Izindlela 6 Abazali Bangasiza Abantwana Abancane Ukugwema Izinkinga Zomzimba

Abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekuvimbeleni izinkinga zesithombe somzimba ezinganeni ezincane

"Nginamafutha kakhulu." "Ngiyingozi." Amazwi afana nalokhu angase akhathazeke ukuzwa uma evela eneminyaka engu-10 noma eneminyaka eyishumi nambili, kodwa kungaphazanyisa ngempela lapho bekhulunywa izingane njengentsha njengenkulana noma enkulisa yobudala. Ucwaningo oluhlukahlukene lubonise ukuthi izingane zingase ziqale ukukhathazeka ngesisindo somzimba nokubukeka komzimba kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 kuya ku-5 ubudala nokuthi izingane eziningi ezincane ziveza ukungabi nandaba ngemizimba yazo.

Ucwaningo Lwakamuva Lwezinkinga Zemizimba Yomzimba Okuzungezile

Ucwaningo olukhishwe ngo-Agasti 2016 yi-Professional Association for Childcare and Early Years (PACEY), inhlangano ezuzisayo ehlinzeka usizo kulabo abasebenza ukunakekelwa kwezingane kulo lonke elaseNgilandi naseWales, bathole ukuthi akuvamile izingane ezincane kakhulu ukuveza ukunganeliseki ngendlela bheka. Ezinye zezocwaningo lwazo zathola:

• Abaningi abangamaphesenti angama-24 abachwepheshe bokunakekelwa kwezingane baye babika ukuthi babona izingane ezincane ezineminyaka engama-3 kuya kwengu-5 ubudala ziveza ukungabi nenjabulo ngokubukeka kwabo noma imizimba yabo.
• Amaphesenti angama-47 amanga okuqeqeshwa kwabantwana abone ukukhathazeka ngesithombe somzimba kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 kuya ku-10-phinda kabili inani lezingane ezikhathazeka ngomzimba phakathi kwaleminyaka embalwa nje encane.
• Abasebenzi abangu-71 abanakekela izingane bakholelwa ukuthi izingane ziyakhathazeka ngemizimba yazo ngesikhathi esincane.
• Imisho efana nokuthi "Kunamafutha" noma "Anamafutha" avamile phakathi kwezingane; cishe amaphesenti angu-37 abasebenzi bokunakekelwa kwezingane baye bezwa izingane zisho izinto ezinjengalezi futhi abaningi abangamaphesenti angu-31 bezwile ukuthi ingane iyayibiza ngokuthi ikhululekile.

• Amaphesenti ayishumi abasebenzi bokunakekelwa kwengane abika ukuthi sebezwile ingane ethi izwa kabi, kanti amaphesenti angu-16 athi azwile izingane zithi zifisa sengathi zihle noma zibukeke njengomunye umuntu.
• Cishe eyodwa kwabahlanu (amaphesenti angu-19) ochwepheshe bezingane zokunakekela izingane bathi baye babona izingane zilahla ukudla ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi zizobenza zikhuluphele.

Omunye umbiko, okhishwe ngoJanuwari 2015 ngu-Common Sense Media ngoJanuwari, inhlangano engenzi inzuzo esebenza ukufundisa nokunika abazali, othisha, nabakhiqizi amandla mayelana nezindlela zokusiza izingane ziphumelele njengoba zisebenzisa imithombo yezobuchwepheshe, ithola ukuthi isithombe somzimba siqala ukuthuthukisa esemncane kakhulu futhi ukuthi izithombe zigxile ekutheni umuntu ubheka kanjani okungaqondakali, okungaqondakali, nokulingana ngokobulili. Lo mbiko uhlolisisa izifundo ezikhona zendlela izingane nezintsha ezizwa ngazo ngemizimba yazo futhi zathola ukuthi izimpikiswano zomzimba zomzimba ziqala isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokukhulelwa: Izingane ezincane ezineminyaka engama-5 ziqala ukuveza ukungathandi ngemithambo yazo futhi zithi zifuna ukuba zibe mncane. Okunye okutholakele okumangazayo umbiko we-Common Sense Media:

