelo
- I-Asynchronous Development Syndrome
- Ukucindezeleka okukhona