Ukuba nePen Pal Kungakhuthaza Ukuthuthukiswa Kwezempilo
Nakuba ukukhulumisana nge-electronic "kuye" kwezwe lethu, othisha abaningi basalungisa ama-international exchange phal exchange for abafundi babo, futhi ngesizathu esihle. Uma i-kati yakho inethuba lokuthola ipeni lamazwe ngamazwe, kungase kube yinto kuwe kanye nengaphakathi lakho okufanele ucabangele. Ipeni pal ingenza okuningi kunokusiza ingane yakho ifunde ngezwe eliseduze naye.
Ngezansi kukhona izinzuzo ezimbalwa zepen pals ezinikezayo.
Amathoni Ukufunda Nokubhala Amakhono
Mhlawumbe ngokusobala, ukubhala nokwamukela ipeni lesandla ngesandla kubhala kokubili kokufunda nokubhala amakhono. Uma ama-tweens esebenzisa imilayezo ye-imeyli nokuthumela imiyalezo, bathambekele ekuthembeleni kakhulu emfushane ( njengeLOL , 2moro, THX), abahluleka ukwenza imali nokubhala kahle, bese ubhala emibintweni esikhundleni semisho ephelele. Nakuba idatha isadingeka ngalesi sihloko, ukubhala isikhathi eside kungakhuthaza ukusebenzisa kangcono amakhono ohlelo lolimi kunokukhuluma nge-elektroniki. Futhi, kusobala, kumnandi ngokwengeziwe ukujwayela ukubhala ngenkathi ubhalela oontanga kunokuba ubhale isifundo somfundisi! Ukwengeza, ama-pals amaningi emhlabeni wonke abhala ngolimi lwabo lwesibili, ebeka ingane yakho indima yesiNgisi "uthisha" noma indima. Le ndima ingase ikhuthaze ngokwemvelo ukuthi phakathi kwakho ukubeka amakhono abo angamaNgisi avela kakhulu.
Ikhuthaza Ukucabanga-Ukuthatha
Njengoba ukukhula kuyasondela, i-tween iyancipha kakhulu.
Ukuzwa izindaba zokuqala ezivela epeni lamazwe angamazwe angakhuthaza ukuthatha umqondo womunye umuntu nokucabanga ngaphandle kwabo. Lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma ipeni lihlala esizweni esinselelekile noma esingenselele kwezopolitiki, noma lapho ipeni lihlala ngezimo ezihluke kakhulu njengendawo yakho.
Ukufunda ngaleyo nkinga yansukuzonke yenkondlo kunganikela ngombono othile "ezindabeni" ubuso obuphakathi kwe-American, futhi unike ingane yakho umbono obalulekile ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu.
Kukhuthaza ukubekezela
Njengoba beqhubeka besuka ebuntwaneni, kancane kancane ukuthuthukisa ikhono labo lokulibazisa ukuzithokozisa noma ukulinda umvuzo ofanelekayo. Njengoba ukubambezeleka kokuthokozisa kuhlobene nemiphumela eminingi emihle, kufaka phakathi impumelelo yesikole , ukukhuthaza leli khono kubalulekile. Imibiko yokuthumela imiyalezo kanye ne-IM isebenza ngokumelene nekhono lokubambezela ukuzithokozisa - akukho lutho olulindele impendulo. Ngokuphambene, izinhlamvu noma amaphakheji avela emazweni angaphandle epeneni angahlukaniswa ngamasonto noma ngisho nezinyanga. Ngokuthatha ipeni, ama-tweens angathola injabulo yokulindela kanye nomvuzo ongase ukwanelise ngokwengeziwe wokuthola okuthile ngemuva kokulinda.
Ikhuthaza Inzalo Emfundweni Yezenhlalakahle
Ukubamba ipeni kungakhuthaza uhlangothi oluphakathi ukuba uthande isithakazelo esikhulu emfundweni nasemlandweni. Siyabonga ngokuyingxenye ku- teenager egocentrism , i-tweens ijwayele ukukhathalela kakhulu ngezihloko ezinokubaluleka komuntu siqu kubo. Ukubamba ipeni esizweni esikude kakhulu kunikeza uxhumano lomuntu siqu, okwenza isifundo sezwe, izombusazwe zomhlaba kanye nomlando wezwe bazizwe bengaphandle kwamanye amazwe, okubalulekile futhi okufanelekile ukunakekelwa.
Usekela ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono omphakathi
Okokugcina, amakhono ezenhlalakahle athuthukiswa ngempumelelo phakathi neminyaka ephakathi. Ukubamba ipeni kukhuthaza amakhono amaningi ayisihluthulelo, kufaka phakathi ukuphindaphinda (incwadi egcwaliswe yibo bonke "mina" futhi akukho mbuzo engenzi ubuhlobo obuhle bepenki!), Ukuzwelana nokukhathazeka okufanayo. Ibuye ivuselele ikhono lokufuna nokuthola izibopho ezivamile, isici esiyinhloko sobuhlobo beqiniso . I-introverted tweens ingase izuze ikakhulukazi emphakathini ekubeni nepen pal. Ipen pal izinika isikhathi nesikhala ukuthola amagama afanele (ngokuvamile baqhwale uma kufanele bakhulume ngaphambi kokuba bacabange) futhi ngokwemvelo kukhuthaza ubudlelwane obujulile, obuncane bokuthi ama-introverts afunayo.
Kukho konke, ukuba nepenti yamazwe ngamazwe kungasiza ekuthuthukiseni nasekukhuliseni kwakho ngezindlela eziningi. Uma kunikezwa ithuba lokuqala ukushintshaniswa okunjalo, dumisa uthisha wakho we-tween futhi ujabulele ukubuka ukuthi i-tween yakho ikhula kanjani kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho.
> Imithombo:
> Burk, Jill. Ama-Pals Pals: Ukubambisana Okuwusizo. 1989. Iphephandaba elinikezwe eMhlanganweni Wonyaka weNkomfa kaZwelonke yokuFunda.