• Amaphesenti angaphezu kwesigamu samantombazane kanye nesithathu kwabafana abancane abaneminyaka engama-6 kuya kweyisishiyagalombili bathi isisindo sabo esihle siba mncane kunazo zonke.
• Ngeminyaka engu-7 ubudala, omunye kwezingane ezine uzame uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha kokudla.
• Amaphesenti angamaphesenti angu-41 amantombazane athi basebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ukuze "bazenze bonakale bepholile."
• Amaphesenti angu-87 abalingiswa besifazane ku-TV aphakathi kweminyaka engu-10 no-17 angaphansi kwesisindo esijwayelekile.

Amathiphu Abazali Okufanele Azisize Izingane Zakha I-Image Body Enempilo

Izingane zifunda ngomzimba womzimba-futhi zithuthukise ukukhathazeka ngokubukeka kwazo-ezivela emithonjeni ehlukahlukene, kuhlanganise nabazali, abangane nabangane, kanye nabezindaba.

Abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuthazeni umuzwa womzimba omuhle emzimbeni. Nazi ezinye izeluleko okufanele uzikhumbule:

1. Buka amagama akho. Ungasho izinto ezinjengalezi, "Ngibukeka nginamafutha kakhulu kulokhu," noma "Angikwazi ukudla lokhu ngoba kuzongenza ngiphule." Ingane yakho ilalele futhi ifunda kusuka kuwe. Ucwaningo lwe-Common Sense Media lwathola ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyisishiyagalombili ezicabanga ukuthi omama bazo azijabuli nemizimba yazo cishe zingenelisekile ngemizimba yazo. Bonisa ukuzethemba emzimbeni wakho nakuwe.
2. Zama ukugxila ekubukeni. Ungakhulumi ngokubukeka kwabantu kanye nemizimba yabo futhi ugxile ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu ngomuntu, njengokuthi bangabanikazi noma abanomusa noma banemikhuba emihle noma basebenza kanzima.

1. Gcizelela ukuzivocavoca nokudla okunempilo ngokweqile. Sebenzisa isikhathi somndeni wenze izinto ezisebenzayo ezifana nokudlala ngaphandle, ukugibela amabhayisikili, nokuya epaki. Uma uya ezitolo zokuthenga, ake izingane zikusize ukhethe izithelo nemifino enempilo futhi ufunde amalebula okunomsoco ndawonye ukuze ufundise izingane mayelana nemikhuba yokudla enempilo .
2. Skena amathoyizi abo. Bheka izibalo zesenzo esithombeni sesitokisi sezingane. Ingabe banezinsizwa ezingenangqondo? Ingabe amadonsa ekamelweni lendodakazi yakho anezilinganiso ezingenakwenzeka ngabantu? Zama ukuhlela lezi zathoyizi ngaphandle noma okungenani uzilinganisele ngezimpawu ezingokoqobo zomzimba womuntu. Kungcono nakakhulu, ukubeka imali emidlalweni yebhodi yokwakha ubuchopho , amapuzzli nezincwadi ezinhle zezingane .
3. Xoxa ngobulili nokuziqhenya komzimba kuzikhangiso nakwabamemezeli. Buka okuqukethwe nomntanakho futhi uma ubona izimakethe noma imibukiso ye-TV noma ama-movie abonisa abesifazane ezembatho ezibonakalayo noma ukwenza ukudla okungenampilo kubonakale kuyilingo, khuluma ukuthi yini engalungile nalezi zithombe.
4. Nciphisa isikhathi sesikrini. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi isikhathi sokuvala isikrini singanciphisa ingozi yabantwana yokukhuluphala futhi ngisho nokuthuthukisa amamaki. Fundisa izingane ukuthi zibuke izikhangiso zokudla okungenamsoco, manje ezilandela izingane eziku-intanethi , ngokuqonda ukuthi zizama ukuthengisa nokukhuluma ukuthi kungani lezi zokudla zimbi empilweni yabo.