Bangaki Abaqala Ukukhulelwa Ngemva KweziNye, Izinyanga ezintathu, Izinyanga eziyisithupha, noma unyaka
Ungasheshe ukhulelwe kanjani? Nakuba imibhangqwana eminye ingase ikhulelwe inyanga yokuqala abazama ngayo, iningi lizokhulelwa emva kwezinyanga ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha. Abanye kuzodingeka bazame kuze kube unyaka.
Yiziphi Izimo Zakho Zokuthola Ukunakekelwa Okufanele?
Abacwaningi baseJalimane bazibuza ukuthi bangashadile bangalindela kanjani ukukhulelwa masinyane. Babenesithakazelo ikakhulukazi ekutheni ukungabi namuntu okujwayelekile nokuphefumula kungukuthi.
Ukungabi naso kungachazwa ngokweqile njengomuntu othatha isikhathi esingaphezu kwesilinganiso sokukhulelwa, kodwa ekugcineni uyophumelela eyedwa ngaphandle kosizo.
Abacwaningi babe nomuzwa wokuthi ukucwaninga kwangaphambili ukuthi maduze imibhangqwana ingalindela kanjani ukukhulelwa imibhangqwana engapheli ngempela .
Futhi, izifundo zangaphambilini zazincishiswa ngenxa yemvelo yazo. Ngamanye amazwi, izibalo zahlanganiswa emva kokukhulelwa zafinyelelwa futhi aziqoqiwe kusukela ekuqaleni. Kuthiwani ngemibhangqwana engakaze ikhulelwe?
Kulesi sifundo, iqembu labesifazane abangu-346 babesebenzisa izindlela zokuhlela umndeni ukukhulelwa. Ukuhlelwa kwemindeni yemvelo kufaka izinto ezinjengomzimba we- basal lokushisa ishadi kanye nokubona komlomo wesibeletho . Basebenzisa la mathuluzi ukuze banqume ukuthi yiziphi izinsuku zabo ezivundile kakhulu.
Leli qembu lamabhangqwana laliyazi ukuthi yiziphi izinsuku zokulala ocansini uma befuna ukukhulelwa, ngakho ukuziphatha okubi ngokobulili kungeke kube ngemuva kokuhluleka ukukhulelwa.
Imiphumela iyathakazelisa:
- Kulaba besifazane abangu-346, abesifazane abangu-310 bakhulelwe
- Amaphesenti angu-10.4 asele, noma abesifazane abangu-36, abazange bakhulelwe
- Ngemuva kwenyanga eyodwa yokuzama, amaphesenti angu-38 ayekhulelwe
- Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezintathu zokuzama, amaphesenti angu-68 ayekhulelwe
- Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha zokuzama, amaphesenti angu-81 ayekhulelwe
- Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyishumi nambili zokuzama, amaphesenti angu-92 ayekhulelwe
Uma ubuke kuphela imibhangqwana eyakhulelwa ekugcineni futhi yabasusa abesifazane abangakhulelwa ...
- Amaphesenti angu-42 akhonywe ngenyanga yokuqala yokuzama
- Amaphesenti angu-75 ngenyanga yabo yesithathu
- Amaphesenti angu-88 ngezinyanga eziyisithupha
- Amaphesenti angu-98 ezinyangeni ezingu-12
Kuthiwani Ngeziqabane Ezingazange Zithathe Umama Ngemva Konyaka Omunye?
Kuthiwani ngalabo abangakhulelwa emva konyaka owodwa?
Uma ungakhulelwe ngemva konyaka owodwa wokuzama-noma emva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha uma uneminyaka engu-35 noma ngaphezulu-khona-ke kufanele ubone udokotela wakho.
Nakuba amaphesenti angu-10 emibhangqwana ingase ingakhulelwe emva kwezinyanga ezingu-12 zokuzama, ingxenye yaleli qembu izokukhulelwa emva kwezinyanga ezingu-36 zokuzama.
Amaphesenti angaba ngu-5 emibhangqwana azama iminyaka emine futhi angakhulumi. Leli qembu lamabhangqwana lalilingeke likhulelwe ngaphandle kosizo lwezokwelapha.
Kuthatha isikhathi eside kangakanani ukukhulelwa emva kocansi?
Lo mbuzo ohlukile kodwa owodwa abantu abaningi abazibuza ngawo! Ake sithi ukhulelwe ngenyanga enikeziwe. Kuze kube nini usulele ucansi?
