Lapho abantu abaningi becabanga ngamaholide, bacabanga ngezingane. Kodwa akukho sizathu sokuthi kufanele ube nezingane zokujabulela amaholide asebusika noma amaholide. Imibhangqwana ingadala amasiko kaKhisimusi. Ayikho izingane ezidingekayo.
Kulabo abangakwazi ukuba nezingane, amaholide kungaba yisikhathi esinzima. Lokhu kuyiqiniso kulabo abanezinkinga zokwelashwa kanye nokungabi nabantwana okungezansi .
Kungaba nzima nakakhulu kulabo abaye bakhetha ukungabi nabantwana noma ukubambezeleka ukuba nabo .
Izikhangiso zikaKhisimusi zifaka amamama kanye nabazali babelana ngezipho nezingane, futhi ungase uzizwe u-nostalgic mayelana nezinkumbulo zakho zeholidini.
USanta akavakashele abantu abadala. Ukhona lapho abancane. Ingabe kukhona isizathu sokushiya amakhukhi nobisi uma nje wena nomlingani wakho?
Ngalokho kusho, kuthiwani ngoMnu. Santas owedlala, odumile yi-Rockettes? Kungenzeka ukuthi babengenzelwe izingane.
Kunezindlela eziningi abangenazo izingane abangakujabulela uKhisimusi. Ungavumeli ukungabi nabantwana noma ukungabi nabantwana kukugcinile ekudaleni amasiko omndeni wakho ngamaholidi.
Nazi ezinye imibono okufanele uzicabangele.
Amaqembu wamaKhisimusi wamahhala
Amaqembu kaKhisimusi akudingeki abe ngumndeni kuphela. Uma ungakamukeli izimemo kumcimbi ongenawo ingane, khona-ke ubambe iqhaza lakho.
Lapho wenza uhlu lwakho, cabangisisa abantu obaziyo abangenazo izingane ezincane ekhaya.
Lokhu kungafaka:
- Abangane abangabodwa
- Bashadile abangenayo izingane ngokuzikhethela
- Ukuzala kuyinselele imibhangqwana
- Izi-esters ezingenalutho
Ingabe uyingxenye yeqembu lokusekela abantwana abangenasifo ? Cabanga ukufaka iqembu lamalungu akho. Kungaba lula noma enhle njengoba ukucabanga kwakho kuvumela.
Hamba uye eHholide
Kungaba nethemba lokuthi kuze kube yilapho umbhangqwana unezingane, zizohamba ekhaya ngamaholidi.
Kodwa ungakwazi ukuphula lokho "umthetho" futhi wenze into yakho siqu. Eqinisweni, kungase kube ngcono emazingeni akho okucindezeleka kwamaholide.
Esikhundleni sokuba nomndeni wakho (futhi cishe eziningi zokukhulelwa noma izingane ezincane), ukukhetha ukuhamba eholidini kuphela nomlingani wakho kungaba yikhuba lakho lekhefu lonyaka. Khetha indawo yothando, mhlawumbe owodwa ongenakwenzeka ukuba abe umthambo womndeni-nezingane.
Noma, thatha ithuba lokujabulela ngempela izindawo zokuvakasha zomndeni njengabantu abashadile. Isibonelo, i-Disney World. Thatha isikhathi sokuba ingane yakho.
Ukuzithandela ukuya ku-Holiday Thenga Abangane Bakho Abahle
Ukuthenga iholide kungabangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu kulabo abanezingane ezincane. Volunteer ukuthenga abangane noma izihlobo ezithwele izingane.
Uzothola ukuthenga ngaphandle kokuchitha imali yakho, ujabulele umoya weholide, futhi usize umngane!
Yiba uninakazi oziqhenyayo noma umalume
Ngokukhanya okufanayo, ngubani othi ungaphazamisa izingane zakho kuphela ngezipho zikaKhisimusi? Asikho isizathu ukuthi awukwazi ukuthatha indima yoMdade oziqhenyayo noma uMalume futhi ugeze izingane zezingane zakho noma izingane zakini ngezipho zamaholide.
Lokhu akuyona ngaso sonke isikhathi indima elula ukugcwalisa ekuqaleni kobuzwa bakho bokungazalwa. Nokho, ngesikhathi, inzalo eningi inselele abantu ukuba bavume leli thuba.
