Ukusingatha Ukuziphendulela Uma Ungeke Ubelethe Amawele Akho Amaningi noma Iziqu Eziningi
Naphezu kwemizamo yabo engcono kakhulu, omama abaningi beziphindaphindiwe abakwazi ukuncelisa amawele abo , ama- triplets , noma ngaphezulu. Izithiyo ababhekana nazo ziningi. Kwezinye izimo, ukukhulelwa kokukhulelwa okunzima kuthatha isidumbu esinjalo emzimbeni womama ukuthi akakwazi ukukhiqiza ubisi obanele. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphindaphinda okuzalelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kudinga ukwelashwa okwenza imvelo engasekelayo yokuncelisa.
Futhi kaningi, izidingo zokunakekela izinsana ezimbili noma ngaphezulu zivele zidale ukucindezeleka okukhulu. Ngemilomo emibili yokondla, kungenza kube lula ukuthola okunye.
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Akunakuphika ukuthi ubisi lwebele lubanika ukudla okunempilo kwabantwana. Ubufakazi bucacile futhi izimpikiswano ziningi. Abomama beziphindaphindiwe bayazi kahle izinzuzo ; zichazwe kuwo wonke amabhuku, iwebhusayithi, kanye nomagazini we-magazine. Abangane abahlose kahle, izihlobo, kanye nabasebenzi bezokwelapha baphinde baphinde bavuselele amandla amandla okuncelisa ingane njengoba bekhuthaza abomama ukuba baqhubeke nokuhlengikaza. Unina omningi wezinxephezelo abaxhasi abakhulu bokuncelisa; ngokuqinisekile babeyokwazi uma bekwazi.
Wonke umshini omuhle unzima kakhulu ezinhliziyweni zomama abakhathazekile. Abaxhasi bokubeletha bayakhuthaza cishe njengendlela yokugcina imilingo yazo zonke izinkinga zokuphila: ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngokushesha, ukugcina imali eningi, ukwehlisa ingozi yomdlavuza, ukwenza izingane zakho ziqaphe, ziphile futhi zivikeleke kakhulu.
Ngezansi: ungumama ongcono uma ukondla isifuba.
Kubomama abangenakukwazi ukusebenza, icala lingaba likhulu. Bafuna kakhulu ukunakekela izingane zabo, kepha abaphumelelanga. Baye bafunda izincwadi, bafuna usizo lwabaqeqeshi bezokwelapha , balwela futhi baqhubeka bephikelela. Kwezinye izimo, bazinikela impilo yabo kanye nempilo yabo emzamweni.
Abesifazane abanamaphilisi abo abangela umuthi wokwelashwa bangase bazizwe sengathi umzimba wabo uyabathungisa futhi. Bazizwa bengasebenzi. Bazizwa behlulekile.
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Ukuzibophezela ngokubeletha akukhiqizi. Akusizi inqubo ye-lactation futhi ayikhiqizi noma iyiphi inzuzo kumama noma ezinganeni. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi unecala ngokungabelisi amawele akho noma ama-multiples, yikhulule. Cabanga ngalezi ziqinisekiso:
- Yiba nempumelelo; lokhu akuyona ukwehluleka. Ngesikhathi ukubeletha ngokuqinisekile kunika izinzuzo, hhayi ukuncelisa ingane akuyona eyingozi. Ngeke kubangele ukuthi izingane zakho zibe nezifo ezincane ezigulayo nge-IQ eziphansi. Kukhona amawele amaningi namaphilisi athole ifomula njengabantwana abajabulayo, abanempilo, abahlakaniphile, abavikelekile. Lokhu kuyinto eyodwa kuphela yendima yakho njengomama; kunezinye izindlela eziningi, eziningi ezithinta inhlalakahle yabantwana ngendlela enhle.
- Yazisa ukuthi ungumama ongcono kulawa bantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyabondla kanjani . Usenze isinqumo sokubondla ngendlela engcono kakhulu - okukhethwa kukho okunempilo kuwe nakwazo ezimweni zakho zamanje. Qinisekisa ikhono lakho lokubazali.
- Nqamula isahlulelo. Abantu abanikezayo abazange bahambe ezicathulweni zakho. Benza okulungile emndenini wabo; wenza okulungile ngokwakho.
- Yazisa umzamo owwenzile - noma yiliphi inani lobisi lwebele olwenziwa izingane zakho luzobanikeza izinzuzo ezibalulekile.
- Zizungeze ngokusekela. Hlanganisa nabanikazi bezandla bese uthola isikhuthazo kulabo abanikezayo. Uzothola ukwesekwa okuningi kumama wakho wendawo weqembu lezinkampani eziningi kanye ne-intanethi.