Okokuqala, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi ukukhulelwa kweqanda akukona ukukhulelwa. Hhayi okwamanje. Noma yikuphi umbhangqwana oye wadlula ukwelashwa kwe-IVF futhi waba nokudluliselwa kombungu "ongazange unamathele" kungakutshela lokhu.
Ukuze ukhulelwe, i-embryo idinga ukuzakhela yona ekugqunyeni kwe-endometrial .
Okwesibili, udinga ukwazi ukuthi isidoda singasinda emkhakheni wesifazane wokubeletha izinsuku ezinhlanu kuya kweziyisithupha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ulala ocansini ngoMsombuluko, kodwa ukuvuthwa okwenzekayo kungenzeki kuze kuLwesihlanu, ukukhulelwa kweqanda kungenzeka izinsuku ezine kuphela emva kokuba ulale ucansi.
Kodwa-ke, uma ulala ocansini ngoLwesihlanu, kanti ngoLwesihlanu yilo suku ovula ngalo, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka ngaphakathi kwehora. Noma, kungathatha amahora angu-12. (Uyakwazi ukukhulelwa uma ulala ocansini ngosuku ngaphambi kokuvuthwa .)
Uma sekufakwe umanyolo, kungakabiphi ngaphambi kokuba umbungu manje uzifaka emgodini we-uterine?
Lokhu kuthatha isilinganiso phakathi kwezinsuku ezingu-7 kuya kwezingu-10 kodwa kungenzeka ezinsukwini ezingu-5 emva kokuvuthwa.
Ukuqaphela konke lokhu, lokhu kusho ukuthi ungakhulelwa masinyane emva kwezinsuku ezingu-5 ulale ucansi noma ezinsukwini ezingu-16!
Ngesinye isikhathi, abesifazane bazozibuza ukuthi sebevele bephethe izimpawu zokukhulelwa ngosuku emva kokuba benesondo esingavikelekile. Bangase "bazizwe bekhulelwe," kodwa leyo mizwa ayihlobene nanoma yikuphi ukukhulelwa noma ukukhulelwa. Ngeke ube nezibonakaliso zangempela zokukhulelwa noma izimpawu kuze kube yilapho usungulwa khona, okungukuthi okungenani izinsuku eziningana emva kokuya ocansini.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Uma ngabe uzama izinyanga ezingaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, ungakhathazeki okwamanje. Qhubeka uzame. Uma uneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-35 , futhi ulokhu uzama izinyanga eziyisithupha, bheka udokotela.
Njengoba iminyaka ingaba yisici, kubalulekile ukuthi ungalindi. Ungase ucabange ngokwakho! Noma kunjalo, kungcono ukukhishwa. Qiniseka ukuthi konke kulungile.
Kuthiwani uma uneminyaka engaphansi kwengu-35, uzame izinyanga eziyisithupha, futhi ungafuni ukulinda kuze kudlule unyaka owodwa? Abanye odokotela ngeke benze ukuhlolwa kokuzala kuze kube unyaka odlula abesifazane abancane kuneminyaka engama-35.
Kodwa-ke, uma usuqedile ukulala ocansini ngalunye kulezi zinyanga eziyisithupha, ungase ukwazi ukunikeza udokotela wakho ukuphenya ngokushesha. Enye indlela yokubonisa lokhu ikhalenda lokuzala .
Uma ngabe uzama unyaka futhi awusakhulelwe, kufanele nakanjani ubone udokotela. Uma ngabe uzama iminyaka emibili, emithathu noma emine, ulindeleni?
Ezinye imibhangqwana inethemba, hhayi ukufuna ukubhekana nomculo. Lokhu kuyaqondakala ngokuphelele. Kodwa khumbula, ukuhamba kwesikhathi kunganciphisa amathuba okuthola ukwelashwa okusebenzayo. Kungcono ukufuna usizo ngokushesha.
Imithombo:
UGnoth C, Godehardt D, Godehardt E, Frank-Herrmann P, Freundl G. "Isikhathi sokukhulelwa: imiphumela yeJalimane okuzofundwa kanye nomthelela ekuphathweni kokungabi nabantwana." Ukukhiqizwa kwabantu . 2003 Sep; 18 (9): 1959-66.
UGnoth C, Godehardt E, Frank-Herrmann P, Friol K, Tigges J, Freundl G. "Incazelo kanye nokusabalalisa kokungabikho komuntu kanye nokungasebenzi." Ukukhiqizwa kwabantu . 2005 Meyi; 20 (5): 1144-7. Epub 2005 Mar 31.