Ukungavunyelwa Komphakathi Kungenzeka Ezintweni Eziningi nangezizathu Eziningi.
Ngokuphathelene nobuhlobo nokuziphatha komuntu, ukususwa kwezenhlalo kubhekisela esenzweni sokwenqaba umuntu ekusebenzisaneni kwabantu. Ukususwa kwezenhlalakahle kungase kungabi yingozi ngokuzithandela. Kwezinye izimo, umbono wengane wokukhishwa kwezenhlalakahle ungaba umphumela, hhayi wezenzo zontanga, kodwa ukungaqondi kahle.
Ukungaxhunyiwe Kwezenhlalo:
Ukungavinjelwa komphakathi okungenasisekelo kwenzeka ngaphansi kwezimo eziningi; Ngokwesibonelo:
- lapho ingane ibonakala ingathandeki ekusebenzisaneni kweqembu futhi ngaleyo ndlela ishiywa ngaphandle kokuxhumana komphakathi ngoba kubonakala sengathi yilokho ingane ikhetha;
- lapho ukuhlukana komphakathi, kwezomnotho, noma kwezenhlalo kubangela izingqinamba ezingavumelani phakathi kwamaqembu ezingane (ngokuvamile lezi zithiyo ziveza ukuziphatha kwabazali babo)
- lapho izingane ezikhubazekile zivinjelwa ezinye izingane ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ukungazi, noma ukungaqiniseki ngokuziphatha
- lapho izingane zigxila ezintweni ezithandayo, amadrama, noma amaqembu futhi aziqondi kahle izidingo noma amathemba abanye
Ukwehlukaniswa komphakathi okungenasisekelo kuqondiswa kalula ngamakhono omphakathi kanye nezinhlelo zemfundo ezisiza izingane ukuba zikwazi ngokwengeziwe imiphumela yezenzo zabo noma izenzo. Kwezinye izimo, kungadingeka ukunikeza izifundo ezithile mayelana nokukhubazeka okuthile; isibonelo, kungase kube usizo ukuhlinzeka ngokujwayelekile izingane ezisathuthuka ngolwazi mayelana nendlela engcono yokuxhumana nomuntu ofunda naye oyimpumputhe noma oyisithulu.
Ukuxoshwa Kwezenhlalakahle
Uma kuhloswe, ukuxoshwa komphakathi kubhekwa njengendlela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane noma ukuhlukunyezwa komphakathi. Ukwehliswa kwezenhlalo okulimazayo kungase kube ngokweqile, njengokungathi ungakhulumi nomuntu, noma kungase kube okucashile, njengokusakaza amahemuhemu ngomuntu ukuze kancane kancane anqatshelwe.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kungenye indlela yokwehlukaniswa kwezenhlalakahle okungaba yingozi kakhulu. Ukuxhashazwa kungathatha izinhlobo eziningi, kusukela ekuhlaselweni ngokomzimba kuya kwesabiso kuziphathamandla ezicashile ezingase zingabonakali kubabukeli bangaphandle. Ukuxhashazwa kungenzeka futhi ngemuva kwamahora esikoleni, ekhaya noma emphakathini.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-Cyberbullying kuyindlela enobungozi yokuxoshwa kwezenhlalakahle okungabangela ukuhlazeka okukhulu futhi, kwezinye izimo ezimbi kakhulu, ukuzibulala . Ukuxhashazwa kwe-Cyber kuhilela amahemuhemu e-inthanethi ekusakazeni, ukuhlukunyezwa, nokuhlukunyezwa. Ngenxa yokuthi abantu abadala ngeke basebenze ezindaweni ezifanayo zokuxhumana zomphakathi njengezingane zabo, kungenzeka ukuthi abazi ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kwe-cyber kuze kube yilapho sekuphuzile.
Ukususwa kwezenhlalo kuvame ukuqhutshwa amantombazane, ikakhulukazi lapho besongelwa ukuthi bazinqatshelwe. Kodwa-ke, abafana bahlanganyela ekukhulekeleni komphakathi ngokweqile.
Ukuphikisana-Ukwenza Ukukhishwa Kwezenhlalakahle Ngokwenhloso
Ezimweni lapho ingane yakho ingabandakanyi ngenhloso, kubalulekile ukuqoqa amaqiniso ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo. Ukuhlangana nomfundisi wengane yakho kanye / noma abanye abasebenzi bezikole yisinyathelo esisodwa esibalulekile; ungase ufise ukugcina ingane yakho esikoleni (uma izimisele ukuyivumela). Uzodinga ukunquma:
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kungaba yisisusa sokubanjwa (lapho ingane yakho ingazuza khona ekuqeqesheni amakhono omphakathi)
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlobo oluthile lukuthi "umqondisi," ukuxosha abanye ontanga ukuthi bangabandakanyi ingane yakho (lapho kwenzeka ukungenelela okubandakanya umqondisi kanye nabazali bakhe kungaba usizo)
- kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ingabandakanywa ngenxa yemikhakha yomzimba noma yokukhubazeka (noma ngabe imfundo, izinhlelo zontanga, kanye nokungenelela komphakathi kungasiza kanjani)
- kungakhathaliseki ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyber kungenye yenkinga (lapho uzofuna ukuqapha ukusebenzisana kwezingane zakho ku-intanethi noma, mhlawumbe, ukuqeda)
Ngaphezu kokuthatha isinyathelo esikoleni sangaphambili, abazali bangasiza izingane zabo ukuba zibhekane nokukhishwa kwezenhlalo ngokuthi:
- ukuhlinzeka ngemvelo engekho-ukwahlulela, esekela ekhaya
- ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ihlanganyele nemisebenzi yomphakathi ehlobene non-esikoleni
- unikeze amathiphu akho namathuluzi wakho wokuzimela
Imigomo ehlobene: ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane , amantombazane asho , ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi
Imithombo:
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UBenenson, uJoyce F., uMarkovits, uHenry, Thompson, uMelissa Emery, noWrangham, uRichard W. Ngaphansi kokusongelwa kokuxoshwa kwabantu, abesifazane abafaki okungaphezu kwamadoda. 2011. Isayensi yezokwelapha.