Qiniseka emisebenzini yeSonto leKhisimusi
Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokujoyina i-choir noma ujoyine iqembu lokugcoba. Amasonto amaningi athatha amaqembu futhi angasebenzisa amavolontiya ukusiza ukuhlela, ukusetha noma ukuhlanza amaqembu eholide nezenzakalo.
Kwabanye, amalungu esonto asebenzayo angaba ngumndeni owandisiwe.
Hamba ukukhanya kweKhisimusi Ukubona
Ungase ufune ukuqala umkhuba waminyaka yonke wokushayela nomngane wakho ukuze uhlole izibani zeholide. Mhlawumbe uzokulalela izintandokazi zakho zikaKhisimusi ozithandayo njengoba ushayela. Ukusesha okusheshayo kwe-intanethi kungase kukutshele ukuthi yiziphi izakhamuzi zendawo ezidumile ngokuba zihlotshiswe kahle.
Futhi, amadolobha amaningi athola izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene zokukhanya ngokudumisa amaholide asebusika. Ezinye zalezi zenzakalo zihloselwe ikakhulukazi abadala.
Mema Abangane Ngaphandle Kokuhlobisa I-Christmas Party
Ngubani othi izingane kuphela ezingamjabulisa ukusika umuthi?
Mema abangani abathile ukuthi bahlolisise iholidi ndawonye. Ungamema abangani abadala abadala kuphela, noma ungamema umndeni onabantwana ukuthi usize. Uma ungumuntu onobuqili, ungasetha ngisho neminye imiklamo yabangani abangayenza futhi bayithathe ekhaya.
Nakuba bambalwa abanesibindi sokwamukela umcimbi onjalo, abantu abaningi abadala nabangenabantwana bangathanda ukujoyina iqembu lokudweba uKhisimusi.
Vakashela Umndeni Owudinga Kakhulu
Kuyinto engavamile ukuthola imindeni ihlala yonke indawo ngaphakathi kwe-drive ekhululekile evela komunye nomunye. Lokhu kusho ukuthi amanye amalungu omndeni azoshiywa ngaphandle noma enesizungu ngamaholide.
Ngokuvamile lezi zihlobo ezikhulile emakhaya asebekhulile noma emiphakathini ephilayo esizayo.
Ukwenza umzamo wokuvakashela labo abadinga ngempela inkampani kungabafudumala kokubili kwakho nenhliziyo yabo.
Amavolontiya ngoKhisimusi kwizibhedlela
Amaholide awajabulisi kakhulu kulabo abanjwe esibhedlela, hhayi izingane noma abantu abadala. Izibhedlela eziningi zinezivolontiya ezigqoka njengoSanta noma u-Elves, ozovakashela iziguli.
Khuluma esibhedlela sendawo bese ubona ukuthi ungahlanganyela yini ohlelweni olufana nalokhu.
Ukuzithandela e-Soup Kitchen
Labo abangenakho ukudla ekhaya (noma ngaphandle kwekhaya nhlobo) bangasebenzisa usizo kumaholide.
Mhlawumbe ungaqala isiko lokuzithandela ekhishini lakho le-soup lendawo ngosuku lukaKhisimusi. Noma, ungasiza ekuqoqeni ukudla kwamaholide ngezinkondlo zokudla.
Christmas Christmas for Two
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungakha uKhisimusi yothando nothando kabili, noma unyaka owuthandayo. Ukudla kwamakhandlela okukhanyisiwe, umculo omnandi weholide, nokushintshaniswa kwesipho kungenza iholidi elingaba yedwa libe yindoda esondelene nayo.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Amaholidi angase abe yisikhathi esilingo sengqondo kulabo abafuna izingane kodwa bezama ukukhulelwa. Khumbula ukuthi ungasebenzisa leli holide njengoba ufuna. Dala amasiko akho, futhi uhlele amanye amnandi nokuzijabulisa. Qaphela ukuthi ungabambeki ku "iphethini yokubamba" lapho uqhubeka ukhuluma khona ukuthi uzoza nezinkolelo zeholide "uma usenomndeni wangempela." Ungumndeni wangempela manje.
Njengoba njalo, finyelela ukusekela. Tshela abangani bakho nomndeni ukuthi bangakusiza kanjani , futhi cabangela ukweluleka uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzulazula i-blues.
Umthombo:
UDavid Zuckerman, MSW. Ingxoxo ye-imeyili eqhuba ngoNovemba 29, 2011.